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Make-out =\


Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 4:48 pm

okay so im 13/f. my bf is 14... weve been going out for 1 month.
kayy so heres the thing..
he LOVES making out..
but i dont..kinda prude i know..
so heres the thing..
i dont know how to make out..
ive made out once with my ex and i HATED it because he just did it so slobbery..
or i dont know if it was me=\.
i hope not..
so hes always lyk babe i cant wait to makeout with you and bite your lips ...
so then when we walk to 4th period [[when he wants to makeout]]he always gets me in a corner...
and i just try avoiding it..
can anyone give me advice to how to makeout?
or how to make it special or w.e.?

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my heart doesn't know wat it wants


Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 4:39 pm

ugh i have a major problem right now.i am currently going out with this guy bobby. he is really nice to me but i don't like him that way and i don't know wat to do because i will feel like a bitch if i break up with him because we have only been going out for like 2 weeks and im afraid his parents wont like me and i haven't even met them.and on top of that I haven't gotten over my ex. i miss him so much i wish i could get him bak but he just used me and doesn't want anything to do with me anymore he just wants to be with his slutty girlfriend that i used to be friends with. i don't know wat my heart wants anymore!!! HELP!!


please

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sayinggg love?!


Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 3:41 pm

okay well today was me and my man's 1 month anniverseryy. :D and we havent kissed and we havent said i love you yet. we went out 1 time before and he had told me that he likes to say i love you first cause he was just like that and doesnt want to say it if he doesnt mean it. and now that we have been going outt for 1 month and he still hasent said anything yett, should i talk to him. or whatt? i started saying XO! and stuff when he gets home and texts me i say okayyy. XO! and stuff but he doesnt text me back. i dont want to sound all pushy and telll him i think we shoulld kiss and i think we should sayy i love you too each other. so yeahh helpp me pleaseee! :D

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The Next Step


Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 2:48 pm

16/F. So, this guy I've had a crush on for a few months asked me to Homecoming. We went and I had a lot of fun. We stayed very close all night, as in his arm never left my shoulders and my arm never left his waist. Except when I walked it out, but I digress. We cuddled and snuggled into each other a lot, but we never kissed(I could tell he wanted to, but I thought it was too soon). He's very shy, sweet, and an all-around good guy. I'm really thankful I picked through all of the arrogant losers at my school and found this boy. :-) But anyways, we haven't talked since Homecoming(which was this past saturday, so about three days ago). Even at Homecoming, we didn't talk much. We just joked around a bit, held each other and danced(we didn't grin...

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i dont understand please help me


Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 12:15 pm

ok i have been with this guy for two years and we have a 1yr old daughter.. well i found out four months ago he cheated on me so i broke up with him.... well a couple of months ago we talked and he said he wanted to try to work it out that he loved me and so we started talking again... well a week after that i went to take my daughter to see him and i wanted to see him well he was on the phone with another gurl knowing we r trying to work it out.. well i got mad and left.. then not too long ago he called me and asked me if i would get mad and start a bunch of shit if he was dating someone.. and of course i said no know ing that i needed to get over him... well now he and that gurl r bf/gf and i cant get over the fact of that... i want to ge...

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What to do?


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 11:53 pm

I just moved to North Carolina about 2 months ago and I don't really know
that many people and not too long ago I met this boy and he and I started
dating about 2 and a half weeks ago.


The first week or so of knowing him was great..and we talked constantly
until one of us had to go. And then once we started dating it seemed like
we'd just run out of things to talk about.. I barely know him so I know its
almost impossible for us to have run out of things to talk about.


I just want to get to know him.. but i don't know what to ask him. Can you
help me come up with things to talk about? What about dating ideas?

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Guys and Flirting


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 11:44 pm

My bgf is a flirt and i know that. But he doesnt at least i guess not. In our bio. class he talks to a bunch of girls and kinda flrits with them and i know he flirts with other girls. Or 'overly friendly' as he calls it. Well not exactly hes just like 'im just talking to them' and im like 'sure' *sarcasm* haha But he says he likes me and acts like it so my question is do guys just naturally (well some of them) just flirt without even realizing it? i kinda do but im kinda aware of it. It doesnt bug me tho which is weird because i can get pretty jealous but i guess its because i know he cares about me. :D he does it right in front of me and then next pd will be totally flirting with me! Does he just not realize it? just like a habit? my frien...

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this boy...


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 11:42 pm

i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)

how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?

please be as detailed as possible!!!

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feel up


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 10:59 pm

i am 15 and have really small boobs like a 32 A and what happens if when i make out with my bf he wants to feel up my shirt, it would be really embarassing becuase im so small, but i dont want him to think im not intrested. What should i do? and how long should i know him before i let him do this?

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benifichial friends


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 10:04 pm

ok there is this guy we used to have a fling with each other like more like friends with benifets but now i actually like him and im not sure if he likes me too but im pretty sure he likes me should i just tell him i want him back or jsy get over it please help me a.s.a.p i really want to know hes really my type

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dancing at homecoming


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 9:55 pm

15/f/freshman

i was talking to my crush at the homecoming dance for like a minute and then he said something like, "soooo..." and then i asked him, "want to dance?" and then he said "sure" so we danced for like 3-4 songs. i then finally said, "okay i need to go find my friend" and then he answered "okay" and then i said "see you monday" and i held my arms out for a hug and he hugged back.

he is in a couple of my classes and we have talked in school before the dance and i sort of had a hunch he liked me last year but i don't know! becuase if he really didn't want to dance with me wouldn't he have gotten out of it earlier by saying something like, "...

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guys! answers preffurably...


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 9:51 pm

ok well what do guys like to get from their girlfriends...



i need to know like specific things to get an idea...im having serious troubles and i want to make both his b-day and christmas comming up memorable :D
i would feel bad for asking for help but he had to get his sister to help him out a bit...soo now im actually gonna ask.
PLEASE HELP!.

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I can't figure it out


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 9:37 pm

Okay, well last year I liked a guy. [let's name him bob] And well, last year he got into drugs. So, i kind of still liked him, but I also liked other guys. And when school started this year, I kind of still liked him. Well, i'm a sophomore, and I met this freshmen. [let's name him zack] well, i basically see zack most of the time when i'm at school. his locker is right next to mine. i'm always late, and so is he. so i always see him. during break, i see him. i have him for fourth period. i see him during lunch. and i even see him during passing periods. I can admit I like him. but recently i've noticed that he is exactly like Bob before the drugs. and i'm not sure if I like Zack for who he is, or I like him because of Bob. I am confused. I ...

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continuing from a guy that broke my heart


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 9:36 pm


15/f

i'm sorry i'm bothering you, but i've i already asked him "what do you mean" but, he NEVER responds when i ask him. And i've asked him almost 3 times now within 3-5 months. But, after that day we were talking he changed his myspace name to, "I WANT U EXCLUSIVE GIRL"..could he be talking about me? and i know his display name is from that band song with P.diddy, but like what does it mean?

THANKS IN ADVANCE~!

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If a guy spends every waking moment with you does he love yo


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 8:53 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. During the school year last year and this year we saw each other every weekend (both Saturday and Sunday) and still do. In the summer, he had a job, but when he had to work I would see him before and after he worked, and on the days he didn't go to work I was with him all day. We saw each other every single day in the summer unless we had to go on a family vacation (and even then I brought him on one once). I feel like he gives up everything for me. Does that mean he really does love me?

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love with a firend


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 8:50 pm

hey this queshtion is mosly for girls. i have a firend that i like and i think that she might like me too but im not really sure if i should ask her. i think that she is sorta giveing me an idea that she dose but im just affraid that if i do ask her and she dosent like me then we wont be as close. what do you guys think i should do and how should i aproch her wiht it. plz answer tis and thank you

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we cant move on .


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 8:43 pm

ok . this summer i cheated on my boyfriend . & i toLd him Like a month ago . he took me back and its been gooddd , weLL [ aLmost ] its been a whiLe now & he toLd me he wiLl never be able to trust me and again and beLeive me . weLL hes been keeping tight tabs onme and everything . he says he's tired of us arguing and tired of worring about who im taLkin to and wat im doni . does this mean he wants to break up ?

its been 7 months . i Love this boy with my heart

but its Like we just cant move on because he KN0WS i wouLd [ never ] hurt him again but he just doesnt wanna Let him seLf beLieve it & i mean its kiLLing me . i dont wanna Lose him ; but its Like were stuck on that same day i toLd him ,w...

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hes moving


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 8:21 pm

Well i like this guy ALOT. Like ALOT ALOT. I like him more than ive ever liked anyone. And he likes me too & hes planning to ask me out tomorrow, but theres one problem:

Hes moving in 3 weeks. Hes not moving too far but its about an hour away, and i obivousley wont be able to him very often.

I dont know what to do because i like him soooo much so if i say yes, ill like him even more and then he'll move, but i dont really want to say no. There is the chance we could break up before 3 week.

so what do i do?

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Parents R Racist!!


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 7:15 pm

My parents are divorced, but still have the same ideas on alot of stuff. I am white. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My parents both say that i can not like(have a crush on), date, or marry anyone who is Black, "Mexican"(I tell them all the time "HISPANIC"), Chinese, or Mixed. The thing is, I like ALOT of people! About half of which are not white. Its not because I like other colors, I just happen to like these people. my parents say they will disown me if i ever marry someone not white. The boy I am crazy about is Hispanic. I have a lot of different colored friends. So racism realy offends me. But whenever i mention this, they get mad. What can I do!

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tricks or ways to get this guy to come back to me


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 6:50 pm

alright.

i like this guy. and he likes me. but he might be falling for my friend..but its just because shes really really flirty. im prettier than her, if that matters.

but i seriously need to step my game up.

someone give me some specific tricks or ways to get this guy to come back to me without me seeming to desperate.

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