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Losing Interest?
IM 15/f and bf is 16/m
Ok well, my bf CJ is this really great guy, and i really like him, but im afraid he might be loosing intrest in me. He used to call me every night, just to talk, and even if it was only a three minute conversation, he still called to tell me he loved me. But lately it has stoped, in the past five days, we've talked three times, and i've called him all three times. And last night he told me he'd call me back, and never did. I really like him, and dont want to loose him, what should i do, or am i overreacting? please help
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Well that sucks..It's no fun when that sorta thing starts to happen..especially when you have gotten so use to the everyday phone calls..I say he's just playing the old "dating game"..I would play it right back at him...guys like to have a challenge...If he doesnt call you everyday..i can understand wanting to then call him..and would agree with doing it maybe once or twice..to recipricate his actions..but then after that..I would just try to stay busy if he doesnt call (find a hobby..or if you have one already than do that) go out with your girlfriends show him that you can have fun with or without him etc..I would say..to do this...during the "few days" he doesnt call..typically when a guy is interested..he will start calling you..believe me..sometimes they also just need space..like we all do..plus..once he finds out how much fun you had during those days..he will want to make sure that he will not miss out on the fun next time....
now if a week goes by and he doesnt call you..then i would say to approach him...if he sees nothing wrong with his actions...guess what?? his actions arent going to change...with that I will say...Dont make someone a priority you only makes you an option.
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I think if he calls you again you should bring it up. Maybe ask if everything is ok.
Hope I can help,
Shelby=)
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Hmmm.
Does he do anything outside of school? Like any sports? Cause he might just be busy with that or maybe he forgot he had practice that night, so he couldn`t call you back or something. He could`ve been really tired too & just fell asleep. Maybe he`s just really busy, you know, with school starting & everything. Or if he had bad grades last year, his parents might be pushing him to do better thing year. Do you know if he has any family problems or anything? Something could be going on at home & that might have him worried or stressed.
I would just try to talk to him about it.
Just ask him if he thinks you two are drifting or anything.
Goodluckk! =]
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