|
humorist-workshop
I hate this :(
almost 15/m
Ok so on friday I was dumped by someone I thought eas perfect for me...I thought things were going well...we were so happy together, but over the summer we have been busier, and thats is one of the reasons I believe...we still do talk and it hasnt seemed to lose passion or anything because I love her more than anything. We still did talk alot. She seemed perfect for me I loved every bit of her (I know....teen love is not real love and are just flings but ive been bf/gf with her for atleast 3months). I am just wondering if it is a bad (as in looked down upon) thing to try to win her back? Ive been trying to look at the bright side...but it doesnt work for long. I just need to get over it. I feel like I need to be a man and not cry. I am sick of crying. Idk how to get her back...or how to let go...she was the only one who could ever get me out of depression...and she restored faith in alot of things for me. I dont want to lose her....I am still lucky to be friends with her, but it just feels a bit awkward. please help!
~dp~
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Aight look coming from a males perspective never be friends with someone you break up with because it's never gonna work out trust me it's happened to me plenty of time i have this philosophy there's plenty of fish in the sea things come and go if you do look at it on the bright side it really wasn't meant to be if it didn't work out..... man if u feelin depressed go more to get your mind off it but i'm tellin u it would be betta for you to stop talkin to her...and if you can't then act like you don't care about n e thing wateva you do dn't try to win her back...... real talk meaning let me be real wit i noe you dn't wanna lose her b but your gonna have to move on man
]
dear dp-
i don't know what to say to you, but jumbles of idea might help.
you can either take my advice or leave it, use your best judgement.
i know it's hard loosing a relationship, especially even if it's like losing a best friend. i understand that. sometimes i could wish how much it must hurt to feel that.
i can never understand what situation you are going through, but somehow all you can do is be friends with her. i'm not going to say "stop with your whining and be a man, men don't cry" but that's all crap, and it's all a lie. What does it even mean to cry? and why does it matter whether you cry or not, it's emotions, and it help to get through pain.
so does talking it out. if lack of communication is what broke you guys up, maybe you should build that up again.nd i know you said you guys talk a lot still, but maybe it's about nothing, maybe, instead of talking about nothing actually talk about somthing, and really listen to her, and respond, not just repeat what she's saying in a different way.
the akwardness will fade, trust me, it will just give it time...
-the greeness
]
Awwww, I'm sorry that you got dumped. That's always a tough situation. If the only reason she broke up with you was because both of you have been busy, then that is sort of ridiculous. If she really loved/cared about you, she wouldn't have broken up with you over something that is so trivial. If you really do love her then I would talk to her and see if you can work things out. If not, move on. You're only 15 and there are other girls out there! It might take a while for you to get over her and move on, but you will and hey, you never know....she could change her mind and decide that breaking up with you was the wrong decision! Good luck!!! :)
]
More Questions: |