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friends with benefits


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 6:48 am

15/f

ive been friends with this kid for a really long time and i had sex with him not to long with ago. and it was the whole 'friends with benefits' thing. now theres another girl and he says that he was tired of being single.. but we both know that if we ever did go out then we wouldnt be able to see each other like the last two times that happened. (he lives like 30 minutes away, by the way). but still i was right here the whole time. i wish he knew that i wanted him, but i didnt have the guts to say it and he said he wanted to move on if he cant have me.. i want to move on but then again it hurts because hes prob over there fucking that girl. pure jealousy. and i dont want to move on because ive been in love with him for t...

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Bad or good?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 9:24 pm

15/F

Okay so one of my best guy friends and I are always together. ALWAYS. He's like my brother but he likes me and sometimes when we play around, it comes off as flirting. Well there's this other guy I like who always runs into us in the hallways and he always sees us together so would it be a turn-off for him to see that I'm always with someone else and "flirting" or would it make him more competitive and want me more?

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boys....


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 8:48 pm

tyler is my best friends and i think i might like him, but i don't want to mess up our great friendship. i know he likes me too. his girlfriend broke up with him because he said to her face quote on quote "she's much hotter than you'll ever be," he is sooooooo sweat though. i don't whether i should trust him though because he is so desperate for popularity that once he tole my firneds deepest secret to the "cool kids" ( who are a buch of assholes)

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i NEED to resist the temptation


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 8:47 pm

im friends with a shmuck. he's my best friend but he's a manwhore basically. he got back with his ex girlfriend and while they were on a 6 month break me and my guy friend hooked up quite a few times. now that they're back together me and him are both having trouble resisting temptation of hooking up again. we have not been physical at all in the month that they've been back together except for one hug. here's the thing though. we always talk dirty to each other and i feel bad about it and afterwards im almost sick to my stomach in guilt but he's like an addiction. he's the first guy that i've been sexual with if that makes a difference. i really want to stop this because i feel bad but everytime we're around each other our conversations tu...

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guys suck


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 8:18 pm

i want a guy to have enough balls to answer this

why are you all such pigs????
do you ever like a girl for her personality!!!!
and why is it impossible for girls like me who have a big chest and nice body to walk into a room and not be harrassed like a slab of meat!!!!!!!!!!!!
do any of you have your own personalities or are you all just clones of your damn friends !!!!!
r there no decent guys out their!!!!!!!!!!
prove to me that u r actually decent human beings who r sensitive and care!!!!!!















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Zac Efron coming to my school!!


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 8:06 pm

Haha jk I just needed a subject that would make people read this. here's the real problem-

okay well I went out this guy like a year ago and like a month later he broke up with me because his other friend liked me and him and his friends were like losing their friendships, and because he was always way to busy to have a girlfriend (that's what he said.)

but he never actually said he stopped liking me. so we went for like 3 months without really talking to each other.

then like 2 months after that we started flirting sooo much and you could just tell we liked each other, so we like hooked up and stuff and he was like oh maybe I'll want a girlfriend in the summer! and then the summer came and he w...

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Ok...So


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 7:48 pm

Ok.. Well, I like this girl see... She used to like me, but I'm not sure if she still does or not... Anyway. How do I know if she still likes me, WITHOUT asking her? I mean, I think I MIGHT be inlove with her but... I don't want to love her and her not love me back...

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How do you know when guys like you?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 7:41 pm

Yeah this is pretty kiddish. Because I'm almost 17 but how do you know? I've been talking to a number of guys and yet I can't tell which ones really like me or not. Like what are the signals. Do they say they miss you and stuff? I just want to know some signals on how to find out if he likes me or not. thank you for your help!!!!

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dating 7 months


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 7:26 pm

after 7 months of dating, what is normal in a relationship? like should i start thinking about having sex with him or what?

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I confuse...help


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 7:21 pm

I met a guy online last december{he's a marine corps}I knew that we loved each other we haven't met in person.we both have a strong feelings.all of our friends knew that.right now he is deploy in Iraq,he make a phone calls every three weeks and I still love him.I told him that I will want for him.He told me that after he get out of Iraq,he'll come and meet me in a person.I sure he like me alot.We talked about our family and everything.the problem is I dated with a guy last week and I think he's really into me.He told his friends that he's crazy about me.I like him too.but I not sure I really want him or not.cuz I have my military man.my military man,he has everything that I wanted from a guy.my date,he can give me a real kiss and hugs and e...

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what should I get my boyfriend for his bday?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:48 pm

Iv been dating this guy for almost a year now&&i dont know what to get him for his 17th bday. i want something nice,the price doesnt matter. i was going to take him to a concert but there isnt any around that time. Can anyone help me think of something??

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i don't know much father!?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:28 pm

Ok well im REALLY good freinds with this boy and he likes me and i kinda like him he came over on saturday like every saturday to watch movies but most of the time we weren't watching movies!! We went into my parents room (they were gone) and we had sex! but don't worry it was protected! but i don't know what to do!! i don't know if i schold do it again or not but i liked it and know where not more then freinds we now have had like 100 make out sessions since then and so idk (i dont know) what to do i love him and i need a really quick help!

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ahh liking another girl?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:27 pm

17/m

ok so i have a girlfriend that i love more than anything. she is my first love. we have been togeter like 7 months. but then im taking this class at the colledge and there is this girl in my class there and well when i saw her i saw that she was kinda hitting on me/ noticing me and well i kinda returned it. i dont even know why i did. im DEFF not the kinda guy to cheat EVER. its just not me. but lately i have been finding this other girl on my mind. but i have no intentions of breaking it off with my girlfriend cuz i love her no matter what.

so what do i do?
is this normal?
am i a horrible person for thinking about another girl like that
i know that i would never let myself do anything...

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What's he thinking?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:23 pm

So this guy and I liked each other for a couple of months at the end of the school year last year but then something happened and we had a fight and he told me he was over it. During the summer, he would still text my best friend, asking about me and telling her that I was always too busy for him and assuming that I didn't have time to see him. This year, I don't have any classes with him and I see him a lot at school. He knows I'm pissed at him for something he did and he still smiles at me, trying to apologize, and stops and stares at me..He still hugs me for long periods of time and tries to see me when he can. so how do I know if he still feels the same way? I don't know if he's just trying to be my best friend again or if he still like...

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kIsSInG


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:10 pm

well ive been dating my boyfriend for like three days now and i really want to french kiss him cauz kissin is the best part of any relationship with a guy....well besides sex but i dont want to do that with him, well not yet.....but when would be the appropriate time to kiss him?

one more question i kind of bragged a little about my kissin skills so if theres any pointers you could give me i would appreciate it! thks

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CHEATING


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:04 pm

well i just got a boyfriend to day and i instantly cheated on him but i dont know if its really cheatin cuz the only thing i did was feel on someone else's dick but i don that to this guy all the time....lie on a daily basis! so is it still considered cheating?

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non talkative


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 6:02 pm

well my boyfriend is a very quiet person and so am i well not as quiet as him once a person starts talkin to me i cant shut up. but he dont talk that much so how can i get him to start conversations and keep talkin instead of one sylable answers?

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Couple? Or Not...


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 5:22 pm

My bgf and i like each other and want to date but he can't because of a rule at a Teen Help center where he works. Well he kissed me on Sunday and wants to start acting like a couple just without commitment. But if he's not going to commit to me idk if it's a good thing to ac like were together. I mean we could still be really good friends without being all couplish, right? Yeah so what do you think I should do? My 1 friend thinks should try it to see if when we can have a relationshipmif i would want to but my other friend says NO, wait until you can actually have a real relationship. What do you think??? Thanks so much and i rate! :D

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what does my boyfriend mean by this?


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 4:24 pm

My boyfriend and I had a fight the other night and he said to me...I would tell you things, but I am afraid that you will make me pay for it in the long run? what does that mean?

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he's whipped? i didnt mean to be like that


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 2:54 pm

today at lunch my bf like hit himself in the head with a water bottle, and i, not wanting him to hit himself, took the bottle from him. then a few of our friends were saying hes whipped. and my bf didnt really oppose it. he was just like "hey that used to be you!!" to our friend cause thats what everyone said about his ex gf. i know i am so nice to my bf though he just does a lot of things that could get him hurt (usually a lot worse than a water bottle dont worry im not that ridiculous) and i have stopped him from doing these things as a way to show him i care (i have done this since way before we were going out) i didnt realize i was doing that. is it really that bad? hearing that and making that realization made me really upset...

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