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I really need help, I'm so confused about my boyfriend.
Okay, this is kind of long and probably confusing...but please try to help.
(17/f)
I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months. I really love him and he means more to me than anything.
Last night my best friend was calling her ex from my cell phone and he thought it was MY boyfriends ex girlfriend, Jenny. So my friend played along and he was talking about something that happened with my boyfriend and jenny and he was asking "her" about it (while it was really my friend). He said that my boyfriend had rubbed all over her boobs and put her hand on his stuff and was just messing around with her a lot on the way back from a football game. Well, I guess she said she couldnt do it because he had a g/f (me? and it would be wrong. I dont know what to do, though, because my bf said he didnt do it and it hurt his feelings that i didnt believe him at first. but then again, why would the other guy lie to the person who was involved in it unless he knew it was us? agghhh i'm so confused. I love him and breaking up is a last resort, I just wish if it happened that he would tell me the truth. ANY help would be SO greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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i would go to your friends ex and talk to him about it directly then i'd find out who that girl was and talk to her too and maybe her friends and just see whats up.. but dont let your boyfriend hear that your asking around because then he could find out that your doubting him ;; but seriously the last thing you wanna do is stay in a relationship with a cheating boyfriend
i know you love him but its NOT worth it.
just find out ask around and i hope i helped <3
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hey i agree with teardrops7 there. I think you should confront your best friend's ex, and ask him directly about it. And if he goes all like, what the hell? and what are you saying?? or i have no idea what your talking about??
Tell him, tell him, that when he thought your friend was Jenny, your friend was just playing along at first, and when he started saying all this stuff about your boyfriend,you insisted on acting as if your Jenny, because ofcourse you had to know what the hell he was saying.
He won't fight with you or your best friend, cause he can't blame you for being curious about something as such.
And if he has the least bit of care or i don't know, even sympathy or something, maybe dignity, he'll tell you, even if he tells you half the truth, but he'll spill it all out, cause he'll be stuck and he wouldn't be able to deny any of it.
And if he says that its true and really happened, then make a move, and confront your boyfriend, and here, you'd have solid evidence then, and maybe you wouldn't feel that breaking up is anywhere near last resort, but if turns out something more like fooling around or a lie, or this huge silly prank, which i highly doubt, then whatever, he was being an idiot on the phone, and you and your friend played along. so whatever, and just stick around with your boyfriend, and apologize for having had doubts about such an issue.
Thats it.
If you need any further advice or help, please be free to contact me.
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okay get ahold of your friends ex and ask him directly. if he acts like he is lying then its a lie, but if he acts like its true then its true..just dont say it was you guys on the other line of the phone just say you found out from someone..if he knew it was you he could never trust you again...hope i helped
xoxo
teardrops7
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