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Couple? Or Not...


Question Posted Monday September 17 2007, 5:22 pm

My bgf and i like each other and want to date but he can't because of a rule at a Teen Help center where he works. Well he kissed me on Sunday and wants to start acting like a couple just without commitment. But if he's not going to commit to me idk if it's a good thing to ac like were together. I mean we could still be really good friends without being all couplish, right? Yeah so what do you think I should do? My 1 friend thinks should try it to see if when we can have a relationshipmif i would want to but my other friend says NO, wait until you can actually have a real relationship. What do you think??? Thanks so much and i rate! :D

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thelaura answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 8:24 pm:
In brief:
What's a relationship without commitment? I'm not 100% what he's thinking, but to me, that could mean he may see other people as well as you.
I'd wait it out. Or ask him his reasons.
I hope you make the best choice.

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 8:22 pm:
I think you should wait until he can have a relationship since it goes against the rules of the Teen Help Center.

You are right that it isn't a good thing for you to act like a couple if you can't be a couple. To act like a dating couple is still considered to be breaking the rule of not being able to date.

By all means, continue with your friendship, but until he can take it a step further, a friendly relationship is all it should be.

ygs-29/f

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