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i'm so tired of this. ok, so i'm 13/f, and i have to 13/f friends who have been best friends since forever. one feels like she's been living in the other's shadow (lets call her Alma), and doesn't know what to do about it, so finally she gets mad at the other girl (Ana) for no reason. actually her "reason" is that the girl didn't tell her that there were beta club elections for president, and so now she's all pissed. it's so retarded. now she won't even talk to her. and we've all been in a group together since who knows when, and i'm still friends with them both, but they won't talk to each other. Also, "Ana's" birthday is this Friday, and we don't know what to do! if they don't make up before then, i don't know what we're all gonna do. help!
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yeah, i agree with the first person's reply, you can't really do much other than just sit down and talk with them.. it may just be a little fight that they'll resolve, and hopefully before Ana's b-day... best friends always go through little fusses and fights, but they usually get over it, i know me and my best friend does.. but,if talking to 'em doesn't help, just hope things will patch up soon between them.. hope I helped =)
* Skyla * ]
Being stuck in the middle sucks, but there really isn't a whole lot you can do for them if they refuse to talk to one another.
You could try to convince Ana to invite Alma to whatever birthday plans she has made with the rest of her friends.
Or, you can plan a slumber party at your own home and invite each without telling the other that you invited both and hope they will make up.
Other than that, you just have to hope that they will soon resolve their issues and become friends again.
ygs-29/f ]
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