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Best Friend, Boyfriend Trouble


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 5:26 pm

I'm really troubled here. My best friend, (let say she is) Sara, is dating this guy (lets say he is Mike) that had just recently moved into my neighbor, like he lives two houses down so I usually see him in the morning, going to school. She told me that they were dating because they met through a friend or something but anyways, since we head for the bus in the same direction, we often see each other and usually we have conversations and we go to school together. But now, one of my other friends told me that Sara is mad at me because she saw me and Mike together laughing and walking home. I guess she thinks that I am trying to steal him away but I am not. He just happens to be a really funny person and he makes me laugh most of the tim...

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my husband thinks i don't desire him


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 5:21 pm

hello.
my husband believes i don't desire him because i am not spontanous with sexual acts. i believe that sence i got pregnant my desire for sex has gone down thats all. i just want some suggestions as to prove that i do desire him.

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How do I talk to him?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:54 pm

I like this guy and he likes me back but we never talk to eachother. We known eachother since we were 8 yrs old and every time we would sit next to eachother we would talk but every time we got seperated or we had our seats changed we would act really shy to eachother. I really like him but I dont know how to approach him. What should I do?

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what to talk abouttt?! :D


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:47 pm

okayy lets see, me and this guy have been going out for like around 1 month. we went out for like 5 months before though. he pretty much knos everything about me and i pretty much no everything about himm. now when we talk on the phone at night, we go blank it will be silent for like 10 minutes cause we cant think of anythingg to say to each other. i need some stuff to talk aboutt. i ask him how his day was and what hes doing the following day. but after that we cant think of anythingg to talk aboutt. HELPP! well thanks in advancee! =]]

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homecoming


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:10 pm

so this guy i like asked me to homecoming and i said yes but i've never had a date to a dance before so i'm not really sure how it works. i usually just go with a group of my friends that are girls. i already made plans to go out to eat before the dance and he said he doesn't mind comming and then we'll probably all go back to my friend's house for pictures and stuff. but i don't know how everything else is supposed to go haha i feel lame. like should he come over first before we go out to dinner? should we take pictures then or wait till we get back? is he probably going to get me a corsage...? if so what hand do i put out?! lol. is going to put it on me beofre we go out to eat. please hellppp. and make it as detailed as possible. if there...

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confused


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 3:02 pm

Hello I've got a story. Well, I was with this guy for 4 months, then we had to break up because of his parents,(they didn't like the fact that i was 13, 14 now, but he was 17) and so..we broke up. A month after, we got back together, he told me "I don't care what my parents say." so it was a month there, then broke up because of this girl. She didn't know we was going out, and she randomly brought up that he was all over this girl. So finally, I told her we was going out, and my boyfriend didn't want me to..so see I'm confused, he said "she starts stuff." and now I see that she does, but I know he would NEVER cheat on me, he even told it to my face, but when we when out the 2nd time, he never had time to call me, cause h...

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i got over him but....


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 2:53 pm

well i liked my friend for like the longest time now. we dont go to the same school anymore but hopefully ill go to school with him next year. the thing is i saw him yesterday and its like i didnt like him anymore. that should be a good thing because we cant be more that friends but at the same time it kinda hurts me. its just that without my feelings for him i feel empty. he was the one that kept me going and taught me so much about myself and now i feel like i lost that. we're still friends and all but i cant control these feelings and i wish that there was someone i could trust but i cant...

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Anger towards males.


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 2:45 pm

I got sexually used by a boy I believed I loved. And I am so upset! I'm freaking outraged. I'm a great girl, ok? I loved him with all of me, and would have done anything. I was so close to giving up my education for this guy who wasn't even willing to wait 24 hours for me to make up my mind on wether or not I wanted to have sex with him. And stupid me ended up doing it too! I AM A GOOD GIRL. I'm kind and compassionate and I try my very hardest to be good to people, to talk to the lonely, support the struggling, and feed the hungry. I'm not a saint.. but I'm not a bad person, ok? Why the hell couldn't he like me for me??

I can't breathe. It hurts so much. I alternate between crying and yelling at my reflection in the mirror. ...

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Losing Interest?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 2:12 pm

IM 15/f and bf is 16/m

Ok well, my bf CJ is this really great guy, and i really like him, but im afraid he might be loosing intrest in me. He used to call me every night, just to talk, and even if it was only a three minute conversation, he still called to tell me he loved me. But lately it has stoped, in the past five days, we've talked three times, and i've called him all three times. And last night he told me he'd call me back, and never did. I really like him, and dont want to loose him, what should i do, or am i overreacting? please help

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age of legal dating


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 1:38 pm

Does anyone know how to find out what the age of legal dating is in your state? I live in pennsylvania and I want to know if the age when
dating a minor is illegal like 17 or 18 or what.I already searched for it but I didn't really know how to phrase it and didn't get anything helpful. Thanks!!!

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I need some advice please help!!!


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 12:53 pm

18/M hey the names weak
I have a problem, my relationship with my girlfriend is going good so far, but I feel that I'm going to be the one that will mess up, what I mean is that I'm weak with girls and I'm afraid that one day I will go to go a party one day and there's girls all over me and I can't help but to flirt or god forbid sleep with some of them, I never cheated on my girlfriend but like I said I'm weak against girls, what should I do to prevent this from happening, I love my girlfreind and she doesn't deserve to be hurt, but I really like women also?
please help thanks

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Age of Dating


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 12:49 pm

Ok I'm super confused so maybe someone can explain this to me! Let's say a boy is 17 and in your state the law is a 17+ person can't date a minor then can he have a 15 year old girlfriend? Because I was reading that there are laws that when your like 17 and up you can't date minors but what about teens around the same age with only a couple years difference? Thanks so much and I will rate everyone who helps me! :D

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We both like eachother?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 12:18 pm

I like this guy and he likes me back but we never talk to each other. What should I do?

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slutty? or not..


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 12:11 pm

okay i want everyone to be completely honest.
so me and this guy went out for like little more than half a year and then we broke up. but i found out like a week before we broke up he did stuff with this girl who happens to be related to me. and i understand why he did what he like we had a big fight because something stupid i did i didnt cheat but i made a mistake in listening to someone i barley knew over believing the guy that i loved with all my heart but any ways now this guy like talks to me every night and talks about how he wants to hookup and crap and i would definitely even though he has a new girlfriend(the girl he cheated on me with) and im still in love with him and i know he still loves me its a really hard situation,...

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WE KEEP FIGHTING.


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 12:08 pm

alright 14/f.
boyfriends 14/m too
to start off me and my boyfriend have been together for more then a year and almost two years in december. trust me on this one, we really do love eachother. if you dont believe in this age of love then stop reading :) The past two weeks, we keep arguing. When the boyfriend and I are like with a group of friends somehow at some point of the day we'll start arguing. But i have NO IDEA what we argue about, like it must have been something stupid cause i dont remember. Honestly I think thats why were fighting, i dont know why but it seems we only fight when were with other people. Basically were not arguing anymore, but to prevent it where can we go to be alone? [my boyfriend and i live two block...

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friend with benefits / cheating ?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 11:51 am

okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.

well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"

he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"

so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone...

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I need to calm down.


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 11:20 am

ok, well you'll probably laugh at me for this one, but i have my first boyfriend, and i can tell [he's been giving me a lot of clues] that he wants to kiss me. i've never kissed a guy before, so i'm just really nervous.
i need tips on physically kissing him, and tips to keep me not so nervous. [my face turns really red when i'm embarassed or nervous =/ ]
thank you so much in advance. :]

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obviouse?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 10:49 am

okay look i like this guy im 13 hese 16 yes, i kno age diffrence,anyway well a couple of weeks ago i printed out a pic of me and him that waws on my compuuter and he saw it rite and then today he was jokin around wit me and gave me a tatoo well it was a gum and inside it a little tatoo he gave it to me rite as a friend im guessing and then after that in the end of the day i was still holding it i didnt throw it away
just holding it
then i see him pas by and from the corner of his eye he was lookin at the tatoo in my hand and i was like.. sh*t then my friend is with him on the bus and she was like talking to him like i love emily so much! shes soo cute and pretty about me and then he just looked at heer and didnt respond.. d...

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I really need help, I'm so confused about my boyfriend.


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 2:50 am

Okay, this is kind of long and probably confusing...but please try to help.
(17/f)
I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months. I really love him and he means more to me than anything.

Last night my best friend was calling her ex from my cell phone and he thought it was MY boyfriends ex girlfriend, Jenny. So my friend played along and he was talking about something that happened with my boyfriend and jenny and he was asking "her" about it (while it was really my friend). He said that my boyfriend had rubbed all over her boobs and put her hand on his stuff and was just messing around with her a lot on the way back from a football game. Well, I guess she said she couldnt do it because he had a g/f (me? ...

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what do i do?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 2:44 am

This always happens to me, and im so bad at dealing with it.

Il be hanging out with a guy and a group of people, and well be flirting a little tiny bit but more just talking as friends. Some teasing but thats all. And then later, all the girls go 1 place and the guys go over another place and one of the guys always ends up texting me to see who i like. And i kno the guy i was hanging out with is reading what im gonna say.

And i cant say i like somebody else, because that would hurt him.

I cant say i like the person, because i do but not enough that i want somthing to happen.

And if i say nobody, they keep bugging me about it.

And in person i can laugh and roll my eyes but on text i cant do that. Plz help me!

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