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What's he thinking?
So this guy and I liked each other for a couple of months at the end of the school year last year but then something happened and we had a fight and he told me he was over it. During the summer, he would still text my best friend, asking about me and telling her that I was always too busy for him and assuming that I didn't have time to see him. This year, I don't have any classes with him and I see him a lot at school. He knows I'm pissed at him for something he did and he still smiles at me, trying to apologize, and stops and stares at me..He still hugs me for long periods of time and tries to see me when he can. so how do I know if he still feels the same way? I don't know if he's just trying to be my best friend again or if he still likes me. It took him forever to admit he liked me before so I know asking him won't help at all. What are signs or ways I can tell?
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You need to FORGIVE him. It's only hurting you to hold on to anger over what he did. He's hoping that you have moved past the incident and will acknowledge him.
I think you owe it to yourself to approach him some time and just talk. Figure out your feelings and try to resurrect a friendship and or go seperate ways but be civil.
Does he feel the same way? He probably does feel the same way and has a lot of regrets as do you. You might be missing out on something here if you don't just go up and talk with him.
You cannot really tell if he likes you the same way or not until talking to him. What you can be assured of right now is that he likes you enough to put the past behind and talk to you again and yes he looks like he wants his friendship back.
Guys don't stare at girls or hug them for long periods of time if they dislike them, don't want to be friends etc. They usually hug them because of a deep friendship or more or to signal that's what they want. It could be flirting or just his nature.
Like a chess game he's made his move to show you he wants you to acknowledge him now you must make yours by at least talking to him as hard as that is.
You may find it's easier than you thought and the painful thing he did or didn't do is the last thing that matters to you both.
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In short:
Seems like he's trying to make amends. Possibly by trying to regain your friendship back, then maybe into something more.
All of these sites should be some help.
Hope things work out how you want them.
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