tyler is my best friends and i think i might like him, but i don't want to mess up our great friendship. i know he likes me too. his girlfriend broke up with him because he said to her face quote on quote "she's much hotter than you'll ever be," he is sooooooo sweat though. i don't whether i should trust him though because he is so desperate for popularity that once he tole my firneds deepest secret to the "cool kids" ( who are a buch of assholes)
Also, about the comment to his ex-gf, what if that was you he said it to? What makes you believe he won't say or do something to that extent or worse next time?
I'm sorry, but from what you've said, he sounds like a J-E-R-K and you should wait until his ego shrinks (usually around 9th-10th grade).
sunnyville answered Wednesday September 19 2007, 9:58 am: You can't trust him you got to be careful with him,if you intend to have a relationship with him then you should not tell him your secrets because there is a huge chance he'll tell people about it,but if I were you I would just be friends with him,get to know him more,and see how things go. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
DepthofHeart answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 11:33 pm: Well, he sounds like a very nice...jerk.
He might be very nice and sweet to you, but what is a relationship without trust? If he truly cared for you he would care more about you than his popularity, and it sounds like he wants popularity more than anything else. He sounds very immature, what kind of guy would break up with his girlfriend like that? That was a very not nice thing to do.
I think you should just stay friends with him, I agree with ygsgirl, you'll either end up losing him all together or end up with a broken heart. You need a guy who will put you before his social standing, and someone who will prove to you that you can trust them, right now Tyler is too immature to do that.
Brandi_S answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 10:46 pm: First off, if he is so desperate for acceptance that he is willing to break your trust and tell your secrets to other people, he can't be trusted.
Second off, if he is such a jerk that he will say something like that to his girlfriend, there is a great chance he treat you the same.
Best bet? Keep the relationship friendly or you have a high probability of getting your heart broken and losing a friendship.
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