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messing w/ my head


Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 2:40 pm

ok so this guy is always messing with my head it seems...
1st time- he told me he did and completely acted like it and held hands with me and all that stuff then he goes off and likes this other really pretty girl & he said he didnt like me nemore

2nd time- after he learns he has no chance with Kim (really pretty girl) he says he likes me again and we hugged for like ever and acted like it once more

hes always calling me whipped but its kinda his way of flirting...joking like that.. before he started liking Kim he told this guy he wasnt gonna ask me out....im so confused about what hes doing here...
someone help?
and hes older than me and i dont get to do all the stuff that the school does for his grade and the girls that also like him get to go so i feel kinda left out and not knowing what hes doing with them
:-/


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Sunshine answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:57 am:
It sounds to me like he's settling for second best, and you shouldn't stand for it. It seems like he likes you only when he thinks he has no chance with Kim. Don't put up with it. You deserve someone who will like you and only you.

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xtroubleturk69x answered Sunday September 19 2004, 3:55 pm:
some guy did this to me too n he was 2 years older then i figured out wut he really did with other girls he basically just came back to me when there was no other girls for him i was like "on deck" it seems like he's doin that to u too he might be tryin to take advantage cuz ur younger dont let him do that to u..

hope i helped

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Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday September 19 2004, 3:27 pm:
I just think your his 'rebound skank' not calling you a snank of course. But basically what hes doing is taking a younger girl he thinx "doesnt know better" and is messin' with your head. He personally believes that you'll come back everytime he screws you over and you need to find the oppurtunity to tell him your done with his issues, it'll make you feel a bazillion times better, as hard as it may be, plus theres always older guys out there who wont treat you like that soo it totally isnt the end of the world.

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JesusFreak2006 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 3:03 pm:
Your definately his back up girl...he knows you wont leave him and that why he says your whipped he can be a total jerk to you and you still like him...he can like some other girl and yet your still gonna like him...being a back up girl isnt a good thing...move on from this guy he doesnt wanna get serious with you so dont give him anymore thought...

JesusFreak

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lilblondeii<3 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 2:51 pm:
This guys sounds like a player. The type that has a new girl every week. I don't think he likes you if he has other girls on his mind. If i were you i'd move on, there are better guys out there!



*chels*

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