ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 7:15 pm: Aww!! That's so sweet of you!! Aww; that Really IS cute!! Gosh, I'd N.E.V.E.R be lucky enough to have someone like me THAT much. I'm willing to bet that whateveR guy she is with... he's not even *H.A.L.F*T.H.E*M.A.N* you aRe!!!. You seem to be a veRy consideRate and kind peRson. And fRankly, it sounds like it's moRe of HER loss than youRs, by faR!! I say if she's going to ignoRe you and play immatuRe games.. then she's not woRth youR time anyhow!! I wouldn't woRRie about it... I'm shoRe a teRRific guy like you won't be single foR long! Just keep youR head up, and push foRwaRd!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!!! Hope I helped!!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
GyMnAsT4LiFe440 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:20 pm: well there is really nothing u can do bc u cnt like control her but go up to her and be like hey if nething happens in ur ralationship imm always avilable and give her ur #. see if that works.LoL [ GyMnAsT4LiFe440's advice column | Ask GyMnAsT4LiFe440 A Question ]
Maura answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:59 pm: She doesnt like you. Find another girl.
(Edit) She might have rejected you because popular boy KNOWS HOW TO SPELL, CAPITALIZE, AND PUNCTUATE.
"Okay. I really like this girl in school and I gave her some chocolates with a note telling her how I really feel. Now she's not my friend anymore, and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school. Please give me advice. I'll rate you.
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:00 pm: Shes probably just shy cause maybe she doesnt feel the same way as you do. Let her go with the popular dude. Try finding someone else and move on. If your a really sweet guy which sounds like you are, and funny and girls like you then shes gunna wanna come back to you. You dont have to stop liking her to do this. Cause when she likes you, you can tell her that you had all along and everything you felt when she hurt you. I hope i helped! -aMaNdA <3* [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
sita answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:22 pm: OMG..... and girls say that all guys are jackasses SO NOT TRUE haha... you seem like a really sweet kid and shes probably missing out on a great guy ((being you))! if she stoped bein your friend then it wasnt meant to be someone who lets herself get scared by a lil honest note is wrong ... she should of told you how she felt even if her feelings were different that way you and her could end on good terms and still be friends today. Maybe shes dating the popular guy to get popularaty points what she doesnt know is that usually its the popular guys that end up hurting the girls...IF she ends up gettin hurt THERES UR CHANCE... be a friend for her if she really wants one. IF not let her be and move on to a better girl...Sweety dont stress out over this ... Theres millions of girls in the world and more than half are single and waitin for a sweet guy like you!
Teresita [ sita's advice column | Ask sita A Question ]
xChainMeUp13x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:43 am: sorry but she sounds like a bitch.. that wasnt cool how just becuz u told her how u feel she stops bein frends wit u nd goes out wit this most popular guy.. i say just forget bout her cuz theres really nothin u can do sadly
hope i helped
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kevin1986 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:43 am: Dude,you may have come on a little too strong. In the future,just ask the girl you want to the movies or somethin. She wasn't really ready for chocolates man. I'm not sure why she doesn't wanna be your friend anymore. But talk to her about that and be kinda sorry if you freaked her out. Sorry it didn't work out,dude. I've been there before. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
TiNaBeEnA182 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:23 am: sometimes u need to let things like this happen by themselves...yes girls do likes chocolate and stuff but maybe she just doesnt feel the same way for u as u do her...and now she prolly feels bad.just let everything happen by itself...maybe u shood apologize for smothering her like that....i t may not seem to u like smothering but to girls...it does... hope this helps [ TiNaBeEnA182's advice column | Ask TiNaBeEnA182 A Question ]
Juelz2005 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:10 am: oh you poor poor thing! she ripped out your heart and did a Mexican Hat Dance all over it then put it in a blender and hit puree!
that was a very cold thing of her to do. i guess, being a girl myself... :) ... she didnt feel the same about you and maybe it made her uncomfortable around you. i know it is tough, but you havbe to face reality hun. things like this happen all the time. i promise you you'll get over her, and find other girls and things like that.
but if you really miss her friendship, tell her that you understand she does not feelthe same and your ok with that! tell her you guyz can be frieends, cuz im sure you'd rather have her as just a friend than not at all.
best of luck and i hope and pray things go well for you, and for her too. but if you dont listen to any of my advice, do listen to this...follow your heart. it is smarter than you may think it is! so dont mope around. just do something about it. you cant make a difference if you just stand around and do nothing! no one gets ahead by sitting on their behind! :)
OrangeLuverr answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:09 am: Well if she's acting that immature about it then she obviously isnt worth ur time, as hard as this might be to deal with, just move on, the chocolates and note was a realy sweet way of telling her, and if she treats you liek that in return then you obviously need someone better. Kepp ur head up. <333. [ OrangeLuverr's advice column | Ask OrangeLuverr A Question ]
MCRRocks102 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 12:59 am: Okay man , girl do this all the time .So you want her she want him and he wants her. she was keeping her options open and now she is to infatuated with this guy and too scared to talk to you so if you still like her when she comes back i want you to tell her to go away! [ MCRRocks102's advice column | Ask MCRRocks102 A Question ]
ZeStY answered Saturday August 14 2004, 12:40 am: sounds like this girl is a bitch and u dont need her. you are way to sweet to try to take that from her [ ZeStY's advice column | Ask ZeStY A Question ]
xhunniebunchx answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:55 pm: aww sweetheart.. this girl doesnt deserve you at all!! you need to just forget her! there are tonz of girl who would want a guy like you! that girl is blind and when she finally realizes what she passed up and how great a guy you are.. its going to be too late and you'll be with someone who's 100% better than the stuck up jerk you'll have a girlfriend who appreciates you and loves you for who you are! just screw her! i know i would love to have a guy like you, i think anyone would! good luck and i know you will find the girl of ur dreams!! hope i helped! [ xhunniebunchx's advice column | Ask xhunniebunchx A Question ]
SilentHelper answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:53 pm: Hey "boy in denile." I'm not positive but the reason this girl isn't your friend anymore and is dating a popular guy now may be because she has feelings for you. As crazy as that may sound, it makes sense because when she found out that you liked her, her feelings for you could have been something she wanted to keep to herself and knowing that you felt the same way would have given her reason to form a relationship with you, which she may not have wanted. She might not have wanted to be with you because of something reguarding her reputation or maybe wanting to stay friends. Another reason she could have stopped being friends with you and dated someone else could have been because she didn't like you that way and thought that if she stayed friends with you that you would continue liking her and keep telling her and that may have made her uncomfortable, and she may be dating this new guy to try and tell you that she doesn't like you. However, reguardless of what anyone says, dating someone else and ending a friendship is deffinately not the way to tell someone you don't want to be with them! If this girl needs to take these unnesscesary measures in order to cover something or get her point out, then she is either not worth the time, or confused beyond the helping point... I don't think I helped very much but thank's for your time anyways.
xxxxxx answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:51 pm: You're trying too hard. The girl's probably not into the sweet romantic surprised. I think she's a little scared or it made her feel awkward... just give it time... [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
Leigh answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:42 pm: Well if anyone isn't being your friend anymore because you were expressing your true feelings then she isn't worth it. That really is the pits but you should look on the bright side of things theres other fishes in the sea. Just keep being yourself and smile.
~Hope I was of help~ [ Leigh's advice column | Ask Leigh A Question ]
Sweetie2oo4 answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:41 pm: aww sweetie im so sorry..don't worry about her, she doesn't deserve you. you were friends and you give her a gift and express your feelings and she disses you? -that's not cool-she wasn't a real friend in the first place. it seems like she's more interested in popularity than being a good friend and having someone who will treat her right. go out and get to know a new girl--definately 4get her, she's not worth your time!
any girl would be lucky to have a sweet guy like you and i'm sure there are plenty out there who would be willing to get to know and date you.
hope that helps, if you need anything else-i'm here 4 you! =)
KateStar1011 answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:34 pm: AWww...
That's really sad. She sounds like she didn't appricate anything you did for her. I don't think she deserves you at all. I think you need to kind of move on. I know that sounds bad...but you need to find somebody that'll appreciate the things you do for her. It's going to be hard, I know...but trust me sweetie, keep searching. Have a great night! <333 [ KateStar1011's advice column | Ask KateStar1011 A Question ]
Xoblondiebabe69oX answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:33 pm: so i take it you guys were friends before this? well just try talking to her about it and try to become her friend again. I am not sure if she said anything after you did that but maybe she just doesn't like you like that and she doesn't want to ruin the friendship? sorry, hope i helped
drop one in my inbox if ya want n hope it turns out well fer ya! [ Xoblondiebabe69oX's advice column | Ask Xoblondiebabe69oX A Question ]
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