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yotu group


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 11:41 am

i went to a youth group thing on wednesday and there was this guy there.and whenever i think about him i get butterflies in my stomach and i dont even know why because i don't like him or anything. hes my age and hes not really cute but he is funny.we didnt really talk at all nothing but" who is that?" while we were playing a game kinda like man hunt in the dark.but this is what we did.
-me and my friend were playing ping pong, but then his friend wanted to play so it was us against his friend so then he played.and i was like all hyper from soda(i had a lot) so i was acting like a 5th grader.and i like took the pingpong paddle and put it iinfront of my face while i was tlking 2 my friend, so thenhe did the same thing 2 his ...

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boyfriend issues


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 10:57 am

ok, my best friend (we'll call her "mary") asked out my other best friend since 1st grade (lets call him "joe"). but i didn't know that since i go to a different school then they do. so, "joe" said no, because they were friends... then, a couple months later, "joe" asked me out. i said yes because i liked him more than a friend, and because i didn't know that "mary" already asked him out. then i told "mary" and she got all mad at "joe"... not me. but now, there is this awkwardness between them. i donno what to do.

ok, now i have a second problem. "joe" and i have been together for 2 weeks and 1 day. and i asked him the other day, "if i...

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flirt


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 9:59 am

14 f

Does anyone have good flirting tips? what do boys like? What are some things I could do to show this boy I like him without saying it ?

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Posted Monday July 23 2007, 8:19 am

my boyfriend found out i cheated on him. he broke up with me. i miss him alot. i dont know what to do. i regret it and everything. i was just wondering if anyone as been in this situation and got their boyfriend back some how. please help me please

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There's this girl i wanna talk to


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 7:52 am

Aight to make a long story short like a month ago i was at the beach and me and my boy's went to this icecream shop thing or wateva and these 2 sexy girl's i'm talkin like beautiful came and was standing behind me and they was and the dark 1 was tellin the spanish girl to talk to me or wateva so they moved to the other shack but i could still here them talkin and i didn't take my chance and say sumthin and we ended gettin on the same train.....Ironically i have summer program and shorty goes to it 2 and i'm still lost for words and can't say nuttin to this girl what should i do?

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my boyfriend is violent and hurts me alot


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 7:22 am

my boyfriend is a total jerk. he dosnt say hi to me anymore. he hangs up on me swears at me is violent to me says he dosnt care about me nemore as much as he did says he hates seen me gets ppl to tel me hes not were he is so i dont come see him. says he hates seen me and that he dreads it says that im on the bottum of his list of prioirtys. he dumped me and said he was treating me bad so i wud break it of with him but then he wanted me back. hes grabbed my throat and said hel hit me. he tells people he dosnt want to be with me and im annoying and wishes i would dissapear. altho we hav a serious relashionshop and hav dated for about a year hes gettin himself into serious trouble and been arrested and charged and drinking every night. i love ...

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Diet


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 2:54 am

Okay. I like this boy his name is Eric, and he doesn't like the fact that I've gone on a diet. I assure you.. It's a healthy diet I eat, exersize and not once has my finger been remotly close to my mouth for the purpose of vomitting. I have a condition, Acanthosis Nigricans(thinking I spelled it correctly..) which is a discoloration to the neck. Well if I keep doing what Im doing which was eating all the time, never exersizing, Im sure to get Diabetes. Which it me is a death sentance because Im Insulin Resistant. I would die. I dont want to tell him because I dont want to worry him but im getting tired of him saying I should eat something when I ate likea halfn hour ago. Im 14 im not saposed to eat all the time and he doesnt understand.
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My Family has ruined everything


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 2:44 am

Background: I'm East Indian but born in America, but my parents were immigrants to this country. I've always been loyal to my family, but its almost like they are determined to sabotage any happiness in my life.

The girl I was going to marry- they hated b/c she wasn't Indian or up to their standards, and made my life and hers such a living hell that she had to leave. I love her still, but I know that my parents will never accept her.

I'm debating if I should just bid my parents and my family goodbye and try to find myself? My parents were arranged and they expect the same for me. I don't want that, but I'm torn b/c I'm loyal to my family but I want to be in love when I get married.

This pain o...

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I hate this :(


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 1:31 am

almost 15/m
Ok so on friday I was dumped by someone I thought eas perfect for me...I thought things were going well...we were so happy together, but over the summer we have been busier, and thats is one of the reasons I believe...we still do talk and it hasnt seemed to lose passion or anything because I love her more than anything. We still did talk alot. She seemed perfect for me I loved every bit of her (I know....teen love is not real love and are just flings but ive been bf/gf with her for atleast 3months). I am just wondering if it is a bad (as in looked down upon) thing to try to win her back? Ive been trying to look at the bright side...but it doesnt work for long. I just need to get over it. I feel like I need to be a man and...

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what do i do


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 12:31 am

ok so theres this guy that my friend likes i have liked him before and this weekend we were hanging out alot because we all went on a trip it was for a tournament thing so this guy was flirting with me there and my friend was getting mad cuz she liked him but the truth is i do too...well he told me he liked me and now i dont know what to do because i dont want to her my friend but she also likes 3 other guys...please help

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theres this guy


Posted Monday July 23 2007, 12:08 am

okay so theres these guy from a town close to me that ive been hanging with, one of them i cant tell if he likes me or not but he flirts allll the time with me, but hes one of those guys who always does, but i get the feeling he likes me more than friends....then the other guy i can tell likes me, and i think i like him back...but the problem is i think i might like the other one too, whut should i do?

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BOYS.Everyone loves these questions..not.


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 11:32 pm

Okay.I'm really stuck guys.I'm so mad and sad and frustrated with everything.There's this guy that I like.Let's call him Clayton.And Clayton is such a sweetheart and I can tell him anything and I know he'll listen.But me and him like..I don't know..he just doesn't like to make conversation at all.Unless I bring something up.And it usually goes like this:
Me: ...
Clayton: ?
Me: Oh nothing
Clayton: say it
Me: no
Clayton: why
Me: because
Clayton: just say ittt
And it goes on and on.And usually I only do that so he talks.Lol.Because otherwise, I really don't know what to talk about myself.And he doesn't like to open up to me..and it makes me mad.What do I do?


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Boyfriend(I'm Shallow)


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 11:11 pm

I have a boyfriend(sorta). He's a great guy, and my best friend used to like him(I think she still does), but she doesn't mind that I'm with him. I think about him a lot, and I like to be with him, but the problem is, not in public. He's not "cute" I guess. People say he's decent looking, but not really to me. I am afraid of what people will think because of my better reputation. I guess I'm shallow, but I want to keep my reputation(which keeps getting better), and I don't want a guy to ruin it. He is super sweet, and I know he cares about me(my friends can see it too), but he is kinda weird, and not cute. Help me out please.

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Soulmates?


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 9:41 pm

There's this guy at my church who's my age, let's call him "Mike" and I've had a little crush on him ever since I started going to this church, and it's been like 5 years now. And we're both 16. I know his grandmother and his mother, and I'm really close with them both, and they absolutely adore me. But me and Mike never really talked a lot until last year I had a bonfire at my house for the teens at our church. We talked a little, and we have little conversations every now and then. But I REALLY want to talk to him more, I just don't know how. And when we go back to the Teens Group during Service, I feel like he's always looking at me, and when I look over, I catch him. The thing is, he got a girlfriend a couple months ago, and s...

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It's all just too much.


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 9:40 pm

My boyfriend, of 2 years, just recently broke up with me, well like 6 months ago. He never really allowed me to let go, so I never really did. But finally we started drifting apart, and then he messages me & tells me that he wants me back.
I had met a boy, and we had been "talking" & I thought I liked him, until my ex tells me that, then everything this boy did, completely annoyed me. Well, my ex found out that I was talking to someone else, so he stopped talking to me, for about a week or so & me & this other boy grew closer, so we started dating. Well my ex comes back & I cheat on my new boyfriend, I told my boyfriend & he didn't get really mad, which bothered me. He let me get away with it, becaus...

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Ex boyfriend?


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 9:20 pm

Hey Dudes & Dudettes ,

Is it possible to go out with your ex again ? After you like dated 3 times already..?? Because everyone tells me that me and my ex are so cute together and that hes the perfect guy for me.. and I was wondering because I still REALLY like him.. is there any ways to get him back ? Please help.

Thank you so much.

Betty.

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Does it mean he likes me? You decide?


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 9:11 pm

Heyy Dudes & Dudettes ,

Okay , Well see theres this guy he's my ex and I still really like him.. and I just started to talk to him not to long ago .. and like he's always liked me but I don't know if he still does.. so I decided to be like hey im going to invite him to go to the movies and stuff so I called him and stuff and he calls me back and says sure :) and stuff like that .. is there any possibilty that maybe in the future he would go back out with me?

Thank you.
Betty.

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another boy problem


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 8:55 pm

so this guy likes me and hes in the 8th grade. and im going into 10th. we talk every day and have so much in common but hes two years younger than me and lives 2 hours away.And i would go out w/ him but hes younger than me. and i dont want to tell him thats the reason y i dont want to go out.and i also dont want to lose him as a friend. what should i do?

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How dp I know he's the right one


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 7:29 pm

I've been with a guy alittle over a year and I want to know exactly how do you know he's the one.I love him and we've been talkin about marriage so how do I know he's the one

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Crush.. And His Girlfriend..


Posted Sunday July 22 2007, 5:53 pm

I like this guy and my friend is going out with him and they fight alot... And he always want's to talk to me.. we get along really well. but he's dating my best friend.. they been going out for 2 weeks.. what do you think i should do i dont want him to get hurt staying with him.. but i dont want to hurt my friend by stealing him away from her..

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