Member Since: July 14, 2014
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Last Update: November 8, 2014
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I'm a 14 year old and I play a lot on this gaming website. I met a guy (Who claims he's 26). I claim that I'm 18. I never say my real age and never will due to safety reasons. I just feel so uncomfortable talking to him, but yet I feel emotionally attached to him. He's never asked me for my address or anything personal like that, but he's told me that he's on parole and all that and I kind of help him to make him feel better. I know I shouldn't lie and all that, but it's safety reasons. I've heard his voice before (Microphone) but he hasn't heard mine. What should I do? I feel kind of "unsafe", but I feel that about everything since I have a panic disorder. I want to just end the talking by just not starting conversation, but me and him play the game a lot and end up starting conversation. (link)
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A lot of people feel that way too. You may chat with him online, but you don't even know who he is. You don't even know if he lied about his age too. I'm just saying that this is dangerous of What you're doing because it can cause you into big troubles. I will recommend you to not to play that game anymore, even if you love it. First, It's not for your age, and second, for you're protection. Why don't you chat with some other people at your school, or at the mall, instead of meeting people online, because you never know if they're fake.
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Hi, so my half brother is 10 years old and I don't know what to get him for christmas? My price range is $5-$15 dollars. I can buy stuff from the store and make him something or just buy him something?
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Christmas is coming in about a month. So all the time you'll have, try to make some more money to buy him something that he likes. A lot of boys, like video games, or action sets and much more. You can go search in stores or ask him What will he Love to have, and try to save up money, so that you can make him happy.
Hope this help.😜
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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I don't know you so I can't say which haircut is best for you, but just so you know, don't care what people think. If they say that your hair is ugly, ignore them. Follow what your heart says and if you hate it a lot, just wear a hat.
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I will go back to school in august and I am going to high school for the first time. Kind of nervous about it and ugh, I want to get it over with. Can you guys give me some "high school experience" stories or tips or something? I think I am really gonna hate it. Is it as big of a deal as it is on tv and stuff, cause I always hear how high school was like a crazy time...
Anyway, any advice?
Thanks, "hsh8tr", (link)
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High school is a big step for a teenager. Not only because of your grades and studies, but also of the popularity and the way to fit in. High school is a difficult step that everybody is trying to go over with. But, it also matters of your reputation. To be as popular or to have friends, you need to have a perfect reputation, and sometimes, you need to leave the old you and become somebody new. HOMEWORKS!!! Don't forget, that you will a lot of homework to do, so make sure you keep up well with your studies. And as its your first time, don't get involved with the drama. Just be you!
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I'm a 14 year old girl and my friend is dating someone online over Instagram (FYI Instagram is just like this social media website). She doesn't even know the guy in real life. When she told me I was concerned so I casually started asking questions about the guy. Apparently he's 13, going on 14, he lives in the Philippines and his username on the website is like Mark_B or something like that. She asked if Mark was his real name and suddenly he had to go, she doesn't seem to find this suspicious at all..... I'm really concerned about this because what if she tries to meet him in real life or something? I warned her about the dangers and she just says "But he's so sweet!" And "He stole my heart!" And stuff like that. So should I be concerned or should I just let it all play out? (link)
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I think you should be concerned because she s your friend and, you want to protected her by all the dsanhers that can happen to her by meeting this guy that she doesn't even know. When your friends asked Mark what was his real name, he had to go. But , why don't you ask her why? Maybe, the boy didn't wanted her to know anything about him. Why don't you ask your friend to search ALL his profile on Instagram. Maybe some photos about him. You will maybe learn a lot of things about Mark. If I was her, I would stop. I would just block that user. Talk to her. Or maybe you can involve people inside.
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So my mom has a boyfriend that she's had for 13 years now. He has a son that i do not think of as a brother.i have had a crush on him for many years now. His son in a few years older then me, but I'm also over 18. I would like to tell him that i have had a crush on him n think sexual thoughts about him at night. We don't see each other very often but I'm dying to know if he feels that kinda way about me. Im not sure about it because some signals he sends seems like he's flirting but I'm not positive. I don't know how to ask him or tell him. Please help me somebody. (link)
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THIS IS WEIRD! There's no way that you can go out with your step- brother! You're mom is dating is dad. So he's technically part of your family. If I were you, I wouldn't be crushing on him even if he's hot. The best thing to do is to look for another guy, because you never know if your step brother already has a girlfriend and you barely know him. So the question is. How can you like a guy, if you never met him. You only like him about his hotness,not because of his personality. And also,instead of going out with your step brother go look for a guy who's out there waiting for you!
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i am a 13 year old boy and am skinny. all i do almost is eat and it all goes to my stomach and makes it perk out and i don't like it at all almost all of the kids my age and up have big muscles abs and a good chest and is healthy how can i be healthy, get meat on me and have a good looking body please give me some pointers and tips to help me look good instead of a skeleton. (link)
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If you want to be like other muscles boys, there's a lot of steps you have to take and sacrifices. It is not easy to get muscles body that fast. It takes motivation, endurance, and keeping up. If you wanna grow your body, I suggest you to start playing a sport or working out. If you already play a part, you can go to a gym or workout at home. You can search online some work out a that will help you to have a cool body like other boys. I hope this advice really helps you!
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Ok..I dated this guy for a couple of months but he was 6 yrs older than me..I'm 16..we were first just friends but then we began to "love" each other. I would go by him everyday but we never did anything really..then we almost did and I stopped him...he got a bit mad at me. He said he didnt want to date me now at 16 because he didn't want me to do things that were not right..we didnt talk for awhile...then he called but we are sort of awkward friends now...I still like him though and i told him but he said he dont want to destroy my life. Should I get back with him? If yes how? (link)
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For me, I wouldn't go back for the guy! Here are the reason why:
1. You are way out of his age. He is 6 years older then you. So he's 22. He can maybe bring you to do things that you cannot do at your age. You are real to young to go out with an adult. You never know, if he wants to have sex, or do this and that to you. You have to be careful
You're way too young to do these things.
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I am so confused. I dont know what to do anymore. I am depressed all the time. To the point where all I want to do is cry and at times it takes all I have not to. I feel so alone. I have been married for 8 years but we never talk and lately he and I have been sleeping in separate rooms. We dont even argue we just dont talk. I know I am not happy anymore and I havent been for a long time. But we have children together and this is the only serious relationship I have ever had. To top it all he is controlling so I have never had a job and I dont know if I can support myself or my kids without him. I dont want to be miserable forever but I am terrified of life without him. I dont know how to survive without him. And I have absolutly no friends not a single one because my high school friends and I have drifted apart and I am not allowed out to have any. And I have no family I grew up in foster homes. So without him I am completely alone. I have no one to turn to. No one to stay with til I get on my feet. Am I being selfish by wanting a life of my own. What do I do? Where do I go from here? (link)
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This must be really hard for you. As you grew up in a foster home, you don't have any family to ask for advice. And as all your high schools friends a are not with you anymore, you are technically antisocial and that can really break somebody's self esteem because, you don't have anybody telling you that you're amazing. And has for your husband, he doesn't even lobe you. If you guys don't talk, or sleep in the same bed, what's the point of your relationship. Its like, he doesn't even love you anymore. If you want to fix this, ask him to sit for a while, and try to talk together. Ask him, what did we do, so that we cannot have a amazing relationship anymore. If he doesn't want to talk. Just leave him. Try to go find a person who actually love you for who you are. But make sure, to know that person with a 100℅ beautiful heart and personality
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So, in 4th grade religion school the teacher asked who wants to be an alter server and I didn't raise my hand. He wrote down the names of kids who did raise their hand, and then when I got home my mom for some reason called the church and asked when rehearsal was. When they said I wasn't on the list she asked me why, and I realized she wanted me to do it and wouldn't stop until I did, so I let her sign me up. It's been about a year and I've tried to get used to it but the more I try the more I hate doing it. I don't want to do it anymore, but I'm afraid to tell my mom, and I'm afraid that everyone in the church will hate me if I quit. Can someone tell me how to tell my mom the truth? (link)
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First question is that: Why you hate doing it? There's supposes to be an answer to that! If you don't want to do it anymore, don't be afraid to tell your mom. You know that your mom loves you for who you are. So there's no reason to be shy to talk to your mom about it. Your mom, is here to show you the right path, but, she cannot force you to do the things that you do not want to do. Why don't you spend more time with her, and tell her about the situation. That will change her mind and that will make her know that you can make your choices no matter what!
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Im a 16 year old virgin & 2 weeks ago I was fingered. The next day I started getting cramps & lasted for a week & had really sore breasts. Now my stomach cramps aren't that bad anymore but my breasts are really sore & tender. I've been urinating a lot more & I'm really worried that I might be pregnant. PLEASE HELP ME!! I have no one to talk to about this & I'm really nervous. Should I be worried that I might be pregnant ?? What should I do ? (link)
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Don't worry about nothing. Trust me, you are not pregnant. You can be pregnant if you have sex. And getting fingered and having sex are 2 different things. Maybe, that's how women are if they fingered. Your body changed for some reason. But the question is that: Did he did it too far?
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I like mhy guy friend. We're really good friends and we know everything about each other. When we are together, we act like bestfriends, but hes not much of a texter or anything like that. I used to like him, but then got over him once we started hanging out. We've hung out 6 days in a row this week. He has no idea I like him. He's also very awkward. What are some hints I can give him that I like him, without just straight up telling him? (link)
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For me, there's nothing much to do, the only thing to do is to tell him. You cannot hide it forever. He's the same as everybody, so there's no reason to be shy or scared to talk to him. Obviously, he's like your best friends, so it will be kinds weird to tell him that. But make sure that you tell him every feeling you have for him. Maybe, your relationship will go further as I know. Try to talk to him, and make sure to be yourself and don't be nervous. Because he's a human, just like you, so why are you nervous
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I created an account on kik and i put my actual picture. I put a fake name and surname and email.
I am talking to this guy, and i dont want to talk to him anymore. I sent him two of my real pictures. I gave him my fake name and age and a fake city and state in the USA. I am not even from the USA
Could he ever somehow track me down. Again,he has two images of me.
I inserted those two images on google image to see
if there was something about me and nothing came up.
Can he track me though?
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DONT EVER DO THAT AGAIN!
It can put not only you in danger, but, other people too. If you haven't met him in real life, and only talked to him on Kik, that's dangerous. That boy can not maybe tract you down, but search up the address, and stock those people who live there. You put a lot of people lives in danger. The best thing to do, is to talk to your parents about it. Even, if they are super mad at you, they will help you get over the problem. Another thing, is to never give your rewal pictures to somebody you don't know. Even if he's a cute, hot guy, don't do it. If you want to succeed your life, try not to damage it in social life. Make sure to use social medias with a good responsibility. Don't use it like its a toy. Its your responsibility to keep your personal information to yourself. Not to a guy that you don't know. I hope it works!
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My best friend has been going to bad places and doing drugs and things that are going to affect her life. I love her and really don't want her to get hurt. I've tried to talk to her about it and she acknowledges what she is doing and she knows it's bad for her but she doesn't care and she continues to do theses things. I just don't want her to mess up her life and regret everything I really want to help her! What do I do?!? (link)
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For my advice, there is NOTHING you can do! She has to deal with her own consequences. Even if you love her, she made her own choices! And also, she knows that what she's doing is bad! So why don't you ask her this. “If you know what's bad, why are doing these bad choices? ”. This question will get her thinking a lot. But if she still doesn't care, leave her. If you are still her friend, she could influence you of doing what's bad. The best thing to do, is to make new friends, that you could spend good time with. She will know that you were right, but for the moment, let her think, and let her decide on her life!
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I am a 20 year old from India. I have been in love with this guy,who is 5 years older than me, for the last six years. And he loves me too. But the thing is i am growing up, i am changing, he isn't. He wants to get engaged and make our relationship proper, and i just dont want to commit to him. We both want diffrent things out of life. The charm is fading. This man loves me immensely, he has changed so much for me and the only person he is vulnerable to is me. I know i am being a jerk for denying love. But i just dont love him anymore, we dont have mental compatibility. If ever i talk about leaving, he says 'have you been lying to me all these years? You came so close, just to quit in the end?' Help, i dont want to hurt him. I care, but I cant marry him. (link)
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I know what you're going through, and, its really hard. But the best thing to do, is to calm yourself down. Try to get your mind off the situation. That will keep your mind a rest. Next, try to talk to him. Tell him that the way that you feel, is not the same way he feel for you. If you loved him a long time ago, I understand. You are trying to move on with your life, and try to let the past be the past. Tell him that, you want to move on and have a new life. And that you want to be with a new person. But make sure, that you keep it positive, and they not to go negative or else it will just make it worse. I hope this advice really works! Good luck!
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