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Oh no!!!
I went to this summer camp once, and I made friends with this girl and her older brother. They were a bit younger than me, but we were the oldest there. This was about two-three years ago.
Well, the guy added me on myspace, and we talk once in a while. And then kaboom!! he asks me out! I say yes, I don't know why, and then he says that maybe we shouldn't. Ok. No big deal. I don't like you that way anyway. This was two years ago.
Now hes sendng me these messages through myspace like to rate him, and list the things I would potentially be willing to do with him. Well, I only like him as a friend. Period.
What should I do when he sends me these messages? So far, he sent me two, the first one of which I filled out, but I really truly listed the things I would do with him (I think the furthest was hugging... but as friends, ya know?)
Well this one that he sent me I have to rate him. Could anyone suggest how I should rate him without hurting his feelings, but not making it sound like I like him that way, either?
---GRADE ME---
F= damn you're ugly
D = your parents must be heated
C- = You're just someone I don't want to talk to, okay?
C = You're okay looking, but you need work...
C+ = You're just average
B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
B = You're cute. And you're a pretty interesting person.
B+ = Pretty damn attractive. I'd hit that.
A- = You're extremely attractive, and you're awesome.
A = DAMN YOUR SEXXXAY!!
A+ = ... will you go out with me?.... seriously!
A++= will you marry me
A+++=TAKE ME NOW ON THE TABLE AND KISS ME AND DON'T STOP
Should I put A-?
...he's not extremely attractive, but obviously he just sent it to me so I would tell him something like "I'd hit that, will you go out with me?, etc.
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That keeps it at friends, but shows hes not hideous!
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just tell him you think he is an awesome guy but you just wann be friends
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If you don't think he's "extremely attractive" then don't say he is. That will just leave him thinking you might like him- which is obviously not what you want?
I would rate him how you ACTUALLY feel about him. Don't lie or overthink it. Is he "just okay looking and needs work"? Give him a C. Is he "cute and a pretty interesting person"? Give him a B. Just be honest with him. And it doesn't say that you can't add additional info/words to your response.. so just say.. "haha- I don't know what to pick. I just like you as a friend and these all would make you think I like you.. lol" or something.
--Jack
(15/m)
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B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
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He wont get his feelings hurt on that one.
Plus, the cool part makes it out as a friend
rating (; hope i helped.
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