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guys suck
i want a guy to have enough balls to answer this
why are you all such pigs????
do you ever like a girl for her personality!!!!
and why is it impossible for girls like me who have a big chest and nice body to walk into a room and not be harrassed like a slab of meat!!!!!!!!!!!!
do any of you have your own personalities or are you all just clones of your damn friends !!!!!
r there no decent guys out their!!!!!!!!!!
prove to me that u r actually decent human beings who r sensitive and care!!!!!!
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I answered a question like this before, and I'm going to repeat myself.
Not all guys are pigs.
Some are nice and actually care about what we have to say. Don't believe me?
Here's an example:
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Jack's one of the few good guys in this world. It's guys like him that totally prove your assumption wrong.
I know, a lot of guys are immature jerks, but they honestly aren't all like that. Just try and find a good guy who likes you for who you are and doesn't care about your chest size or any other physical aspect.
There are some guys who like girls for their personalities out there. These are the type of guys I associate myself with. If you have a large chest and a good body, guys probably like it, therefore teasing you to show interest? I don't know, maybe.
Just tell them to shut up and stop being immature pigs.
But like I said, there are decent guys out there (like Jack) and I'm sure you'll find one!
Good Luck! =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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hey. i'm really sorry that you are treated this way. it's really unfortunet the so many guys act this way towards girls. it's frustrating because it makes all of us look like dicks and then girls tend to use these generalitys that all guys treat girls like pigs(no offense, it just gets annoying after a while) personally the way a girl looks isn't that big a deal for me. I've met plenty of drop dead girls her are dumber than rocks and they just don't do anything for me cause they seriously lack substance. It's hard to have a real relationship with a girl like that because then a relationship can turn physical and thats pretty worthless. I'm into girls who i can just hang around and feel happy with. someone who will sit down and talk to you. as for the whole male reaction to a good looking girl, it's just the way most of our minds work. It's been proven that while women attach strong emotional values to things like words and images men just don't. At a first glance a girl is a girl. Trust me i wish there were more guys that where complete asses but there aren't. on the positive side it makes your life easier because even though there will always be jerks if you look carefully you can always find at least one guy who will listen to you and genuinly care about you as a person and not as a body. don't give in and keep on dealing with it and when you get to where you want to be in life you can look back at them and realize that you truly accomplished something. You certainly have the support of one friendly and sensitive guy:) I really hope this helped:)
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That's the problem. You're dealing with BOYS and not Men who are MATURE. Believe it or not there are a lot of men, maybe some teens or those in their early '20s who respect women.
There's a lot of guys who would never dream of making a girl uncomfortable or looking only at her chest. If they are doing that to you at school and harassing you over your breast size speak up to adults.
Also tell the guys "by the way my head's up here." to embarass them and if they were taunting you say this "I'm spoken to you, to our teachers etc. if you don't stop taunting me about my breasts maybe a kick to the groin will." or "I hope you don't have some fantasy I would ever date you."
Whatever works. Get their attention and they'll quit it. That's your problem you aren't using your claws and that tank of venom you have on reserve on them rather than us answering the question. Unleash your fury and show you cannot be pushed around. They need to know there's a price for oggling you.
They're still going through puberty and haven't wrapped their little brains around how to treat girls and women. Consider the source of the taunts and their maturity level.
Hang back a bit and I'm sure you will meet guys who have good personalities and will treat you well. I would stop looking toward the popular crowd, certain cliques etc. and try and attract the ikind of person you want around.
Join some clubs like student council etc or even chess (don't knock it) where you will find genuine and often shy types who will respect you and know the pain of bullying and or being harassed. Maybe this is directing you to align yourself with classier people and stand up for yourself and or be heard.
Every negative has a positive. I'm sure once you handle the taunting from these jerks and become assertive that if you just hang back a little you'll encounter classier guys and people all around.
As cliched as it sounds, you're a woman let those creeps hear and see you roar over this. Mock them lightly for a bit too and make them see they're wrong. Maybe they'll smarten up and learn to treat girls right as a result.
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Not all guys are insensitive, arrogant jerks. But I seriously know how you feel; it happens ALL of the time... :S
Usually, guys in high school and middle school care more about looks than personality because that is how the stupid media portrays women, as being objects rather than humans, and it is very demoralizing.
But usually when you get out of high school and college, you'll find that there are still some guys that care more about looks than personality, but not a lot.
You just have to find someone that likes you for you. One of your guy friends who you know and trust would be the best candidate for a boyfriend, since you know for sure that they won't judge you based on what you look like, and because they know what you look like without make-up on. :S
In ways, girls are like that, too. I admit, I go for guys that have a cute butt, over guys that might be geeky or nerdy, yet have a great personality. But girls aren't really that insensitive when it comes to this issue, as guys aren't portrayed as objects as much in the media... But, celeb hotties like Orlando Bloom, Zac Efron, Jesse McCartney, .etc are exceptions... :)
If you need anymore help, just ask! :)
-Mariah-
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I'm not a guy, but I can tell you all men have at least a little pig in them. It is their nature.
Will they stop ogling your body? Probably not. It is in their nature.
Is there any decent guys out there who like a girl for her personality, are decent human beings, who are sensitive and care? Of course there are. There are likely some in that room you walked into- you just don't realize it.
But they will still be at least a little piggish. Like I said, it is in their nature.
I hope a guy does answer your question. :)
ygs-29/f
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