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hEy! my name is chelsea. I like giving advice so if you have and questions feel free to ask!!




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okay has anyone ever like put on coverup or something and it looks all flakey? is there anyway to make them go away or a certain way to put it on without it looking like that?

Yeah,that happens to me alot too. It means you have dry skin. Just put lotion on befor you put coverup on and it won't look flakey. HoPe I hEpLeD!

*chelsea*

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then what's the rest of the joke i'm sure everyone's dieing to know since you're just the queen

ummm yea.. shutup

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couple questions i'd like to know about you:
are you pretty
how much do you weigh
how tall are you
are you a good freind
would you rather be on top or bottom
ARE YOU SINGLE

ppl say im pretty and alot of guys say im hott but i deff. don't think so. i weight 100 pounds i am 5'1 I think im a good friend and i'd reather be on bottom yes im single

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wow what a funny joke

thats not all of the joke... lol

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wow you must be really dumb ur only in ninth grade and you're 16 holy shit

lol im not in 9th grade i filled as a joke to my friend

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my friend is mad at me for something i didn't do what should i do

tell him/ her that you didn't do it!!



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13/f

hey i wear contacts and i really want colored ones..but im not sure what color would look good on me..is there any way to try it out without buying them first..? Oh and if you think you know a good color..please let me know..I am indian with tan skin..dark brown hair and i have dark brown eyes! thanks!

I think green or hazel would look good.


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OK.. I've asked this before.. but I need more help..

My shoes smell REALLY bad.. i've tried Odor Eaters.. perfume (3 kinds) and even dr. scholls foot powder stuff..
is there ANYTHING besides washing my shoes .. that will take care of the smell.

Im afraid if i put my shoes in the washer and dryer.. they might come apart.. ive had that happen before..

please help me!! Thanks!

p.s. im goin to try bakin soda right now.. but any suggestions are GREATLY appreciated.. and DONT tell me to get new shoes.. mom already so no.. unless I HAVE to

THANKS AGAIN

Hey,

My friend has the same problem and this may sound odd but she puts news paper in her shoes and it actually works! Also, putting your shoes in the washer dosn't hurt them just don't put them in the dryer and only do this to sneakers. Hope I helped


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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me!

aww thats so sad! Maybe he pushes you away because he is afraid of getting too close to someone then losing them just like what happend with his mom. Just tell him that you will be there and he will not lose you no matter what. Hope I helped!!



xoxo chels

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please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong?

No. Everyone should have discharge its somthing that keeps you clean down there. Don't worry if anything your friend has somthing wrong.


xoxo chels

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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?

Tell him that you really care about him and don't want to see him doing pot. Tell him to get more involved with soccer,then maybe he won't have as much time on his hands to do bad things like pot.


XoOx ChEcHe

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a couple of my friends just got mono and i have been soooooo exhausted lately... randomly falling asleep in class, body aches, cold, fever etc.... so be4 i get tested...how do u know if u have mono? (symptoms?!)
thanx

Just a couple weeks ago I had the same symptoms and I went to the doctor and said to give it a few days and if I had a fever still then i would have to get tested for mono(They take a blood test!!) soo... if you have a fever in a couple days still then go to the doctors or asap.



xOxO cHeChe

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Hey well ok. i have another problem. Just in case you dont know im female and 15. I was having this problem with bieng comitted to just one guy. But then i thought i had finally found somebody. I really like him and he likes me too! So we started to go out. But a couple days later his ex girlfriend starts telling him if you dont break up with her my friends and me are going to jump her. Shes hispanic and reallllly ghetto. And im white and I have nevvver gotten into a fight. So me and my boy friend broke up because we were both scared for me. So we see each other in the halls everyday and we still talk to eachother and we even still kiss and stuff. But it's reallly hard for me to deal with all this. I get so happy when im about to see him, but once we leave eachother i end up starting to cry. We both still want to be with eachother but we dont know what to do. Can anyone help? I like him a lotttt! Thanks yall!

You shouldn't have broken up if you too like eachother...also his ex can't make you too break up. Ask him how he feels about you...and go out again and don't care about what his ex thinks! xOxO cHeChE

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ok how do you get your hair to look like wet but wavy or well not wavy but i dont know! well if you have any idea on what i'm talking about how do you get your hair to look liek that? thanx!

You could try scrunching your hair with gel. If you want it really curly then scrunch it tight in your hand but if you want it as loose curl then scrunch it loose in your hand! Its pretty easy!



*Chels*

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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(

awww. I feel so bad for you :-( Your best friends boyfriend is a jerk he has no right to be abusing her and she should know that. You deffenatly did the right thing and your friend shouldn't be mad for you trying to help her. Tell your friend what you told me, then hopefully she will understand that you were just trying to help her not trying to get her in trouble. You should also talk to her boyfriend about it. He should understand that beating his girlfriend up will not solve their problem. Good luck.


*Chels*

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I recenlty this summer met someone at camp. And we both liked each other and hit on each other. We don't see very much of each other anymore because our schedules are not compatiable but we talk online and on the phone. The only problem is I don't feel that crazy for him, as I used to. I just don't have it there in my heart. And he still loves me and I'm ready to move on. Its just I don't know what to say. Can you tell me if I don't like him anymore or its just that I don't feel love for him anymore because we don't see each other?

Maybe you don't feel like you love him because you never see him. I would give it a chance, do things on the weekends and if your still not feeling the love then let him down carfully, say you don't really think your relationship is working out since you don't get to see eachother and you just want to be friends. GoOd LuCk!!!



*if you have anymore questions ask me!!!!*
*ChElS*

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okay hey! does this guy like me :
He comes over my house ( we are neighbors ) and plays pool w/ me. He always says " you know you think im hot " and he when i go outside and play bball he comes outside to and plays w/ me.
DOES HE LIKE ME??

It sounds like he dose. You didn't say much but from what you said he is deff flirting.



*chels*

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ok so this guy is always messing with my head it seems...
1st time- he told me he did and completely acted like it and held hands with me and all that stuff then he goes off and likes this other really pretty girl & he said he didnt like me nemore

2nd time- after he learns he has no chance with Kim (really pretty girl) he says he likes me again and we hugged for like ever and acted like it once more

hes always calling me whipped but its kinda his way of flirting...joking like that.. before he started liking Kim he told this guy he wasnt gonna ask me out....im so confused about what hes doing here...
someone help?
and hes older than me and i dont get to do all the stuff that the school does for his grade and the girls that also like him get to go so i feel kinda left out and not knowing what hes doing with them
:-/

This guys sounds like a player. The type that has a new girl every week. I don't think he likes you if he has other girls on his mind. If i were you i'd move on, there are better guys out there!



*chels*

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Im trying to go on a diet where i eat just meat and veggies and NO BREAD! but its not working! becauz all day i was craving a sandwhich so i ate one and of course on bread! i need help to stick on a diet!

Just stick with you plan. Low carb diets arn't good though!



*chels*

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Hey everyone, Siren here...I'm lost on this. Here's my shpiel:
This girl has been my best friend for around 13 years. Last year, I got a boyfriend and she got really clingy; called me every day wanting to hang out. It drove me nuts, but I think she stopped calling once she realized I wouldn't abandon her.
That was the start. Now, I never wanna hang with her anymore...Being around her bothers me, and I can't figure out why.
She sits with me and my choir friends at lunch, but she doesn't speak to them, only me, and when she does, it's off topic. She'll interrupt a convo I'm having with another friend to talk to me about something else and it's...grr. I feel like I wanna talk to her sometimes, but I almost don't want her to sit with us...
I know sometimes friendships die, but I really don't want to lose her, and I hate feeling like I don't wanna be around her. I used to tell her EVERYTHING, all my secrets...she used to know the most about me of any of my friends, but I stopped telling her because she doesn't seem to...care?
It might be that I grew up a lot, and she hasn't quite, but I'm not sure that's the only thing that's screwing up our friendship. I'm sixteen and a girl, she's seventeen, if that makes any sort of a difference.
What should I do about this? I asked my dad (he's a psychiatrist) and he didn't know what to do; neither did my mom...so I turn to y'all.

Well, since you and this girl have been friends for 13 years I think you should be able to talk to her about pretty much anything.so tell her how you feel, say you don't want to hurt her but you really think aren't ment to be friends anymore. Explain to her that you two are growing apart and becoming different. good luck!!!


*chels*

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