Member Since: October 21, 2007
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Last Update: October 21, 2007
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okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.
well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"
he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"
so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone calls just say im with you." and i said "okay but why"
he then said, "i'm going to hang out with a few friends and lucy is in the group and i told robert i wouldnt talk to her "
so i was like "okay whatever"
then he texts me the next day @ 6AM saying "goodnight baby.if anyone ask i was with you til 6AM"
so he hasnt called since tuesday so i call him blocked and just see if hes alive
so from tuesday -thursday i call blocked and later on thursday at about 11pm i was with my cousin and he calls and says "i know its you thats calling, give up."
so i denied it and my cousin took the blame.
so friday i was with this my friends cuz they were making fun of jacob and how he got in an accident so i sent jacob a text saying "i'm with my friends right now and the story they're telling me about your last accident is pretty funny"
so like 2 minutes later he calls and bitches at me saying
"how is it funny that i got in an accident"
i told him
"i'm not saying its funny, i'm saying the story i'm listening to is funny, cuz its so different from the one you told me"
well saturday i go on his myspace and read a message to lucy saying
"heyy cutie im at my parents and im just misssin you thinkin that you should be in my arms its like 446 i called you and a older guy answered sayin i had the wrong number i think it was your dad well anyways ill c you on sunday (link)
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I agree..with the person below me...tell him friend..and then move on..he's not worth your time...you may not be able to see it now..but when you find a guy...who doesnt act like a boy..and knows how to treat a lady...then you will definately realize..
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IM 15/f and bf is 16/m
Ok well, my bf CJ is this really great guy, and i really like him, but im afraid he might be loosing intrest in me. He used to call me every night, just to talk, and even if it was only a three minute conversation, he still called to tell me he loved me. But lately it has stoped, in the past five days, we've talked three times, and i've called him all three times. And last night he told me he'd call me back, and never did. I really like him, and dont want to loose him, what should i do, or am i overreacting? please help (link)
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Well that sucks..It's no fun when that sorta thing starts to happen..especially when you have gotten so use to the everyday phone calls..I say he's just playing the old "dating game"..I would play it right back at him...guys like to have a challenge...If he doesnt call you everyday..i can understand wanting to then call him..and would agree with doing it maybe once or twice..to recipricate his actions..but then after that..I would just try to stay busy if he doesnt call (find a hobby..or if you have one already than do that) go out with your girlfriends show him that you can have fun with or without him etc..I would say..to do this...during the "few days" he doesnt call..typically when a guy is interested..he will start calling you..believe me..sometimes they also just need space..like we all do..plus..once he finds out how much fun you had during those days..he will want to make sure that he will not miss out on the fun next time....
now if a week goes by and he doesnt call you..then i would say to approach him...if he sees nothing wrong with his actions...guess what?? his actions arent going to change...with that I will say...Dont make someone a priority you only makes you an option.
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15/f. I dislike my dad and mom. I have nothing for them, nothing against them. I don't feel anything for them. They're like nobody to me. They don't ignore me or abuse me or anything. But I can't bring myself to say "I love you guys." Because I know I'll be bullshitting everyone. I also dislike my sister. My parents get me stuff I want, and they treat me like other parents treat their daughter. But I strongly dislike them. I love being alone, untouched, in my own room. Or instead, out of the house and away from them. I hate being involved with them. And my other relatives live in another country. I don't talk with my parents, and I don't need their advice. I don't confide in them. What can I do?
Any advice? :/ (link)
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Considering the fact that you are 15...I would say that how you feel along with your actions are fairly normal for a teen...Now if you had said that you wanted to harm your parents or anyone in your family..then I would say to get help ASAP...but if what you are feeling is just not wanting to be around them as much etc..I say it's a "teen phase"
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