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boyfriend troubles
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 5:09 pm
ok well i have this boyfriend and well we started going out in the summer and well he just isn't on the same level as me i mean he is popular and im just normal and talk to everyone but i have a certain group and well i don't want the school year to be any different from last so should i eat with him at lunch or sit by him in class i don't know what to do i mean we both like eachother alot and well i though i should just sit with my usual friends and give him space at school and talk bout are day after school is over with i just don't know what to do
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how do you know when you're friends?
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 5:05 pm
i recently striked up a conversation with my crush. how do i know when we're friends? any signs, an "at least this many months / weeks / years... " ? thanks so much!
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being open
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 5:01 pm
hey. so i finally FINALLY mustered up enough courage to message my crush on facebook. things are going pretty well & the conversation is pretty smooth. but, i'm really nervous about what i say to him. like i type something once, reread it, edit it, delete stuff, etc. how do i force myself to just CALM down & not be so nervous? i'm being as open as i can, but i'm afraid i'll say something stupid / something i'll regret!
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I'm Freaked and Have No Freaking Idea What To Do!!!!!!!!
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:53 pm
13/f
My ex boyfriend moved away a year ago, after we broke up. He swore he'd come back when I went into 8th grade. I talked to the teachers and... He is coming back for sure. I'm scared! I no it's stupid but I am. He's really cute, but it's the reason we broke up that scares me... We broke up cuz he left a bruise on my arm at a dance in front of everybody, that's why nobody dares date me(Don't know why exactly), and I found out 3 months later he was cheating on me... I lied to people and told them I cheated on him too, but I didn't... I just want to know what to do! I got really really REALLY uncomferable around him after we broke up. Now, I get chills even when his name is mentioned... Please somebody give me advice ASAP!!!!!!
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i think i'm a psychic!
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:50 pm
15 / f
OMG. i had a dream the other night about messaging my crush on facebook & i remembered that every message ended with a question & a question mark. and so i messaged my crush yesterday & it's EXACLTY like what happened in my dream!! my dream was that.. i messaged him & i remember everything he said and i remember asking him to hang out at my house. do you think i'm going crazy & getting my hopes up too high? i've experienced an innumerable number of "deja vu" s and many of my dreams have come true! I'M SO EXICTED.
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Blunder Part 9
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:28 pm
Hey khadia
I got an huge issue now.. I talked to him via msn and he said:
Mona says: what did I do to lose that trust?
N Sharma says: i dont think i ever did
N Sharma says: when i walked into that coffee shop
N Sharma says: saw you
N Sharma says: i thought this girl can be the one
N Sharma says: by the end of the night
N Sharma says: i didnt feel the same
I asked him if I cud meet him in person to clear any missunderstandings he said I'll try.. he said tonite he is seeing some friends and tomarrow too and saturday hes going to a wedding I said how about tomarrow before you go see your friends he said i'l try. I said well I would appreciate it if yo...
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Blunder Part 8
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 3:33 pm
can I call you sweety? I need some help.. im soo lost and confused.. I dunno what to do. I feel like killing myself.. I really do.. I feel like no one loves me and wants to be with me.. I really do feel that way.. :(
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Shyness
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 3:09 pm
Well, there's this girl that I REALLY like, but like I can't talk to her because I'm too nervous. I kinda broke up with my girlfriend for this girl. I think she knows I like her, because my ex-girlfriend was friends with the girl that I like. So now, I don't know if I can talk to her. Me and her hung out before at the mall, we had a blast, but I can't stand for a girl to say she doesn't like me when I like her. Advice for talking to her?
Thanks in advance.
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Drinking
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 3:06 pm
My boyfriend is turning 22 and he is totally against drinking. I am 18 and going to college, while he doesnt go to college.... he works. I know he would be really mad if I was drinking in college but I kind of want to try it out for myself. I dont know how I feel about it. But I really dont want to lose him. What do I do?
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im so excited and i just can't hide it.
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 2:26 pm
Yeah so Saturday these 3 kids pretty close to my age are coming to my neighbor's lakehouse Saturday. I never have people near my age so I'm excited! I'm 13 and the ages are 12, 14, and 15. =) We are going to go tubing and we use this huge 4 person tube so hopefully I'll be next to one of them. =) I wanna flirt but I can't let anyone really know I'm flirting because all of the other kids there are young so I don't want them knowing I'm flirting. What should I say to them? I don't want to come off as this annoyingly loud outgoing person, but not a shy freak either. I'll probably see them next week too. All tips and stuff would help. Also, should I dress a little slutty or no?
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boy crazy
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 2:23 pm
okay so im 16/f and I've only had one boyfriend my whole life. and its not like i care. but its just that i notice that i fall for guys too easily and always ending up getting hurt and make a fool myself. and i throw myself at guys. i try no to but i always do that anyways. so how should i talk to guys without making a fool of myself? and also i have a crush on this really hot guy in my driver's ed and i talked to him yesterday and he told me his name i think and i forgot. and he also told me that what school he goes to and that he boxes! but im not sure how do i keep him interested? any tips will great thanks!
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i like this boy alot but...
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 2:17 pm
ok so i like this boy his name is andy, and well m ysister went all balls ou tand got in the middle of it becasue he is gonna be 20 in october and i just turned 16 in april. he likes me alot and i liek him, he was an eagle scout in boyscouts and works a good job hes very clean cut not abd hes a virgin which i find adoribale and yeah well i dnt know what to do. she told em mom we were dating which we arnt and never were so im not even aloud to hangout with him now. which blows. but we talk and stuff still it just really stinks because i want to see him. i dont understand my moom lets me hangout with my friend blake who is 21 and she has no problem with it hes way worse tehn andy any day so why not andy?? i dnt understand help pleasee? 16/f
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Blunder Part 6
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 1:47 pm
What do I do? should I wait? I tried calling him.. once call blocked and he answered but whenI called with my # 3 times after he didnt answer.. I dunno im sooo upset I cant stop crying.. and im at work too as a receptionist its not good for my job or health..
help me pls. maybe u can talk to him for me.. plsssssssssssss In need of help..
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Blunder Part 2
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 10:07 am
Hi Ms,
I am confused about somethings..I dunno.. but on our first date,, we made love.. it was great.. it was the first time I have ever done it before and im 26 and so is he. He didnt buy into the whole fact that I had not had S** before.. neways.. he had mentioned that after having S** that how can you want to do it with me you dont even know me.. and that kinda bothered me. I told him well I like you.. and I wanted to.. and Im glad that it is with you. He didnt respond to that.. neways he is here not just to see family but for work too. He is also doing work while he is here. and I dont want to sound pushy you know and drive him away.. what should I do?
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Blunder Part 4
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 9:59 am
Hi Khadiya,
Do you think I shud wait for him to msg me and then wait and see what happens? do u think that he got scared that he was my first to have sex with and he thinks that I would want a serious relationship now? truthfully I do.. im not getting any younger and I want to settle down with someone.. but I also do not want to take soo much time in doing so.. thats y im soo confused.. cause I like him alot. and if its meant 2 be with me and him then I want him to give me a fair chance.. and vice versa...
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Blunder Part 4
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 9:56 am
HI Ms,
I have asked him before he came down if he thinks we can have something.. he said AFTER we meet yes its possible. and Im sure he wants to have a relationship.. cause I beleive he is looking for that as well. He said he liked me and that I looked much more prettier in person than I did in my pics so I took that as a good sign and I had mentioned to him during the date that I would like to see him again before he leaves.. he said yah.. so I dunno why all this.. He didnt beleive me at first that I didnt have sex b4 and when I said if u dont wanna beleive me thats your choice.. and he said afterwards that he was sorry.. I said dont be its okay..
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Relationship Blunder..
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 8:46 am
Okay so heres the deal.. Ive been talking to this guy for a month now.. its going great.. he lives in Virginia.. he came down on Saturday night to see his family and see me too.(hes here for a visit for a week). We met on Sunday.. Had a great time.. and the next day I asked him if he wanted to do something on Tuesday.. he said he dont think hes doing anything but he will let meknow.. ok.. day goes by.. next day I ask him.. wondering if u still wanted to do something today.. didnt respond to that but he tells me that hes soo tired went to the border yesterday(monday) and had to renew something and that he came back at 4 in the morning..took him 7 hrs to get there and that he is exhausted.. I had mentioned that he shud rest so that tomarrow h...
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ex
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 7:03 am
16/m
so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy?
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signs of rebound?
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 5:47 am
what are the signs of rebound? can you please list as you can? thanks
rebound as in relationship
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shes a rebound?
Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 5:44 am
okay my friend and her bf been together for 7 months and this month she thinks shes a reboud because she thinks her bf still thinks about her ex because he said"she already forgot about me" to my friend what do you think about this?
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