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ahh liking another girl?
17/m
ok so i have a girlfriend that i love more than anything. she is my first love. we have been togeter like 7 months. but then im taking this class at the colledge and there is this girl in my class there and well when i saw her i saw that she was kinda hitting on me/ noticing me and well i kinda returned it. i dont even know why i did. im DEFF not the kinda guy to cheat EVER. its just not me. but lately i have been finding this other girl on my mind. but i have no intentions of breaking it off with my girlfriend cuz i love her no matter what.
so what do i do?
is this normal?
am i a horrible person for thinking about another girl like that
i know that i would never let myself do anything more than flirt tho.
ahhh
please help
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HELLO!!! Your a teenage male! Your hormones are still all over the place, your mind and heart are into the girl your dating now, and you know you love her. But sometimes hormones get the best of you and just do something that you don't mean to do. Your body just wanted to flirt with her but you probably didn't. And you have nothing to worry about it is COMPLETELY NORMAL! You are defiantly not a horrible person for doing that. Most couples flirt with some other people just to keep things fresh. Just try your absolute hardest to stop flirting and tell that girl you are currently in a relationship, but you would like to get to know her (if you do) and maybe you could date later on if thats what she is interested in. Hope i helped!! don't forget to rate!!!
-Alex <3333
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Flirting with someone that isn't your girlfriends doesn't exactly constitute as cheating. You're not actually 'doing' anything but letting people know you've still 'got it' even though you have a girlfriend. It's normal to be attracted to people you're not dating. Your girlfriend probably flirts too, but doesn't tell you about it, just like she doesn't want you to tell her about it.
It's okay as long as you don't do anything about the attraction. It's kind of like a 'phantom' or 'celebrity' crush. You think they're good looking but you know nothing will come of it. But if you happen to become emotionally attached to this other girl, you need to step back and reevaluate your relationship with your girlfriend and this 'phantom' crush. Even though you know you love your girlfriend, sometimes it just isn't the right time for you to be together. You may need to have different experiences before it can work out.
I really hope this helps you in some way and if you need more advice, don't hesitate to pop me one in my inbox.
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