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So my mom has a boyfriend that she's had for 13 years now. He has a son that i do not think of as a brother.i have had a crush on him for many years now. His son in a few years older then me, but I'm also over 18. I would like to tell him that i have had a crush on him n think sexual thoughts about him at night. We don't see each other very often but I'm dying to know if he feels that kinda way about me. Im not sure about it because some signals he sends seems like he's flirting but I'm not positive. I don't know how to ask him or tell him. Please help me somebody. (link)
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I hate to be a downer, but I deffiantly would not hook up with your step brother. That is going to cause so many problems for you and your family. Just don't get yourslef involved in that.
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hi im 12 and i do self harm ive been doing this since i was like 10-11 i want to stop but every time i try and tell someone i get nervious and scared what should i do?
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I understand that this can be really hard. Esspecially if you have been doing this for a while now. All you have to do is find other things to distract yourself from self harming. Find a hobby, hang out with friends...just do anything that would prevent you from being alone, because when you are alone, you overthink, and depress yourself, and tha's when you slef harm. Have you ever self harmed in public, or around people? No. So just go do somethoing to keep yourslef busy, and then you won't think about hurting yourslef. Hope this helped!
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I'm female, 30 years old. I recently met a guy I really like, he's 31. We hit it off immediately and had three great dates. At te end of the third date (last night) we went back to his place and started making out and he was very respectful about not having to take things further. I said I wouldn't. So that was that but things got heavy and I told him I was ready to have sex, but that sometimes in my experience guys disappear if things move so fast. I did say I wouldn't regret having sex with him and he was very respectful saying I didn't have to do anything. So anyway...we ended up having sex and I spent the night. We felt comfortable with each other, though naturally things got a little awkward. We had good conversation this morning, so I felt at ease. But after leaving his place I kept thinking to myself that even though I didn't regret sleeping with him and things seemed okay between us, that I maybe slept with him too soon and should have waited a bit longer. I just feel that if a guy gets sex so soon, he either loses interest or backs off because things moved too quickly. I don't want to lose the potential of a relationship or even some good times with him because I sincerely enjoy his company. I made that clear to him before we had sex--that I like hanging out with him and don't want the sex to change things. I would like opinions on this, especially from men, or even women who have been trough similar things. Did I risk losing this guy over having sex so soon? (link)
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That's way too soon. You should'nt even have sex until you are married, and I know that nobody does that, but noody has sex on the third date either. You guys should be dating for atleast a couple of months before you decide to do that. That's just my opinion though.
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My friend has fallen really hard for this guy who acts like a total jerk to her. (They are both 19 years old) No matter how mean he is, she just won’t stop and I don’t know how to convince her that this just isn’t good for her. She’s had an enormous crush on him for years and nothing seems to be able to break her blindness. Every time he treats her badly, she plummets into overwhelming sadness, but she still won’t give up on him. It’s gotten even worse this past year and it’s gotten to the point that I am starting to become worried about her mental/emotional wellbeing. How can I help her to get over him?
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I've had this problem with one of my friends before too. It's really hard. Honestly, if she won't listen to you, theres nothing you can do. You will just have to let her learn her own lessons.
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