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Best Friends.. No more
My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.
She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other?
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first off, you dont need to appologize to her, you did nothing wrong. She should be appologizing to you. If she wont talk to you and always blocks you out, i dont think she is a true best friend. Maybe you should try to talk to her again and if she does the same thing, then just try to find some more friends to hang out wtih and maybe later on, she will come back and appologize adn things will be different. hope this helped!
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if she's gonna be like that and not talk to you, then maybe you are better off apart, but if you wanna talk to her again, ask her about something that you guys did together once... like going up to her and saying "hey, where's that place that (name something you guys did that she took you to)" and she if she's willing to talk to you without being stuck up
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she should be apoligizin to you !
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wow i would so not apologize to her.. shes retarded for doing that to you and all shes trying to do is turn it around and make it look like you did something wrong when you didnt. shes feeling guilty for what she did so shes making you feel like shit for it. i say that if she is going to do that kinda crap to you and then try to make YOU feel bad for it.. then she shouldnt be your friend in the first place.. i kno that sounds harsh and you dont want the friendship to end but if shes lost a friend this way before than she just sucks at holding onto ppl.. she needs to realize that she can take the blame for SOMETHING and if she cant see that, then dont bother talking to her and do NOT apologize, you shouldnt have to.. stand up to her .. and if she tries to talk to you and step on you and make you feel bad for being mad at her.. tell her to fuck off cuz she has NO RIGHT to be mad at you cuz you did absolutely nothing but get upset over something she did that was stupid
goodluck--lovemucho
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What on earth are YOU apologising for?
You're the one who was lied to.
You're the one who got dumped because of her.
And you want to be the one to apologize? I think not. F her and the horse she rode in on. Get a new friend.
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Okay, I think that you have nothing to be sorry about. You didn't anything wrong, it was your friend. She has no reason to be mad ... she's the one that made your boyfriend break up with you. If she's done this before, she might do it again even if you do make up. I had a friend similar to your friend. She continuously screwed me over but I shrugged it off because I thought that she was my friend and that she was just in a bad mood or something. But one day she just went too far, and all of the things that she had ever done to me came back. I realized that I didn't need the crap she was putting me through. If your friend is going to let your relationship get messed up over a guy, than I don't think she is good enough to be your best friend.
Hope I helped
Xo, Alyssa
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if this has happened before with her and her other "best friend" then it must be happening with yall. she obviously isn't a really good friend if she did that. i just went through the sme thing but i didn't lose my bf and he doesn't like her. she likes him but everyone calls her fat and that she has herpies. WHO CARES!! i don't like her anymore. just tell your friend to go _____ herself.
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Rea;;y you shouldn't be apologizing to her at all,she is the 1 that caused the whole situation between you 2,She should apologize though.....and you need to call her or give her a note and tell her what you need 2 tell her ok???...and you should tell her that if your old boyfriend broke up with you 4 her then she need to watch him if shes going to keep him around friends ok..:hope I helped:please please rate and leave a question in my inboxxx:GRAPE
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Just write her a note explaining what she did, and why you are mad at her for it. She should really be the one apologizing if she broke you and your boyfriend up. Just tell her how you feel about what she did.
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"Like hers and her other best friends"?
She obviously has trouble keeping best friends because she lies and hurts her friends motivated purely by jealousy. Personally, I don't think you are better off with her in your life at all. Find another best friend. Maybe the one that was her best friend before. Seems like she had the sense to walk away.
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You shouldn't be the one telling her your sorry, she should be the one doing that. She's the one that made you and your boyfriend break up. She wasn't being a good friend at all. Maybe you should give it a couple of days. She'll cool off and so will you. Once you feel like everythings okay, then try talking to her. Just tell her that what pissed you off the most was the lying. Best friend's don't lie to eachother. All you wanted was the truth from her and you didn't get it and that is why you were mad at her. Explain to her that you don't want to lose your friendship over a guy. Because no guy is worth that, at all. Friends are forever, boyfriends come and go. Explain all your feelings towards her and once you're done, I'm sure she'll understand and forgive you. You just have to have a really good heart-to-heart talk and get everything on the right track again.
♥ Krissy
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she doesnt sound like a very good friend... wait a few days and hopefully things will blow over... If you tell her your sorry and shes still acting like this then you should just forget about her and get more friends that believe you
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