Okay so I've only had sex twice (three times if you count doing two different positions.) and never did the condom break and I had him pull out before he came however the third time we didn't use a new condom. We used the same one that still had sperm in it. My periods are very very irregular usually (sometimes every two months) and I haven't come to when it should happen yet but I'm getting worried and I'm usually someone who overthinks anything. It would have been a week ago. Are there any signs I should look for? I don't like feeling this anxious.
Well, as many people say don't jump to conclusions. Take 3 pregnancy tests, one today maybe, then one about 4-5 days later and then another one 3 days later and from that determine the most common result which will tell you. If you are pregnant then if you are younger than 16 or 18 speak to your parents, if your older go and see your doctor to see what they think you should do and they can provide you with good advice. Then you will be left with the decision of adoption, abortion or to keep the child. But don't worry, 2 in 3 people convince themselves they are pregnant when they aren't. Periods can be irregular when you are feeling stressed so if you are stressing about your pregnancy then that's why you could be irregular. Good luck and don't worry!
Littlemisslove xxx
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is there anything i can use instead of a dildo?.. im 13 and i cant go out and buy a dildo so i was wondering if there was like anything around the house i could use... please helpp
I use a toothbrush, works just like one. You put the toothbrush inside your *area* and act as if it's a dildo. It may be hard to adjust to but once your used to it you'll be fine. You could try a pen, rainbow loom crochet hook or a nail polish bottle but remember not to use anything without being comfortable or secure. Go gentle at first and if it's uncomfortable you should stop or it could impact your health and could lead to trouble. Also if your area is small do jump to something to big for you and take a risk. But don't overuse these methods, just a one-off when your desperate, just wait till your older and can use a dildo or actually have sex freely.
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i no HOW to put a tampon in, i just dont no WHERE
help!!
Ok, so you know your clitoris is that little bump, then the walls are the sides. So my way to find the right place is touch your clitoris and run your fingers down to where you feel a kind of hole almost and then insert it into there
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So I'm a 14 year old girl and my family and I moved from Pennsylvania to New Jersey 4 months ago. At first the transition was difficult, changing schools at end of the school year and all of that (it's summer break now) but I'm a friendly person and I make friends quite easily. So for the first moth we were here I was cutting my arms and crying at night, just straight up depressed, and then I was ok after I got control and started getting use to this place. But now I'll I want to go back to Pennsylvania. My stage of being alright was temporary. I want to start cutting again but I'm trying not to, I cry every night and I'm getting into depression. I don't know why this is coming back again and I know that I'll never be happy here in New Jersey. I don't complain though because I don't want to hurt my parents. My friends here are great and all but I just want my old ones back. My family and I move around a lot but we ended up staying in the last place for a long time, that's why I'm so broken up. My dad was making a joke out of moving to New Jersey the other day. Here's how it went:
Dad: so do you like it here yet?
Me: no
Dad: will you ever?
Me: no
Dad:well we'll move again like always. Tell me when you have sine good friends and we'll move. (Whole family laughs, but I have to hold back tears for the rest if the car ride).
I don't think he meant to make the joke sound mean, he doesn't realize how hard this is for me because like I says, I try not to complain too much. So how do I cope with all these feelings and what can I do? (And it's not like we can move back to Pennsylvania, my dad's company wants him to run a store in New Jersey).
Aww! I'm sure you can visit your old friends in holidays or something and get phone numbers, email addresses etc. For now maybe speak to your parents about how you feel and see if they could help in any way. Maybe you also could explain how that joke made you feel. Everyone feels this way, losing childhood friends but once your older and have more freedom maybe you could go back and see your old friends.
Good luck!
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