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Hello everyone. My name is Alyssa. I am 14 years old and i live in Georgia. I love giving my friends advice, so I decided I would share my helpful info. Feel free to ask anything you want, I'd be happy to answer your questions.

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My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.

She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other?

Okay, I think that you have nothing to be sorry about. You didn't anything wrong, it was your friend. She has no reason to be mad ... she's the one that made your boyfriend break up with you. If she's done this before, she might do it again even if you do make up. I had a friend similar to your friend. She continuously screwed me over but I shrugged it off because I thought that she was my friend and that she was just in a bad mood or something. But one day she just went too far, and all of the things that she had ever done to me came back. I realized that I didn't need the crap she was putting me through. If your friend is going to let your relationship get messed up over a guy, than I don't think she is good enough to be your best friend.

Hope I helped

Xo, Alyssa

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