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slutty? or not..
okay i want everyone to be completely honest.
so me and this guy went out for like little more than half a year and then we broke up. but i found out like a week before we broke up he did stuff with this girl who happens to be related to me. and i understand why he did what he like we had a big fight because something stupid i did i didnt cheat but i made a mistake in listening to someone i barley knew over believing the guy that i loved with all my heart but any ways now this guy like talks to me every night and talks about how he wants to hookup and crap and i would definitely even though he has a new girlfriend(the girl he cheated on me with) and im still in love with him and i know he still loves me its a really hard situation, and most of you will probably think "if he cheated he doesnt love you" but it isnt like that. so i just want to know like would that make me like a slut or whore because of what im doing? like do you think that makes me a bad person?
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if he's seeing a new girlfriend (one that he cheated on you with) you should seriously back off
1. weren't you really upset when he cheated on you weren't you upset that your relative let that happen .. be the bigger person
2. if he's trying to hookup with you while he has a new girlfriend he's a scumbag.. he's a scumbag for cheating on you in the first place ;; and he definably is using you
if you do hookup with him you could very likely get that reputation .. i really don't think its a good idea
i know you love him but i think you love how he used to be.. do you really love cheating, lying, hurt "if he cheated he doesn't love you" but it isn't like that." sorry hun but i think it is =/
i don't even know you but you deserve better then that everybody does.. let it go move on
heartbreak happens to everyone
you'll meet a better guy that loves you enough not to cheat on you
if he only wants too hook up screw it BUT if he wants to get back with you have him break it off with his girl and take this extra slow and say i need to gain your trust back but if he backs off quickly you'll know he's using you
good luck and I'm really sorry about your situation
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It's not slutty at all. Things just took a slight turn for the worst and now you want him back. But I think a break might do the two of you good. If he wants to have another girlfriend for now, let him. You should try to meet other people as well. There's no reason the two of you can't be friends, but there is also no reason for you to "hook up" on the side while either of you is dating someone else. It's not fair to his girlfriend, nor is it fair to your heart. Let things go with him and if that love you're talking about is real, you will end up back together with him in the end.
I'm sure you're young and you have a lot going for you. Take a break from this guy for awhile, but be sure to try and stay friends. Things will work out in the end. You might meet someone even better than he is. And if you don't, you'll realize how great he is for you and I'm sure he'll realize the same about you. Take a chance and go with the flow. Everything will be okay, I promise.
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None of that makes you a ho or a bad person. The girl he's dating is probably not such a good person though. I have no idea why on earth he's dating her though, if he loves you. If he's with this other girl, but loves you, he's most likely going to go back to you. But if he doesn't... well, I don't know. I am not a mind-reader.
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