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Confused
Posted Monday July 23 2018, 2:22 pm
Hey, I met this guy a week ago. He grabbed my attention once I met him.. he took me out twice. On the second day he asked if i ever gotten my feet’s licked and my butt. Lol that sounded weird. I told him if he is only looking for sex to let me k ow because am not trying to waste my time. He told me no that he finds me attractive etc. But after that day he havent written back to me. I don’t know if to hit him up or what . What do you think of this hun ? Thanks
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Falling too hard for my boyfriend of less than a month?
Posted Monday July 23 2018, 12:43 am
To start we're both in our mid 20's and young professionals. It's been a while since either of us have seriously dated anybody, but we get along so well and I really want things to work out long term. I've honestly never felt that way before about anybody and although I wouldn't say I'm "in love" with him yet, I do think he's absolutely amazing and I would be devastated if we broke up because I think we could go so far together.
Due to this I've been doing everything I can to make him happy. I don't complain about anything and I've been going out of my way to do sweet things for him.
I've honestly never thought so much of somebody before and I have a lot of respect for him.
I also real...
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HE ASKED ME TO HIS PLACE AFTER OUR FIRST DATE..WHY?
Posted Friday July 20 2018, 10:58 pm
we went for ice cream and the park....i had fun...but ....i know not everyone wants to screw after the first date but then again...why ask me to his place.... same shyt, diff guy....will it ever end....smdh, everybodies isnt a hoe ...there are a handful of folks who have some type of morals....this is a HUGE dating turn off for me....and why I like to turn down dates when dudes ask me out
my friend replied to my question with the following
No, it will never end. If you're going to date guys, then you're going to get asked for sex. Adults have sex, that's reality. Having it on the first date would be too soon, though, IMO.
Hon, refusing to have sex before marriag...
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He lied to me--What should I do?
Posted Friday July 20 2018, 2:49 pm
25/f
I am talking to a guy. Let's call him Andrew.
I met Andrew through mutual friends and I immediately had a crush on him. But I didn't do anything for years until later this year.
I didn't really talk to him until then. When we first met up, I wasn't attracted to him. I was just getting to know him. When we first met up, he kissed me. He told me he thought we had immediate chemistry and he wanted to take me out on a date. I agreed.
The next time we met, we kissed again. He said he wanted to see me again but he was going on an international trip for a month. He said he was going to travel to many places during this time. He asked I would be seeing a lot more of him when he got ba...
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Confused Feelings with my Best Friend
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 11:18 pm
So I am confused right now. I have this super close friend of mine who is now abroad. But before she left, we are already super close, and I am always there for her everytime when she had problems. She calls me at night crying her heart out about her relationship with her boyfriend who mistreats her badly. I always find ways to make her happy and cheering her up that we already have this so called bond as super BFF's. Lately they parted ways with her BF and she is alright now. We do have some communication every week, and I usually check on her if she already has eaten, how her day was going, those kinds of things. And she always says that, I always care for her compared to her XBF.
We had this chat in the last coupe of week...
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WHY DO NON VIRGINS WEAR PURE WHITE ON THEIR WEDDING DAY?
Posted Saturday July 7 2018, 8:27 pm
I think they should keep it real and wear black or even dingy...
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I feel like I made a mistake and I love another
Posted Monday July 2 2018, 6:35 pm
I am going into high school as a freshmen and I am currently 14 years in age (I am a female). Over the past few months, there is a guy I will call Sam. He and I have been flirting a lot and he recently asked me out, and I said yes. I realize that I have liked him for a while; but, I have also liked another person named Philip or an even longer amount of time.
Philip and I have really gotten to know each other for the past 2 years because we always talk in band class. I recently learned from a friend that he has had a crush on me for about a year (which really gave me hope). I have done so much for Philip, but then I believe he moved on from me and started to date a girl; their relationship did not work out because they never...
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When should you stop dating two people and choose one?
Posted Sunday July 1 2018, 11:05 pm
I've gone on two dates with two different guys and I like them both a lot. I've also been talking daily to both for around 2 weeks now. I could see myself dating either of them, but I also realize it's too early to decide that. I honestly haven't found a flaw in either guy though.
We're all in our early 20's if that changes anything.
Is it okay that I continue dating both of them? I know it seems silly because I would assume you should stop dating one if the other asks you to be their girlfriend and you accept, but in the past I've had guys tell me I led them on when I was also dating somebody else, despite not having made a commitment to one or the other.
What is the general rule on this?
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is swinging good or is it wrong?
Posted Saturday June 30 2018, 5:05 pm
hi, how good is swinging? is it only for a couple who are in a relationship or anybody can do it? why is it if my ex boyfriend is asking me if we both could go swinging with the other couple? I have reminded him you're my ex boyfriend and we're not even a couple but instead he says it's just a sex. we're still in good term and we're still friends as we both were before we dated for a few months as he knows I'm single still and he's not. he says it's something to spice up and I know you'll love it because you're an extremely sexual girl. please can anyone explain why is he saying all this? we do love each other and he does say he will love me and think of me forever and I love him too. what did he mean by 'sexual'??? going to swinging as a c...
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Stupid for staying and not sure how to leave...
Posted Tuesday June 26 2018, 1:25 pm
At this point in my relationship, I pretty much figured out my significant other is never going to change and probably does not care about me at all. Unfortunately we just moved in together signed a 14 month lease, i'd have to move back in with my parents which would be hard. And can't afford to break the lease. But i can't do this anymore, honestly i barely want to have intimate moments with me because he makes me feel like shit all the time, he is angry all the time. Literally every conversation with him is an argument to him where he feels like he is always right and has to win even if we are discussing our opinions. It's always his way and at this point I feel like he doesn't need me in the relationship, he just needs someone to control...
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just a confused teen
Posted Wednesday June 13 2018, 11:09 am
Hi so i am a 17 year old female and i am dating a male the same age. We have been dating for about 7 months now and we were both kind of scared to make the first move so the first time we kissed was prom night before we went out to eat. So it was graduation day and at our school juniors show up to support the seniors (the place they hold the ceremony is right by the school so everyone shows up to school and seniors ride over first and then juniors and then we come back blah blah blah)and there is a little ritual going on, anyways that day came and me and my boyfriend were both there and were in the same class and i was just sitting on the table and he was sitting in the chair across from me and at first that was all it was i was just sittin...
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just a confused ready teen
Posted Wednesday June 13 2018, 11:07 am
Hi so i am a 17 year old female and i am dating a male the same age. We have been dating for about 7 months now and we were both kind of scared to make the first move so the first time we kissed was prom night before we went out to eat. So it was graduation day and at our school juniors show up to support the seniors (the place they hold the ceremony is right by the school so everyone shows up to school and seniors ride over first and then juniors and then we come back blah blah blah)and there is a little ritual going on, anyways that day came and me and my boyfriend were both there and were in the same class and i was just sitting on the table and he was sitting in the chair across from me and at first that was all it was i was just sittin...
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Double World
Posted Saturday June 9 2018, 7:50 am
Alright so my boyfriend and I have a great relationship but it feels like sometimes he lives in a double life. For instance yesterday we were hanging out and he didn’t want to come and get food w me or go to the mall “because he didn’t want to hold me back” so I went by myself and then when I got to his house which this is what happens a lot we just go downstairs in his room and lay on his bed. He either falls asleep or we watch Netflix and it was a beautiful day out and we were sitting in his basement per usual. Then he went out and didn’t text me back all night like actually all night even after multiple times I have texted him. I am getting bored of feeling alienated from his life because behind that basement door everything i...
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I have a date tomorrow night !
Posted Friday June 8 2018, 11:34 am
I am a 29 year old female and I have a date with a guy that i knew in high school that I have not seen in 10 years. We are going bowling and out to eat . I have no idea what to wear. I am so nervous. I still leave at home with my mom and my mom wants to meet him plus she wants me back home by midnight. How do i tell this guy that i have not seen in 10 years that i have a curfew?
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Posted Thursday June 7 2018, 9:44 pm
He told me he and his girlfriend are going to end up together in the future with so sure. They already have a small kid and they live together. I told him you two are going to split up one day and it’s just a matter of time but you’ll see and that time you’ll think of me and he replied I’ll always think of you. We’re two exes. He just is very assured that they’ll never split up ever ever and when I told him you’ll split up, he didn’t seem to like it so what is it? Are men normally this sure or is he trying to tell me he’s over me or telling me to go start dating? He does know I still love him and not quite over him. We’re both Scorpios. Life and relationships are not easy. Does he wants to stay with her forever? What does he mean?
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Why is he saying all this?
Posted Wednesday June 6 2018, 4:13 pm
Hello,
In our 30’s
He’s an ex boyfriend of few months. He broke up with me because he wanted to be with his kids and gf. Still says he loves me when we see each other. Still the same polite, loving and caring boy. Even though we broke up we still see each other and keep making love whenever he’s at mine (I feel awful) but I still love him, love him deeply and he’s aware of that. He says he can’t be with me but says he enjoys my company and making love when we see each other. We broke up months ago. We had an argue over he can’t be with me and I told him fine, whatever, few days ago but today he asked me if I had bought a condom as I forgot the other day. So I don’t understand, we broke up, he says he can...
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I am in love with a guy who will never love me back.
Posted Wednesday June 6 2018, 2:39 pm
Long story short, just to avoid length, I like him, he doesnt know. He explicitly stated that he'll never like me back. We're both 19, we're bestfriends. I'm hoping I'd just let this feeling fade to preserve our friendship. But everyday, it just seems like a reminder that he'll never like me back. If I become honest, he said he'll drop the friendship.
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Am I thinking too much into it or is he not interested anymore?
Posted Tuesday June 5 2018, 12:40 pm
25/f
I feel like I am back in high school when I feel/think this way.
I had a crush on this guy four years ago. There was just something about him. Maybe I just thought he was cute? I'm not sure. I met him at a bar and he didn't remember me at all. Since he was in his partying phase and he told me he was drinking a lot back then. "Borderline alcoholic" is what he would tell me.
Speeding up to this year (no, he's not drinking as much anymore now): A month ago, I reached out to him to see how he was doing. And we started talking and it turns out there was an immediate spark between us. When we both saw each other, we acted neutral towards each other until a stranger tried hitting on me. S...
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You answered my previous question and i would like more help
Posted Monday June 4 2018, 6:18 pm
so you answered a question about me and my sisters brothers sister and our sexual adventures. So i just need help on how to approach her. Like do i just say "hey you remember when i was rubbing your clit on the couch, you wanna take that farther?" or like idk what do i say, she is kinda awkward and so am i so idk how to approach it. Plus i still dont know if she would tell her brother like i dont know how close they are. I also think it would be kinda awkward if she said no and we're both over there because then there's this awkward silence and we're still often left at their house alone together, and when stuff is planned out isnt it more awkward. Plus what if we start doing it and she doesn't like it and tells like her mom or so...
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Posted Friday June 1 2018, 6:59 pm
what does it mean when an ex boyfriend says, he wishes he was single so he could be with me, he told me you came on a wrong time. i cried so much even though we broke up we were still seeing each other twice a week. known for 18 months. dated even though he was still with his girlfriend as they were not happy but he broke up with me for his kids and current girlfriend. I'm not a bad person and please do not judge me but why would he say he wished he was single but he is not? we're in our mid 20's. thank you
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