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me and my crush,we known each other since last december,he's in marine,right now he's in Nevada dessert for his training,after that he have to go to Iraq.I like him so much.he can't take his phone or whatever{with him}he sent me a message to myspace one time{when he got a chance} and last two days ago,he called me around 3;00 am..I woke up at that time but I din't familiar with that phone number that why I didn't pick up the phone{I was so regret}he told me "he miss me very very much and thinking about me a lot!"{I never hope that}I was crying at that time,till this day.I kept his voicemail and listen that again and again..cuz I miss him so much too.he said he call me back if he can.I miss him so bad..that can make me cry everynight,,I just want him to know that I miss him so much too,,, (link)
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awww sweetie i'm so sorry i know how it is missing somebody in a different state i'm living in washington when the guy i love lives here in california and it's not very fun well just when people call you even when you don't know the number answer and tell him you miss him and if you love him tell him that too and explain as much as you can i know it was really scared when my uncle was in iraq and yeah but say your thinking of him a lot too and just tell him the truth i guess is all i can say sorry if it doesn't help
Kaite
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My BF and I were having anal and we had no idea what we where doing, so for some reason his penis went down towards my vagina and then the condom broke. We don't think there was any seman on it or anything because he did not cum. so i took a test and it said i wasn't and then i got my period today, but its really light and spotting. Could i still be pragent? or what is the chance of me being pragent? (link)
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ok sweetie i thought i was too and yeah i'm not so i highly doubt you are and maybe before you try something new study on it ok and yeah being pregnant is no fun i should kno i was pregnant with my ex's kid but i'm not i lost it but hey just be careful ok hun be safe too
sincerely
Katie
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Ok I kno i've been one that's got Q's a lot lately but I can't really talk to my ma caus she just don't understand.(LOVE THE WEBSITE!!!)Anyway all of my friends are going out but me.I'm not ugly it's just that my crushes all hang out with a lot of boys that don't really like me.I mean I'm known as the complete tomboy girl along with my best friend. But yeah.see my crush ALWAYS around them and I just know they are gonna tease me. HELP (link)
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shit girl just go up there and be like hey can i talk to you and shit and be calm bout it and stuff but hey don't get down because other girls are always around him you always have a chance don't forget that ok
katie
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Well I dated this guy for about two weeks before he left for a working vacation in California. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and first guy I almost fell in love with. Everything seemed so perfect until he left.
He stopped calling or talking to me online. I thought it was because of the time difference being a pain and he was working a lot and catching up with friends. Well, he was gone for about a week and, long story short, I found out that he was hanging out with this girl and talking about hooking up with her.
I asked him over MySpace if he wanted to date other people while he was gone because I was fine with it considering we'd only dated for about 3 weeks. He said he wasn't dating other people and had no intention of it. Time went by and the girl he was talking to kept IMing me and telling me some stuff. I didn't want to believe her, but it was obvious that he was lying to me.
I made myself miserable and cried for days. I was physically sick over it. I finally broke it off with him because he was 1) ignoring me and 2) acting like everything was fine and 3) treating me like I was the bad guy for not trusting him when it was so obvious he wasn't telling the truth. I wanted to be friends with him still, but it's obvious that's not what he wants.
I thought he was serious about me. Everything he did made it seem like he was REALLY into me, and it's possible that he could have been the whole time. But something happened between him leaving and now and he became a totally different person and is now officially dating this girl.
I'm trying really hard to get over him and I'm not crying and stuff over it anymore because I know it had to be done, but I still can't stop thinking about him and every time I do I get sick to my stomach. It just won't go away and I feel sick all the time unless I'm out with my friends. And I can't do that every day.
How can I get over him? All I want is to stop thinking about him and feel better, physically. Is there anything I can do? Will breaking up always be like this? I'm so consumed with this. Help! (link)
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it will feel like that most of the time hate to say it but its true and it's not very fun either. your always feeling sick and upset and depressed. i was like that after my ex boyfriend schuyler and i gave everything i had to give to him if you know what i mean....but yeah i felt like that for almost a year and i still do i loved him i gave him my heart and all i got in return is pain and suffering so yeah...it sux if you ever want any help with relationships i'm always her ok!!!!!
Katie
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There's this amazing girl, let's call her Jamia. She's in 10th grade and we have one too many things in common [we have more in common than she has with her TWIN sister]. I'm in 9th grade by the way. Anyways, we are both strong supporters of LGBT [lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transsexual.]
Half my friends are not straight...Anyways, I'm bi and I'm not out of the closet to anyone at my school--or to anyone I know. I love her with all my life because she's been there for me whenever I was in my suicidal moods and she's a truly great friend. But the thing is I feel so bad about keeping me being bi from her. And I really want to tell her. Tomorrow is the last day of school and I want to tell her. B ut I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? If so when and how? (link)
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yes you should tell her say you've been keeping something from her and you fell really bad about it then tell her she might already have a feeling that you are so just don't lie to her i know i lied to my ex girlfriend and we started going out the reason why we broke up is because i moved pretty shitty
hope it helps
Bye
Kaite
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im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
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ok what is it bout guys treating gurls or their gfs bad i'm getting sick of it well all i have to say is that i'm still looking for that guy to and right now i'm with this really sensitive guy and all you have to do is put trust in him just not to much trust and hope it will turn out good
sorry i don't really have any other advice see what he would do when he's around his friends when you two r together and things will hopefully progress from there
sincerely
Katie
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 and i smoke and i get the ciggerates from my cousin but the thing is she didn't know that i got them from her until this morning and now she is pissed off at me becouse when i was 17 she let try smoking becouse i was curious and wanted to know what it was like but she made me promise to never do it again so i promised her i wouldn't do it again but now she won't even speak to me becouse she's mad becouse she thinks my mom'll find out that i started smoking at her house and won't let me come back anymore and she thinks i hate her but i don't .I don't know why i wanted to smoke i didn't know it would make my cousin this mad at me becouse we've never even had a fight before in my life becouse we used to be so close like sisters.I don't think she'll belive me if i tell her i'll quit becouse i told her i wouldn't do it again the last time and i lied to her and went behind her back how do i regain my trust and not make her mad at me anymore i hate when she's not speaking to me what should i do?
urgent! (link)
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well maybe you can quit but it will be really hard tell your cousin you'll need her help and do stuff to keep your mind of smoking i'm 15 and my foster parents made me quit cold turky and it's really hard.. but hey i believe in you and i don't know you you can do it i promise
sincerely
katie
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im 14 and im a freshman. so 4 years ago in fifth grade there was this guy. he was really cool although we never really talked. we've been in all the same classes since then and ive liked him ever sice. but he just kinda ignores me like im part of the background. maybe cause weve known eachother so long. what can i do to make him notice me??!
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ok so you want this guys attention do stuff you normally wouldn't do like send a box of chocolate to yourself it gets him jealous start wearing cute outfits around the house and all that and maybe get him jealous with another guy when he's around make it look like your having a lot of fun
trust me it works
sincerely
katie
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ok so me and my boyfriend have given oral to each other and i gave him a handjob. we're both virgins and we want to do something new but we're not sure if we want to have sex yet. what can we do? (link)
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number one don't give up your virginity until your ready...trust me i did when i wasn't ready and it sux cuz now i'm stuck with a kid and i'm only 15...and we used protection...so maybe if you guys have done oral maybe you guys can work up to sex but until then do what your doing maybe let him finger you if you haven't but i'd advise you to slow down a little even though you love your bf he might not be the one for you...there's always that chance that he might break up with you after you guys have sex..but also look on the bright side.
hope it helps
sincerely
katie
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me and my boo, weve been talking for a long time like 6 months, and i think its time i ask him out since hes so shy. I seriously think hes never been in a relationship before and im surprised he grabs my hand wen we walk or puts his arms around me alot. I want to ask me out but dont know how. Hes really shy with that, and how can i ask him to be my boyfriend without flipping out, like getting a heart attack because he gets nervous?????I really want to be his girl, i need advice. How can i ask him to be my boyfriend??? (link)
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hmmm...well ok so you like this guy right? just go for it your gonna get embarrassed of course your probably not used to asking people out and either is he maybe if you want him to ask you out give him some clues saying to him that i wish you would ask me out don't be too obvious but just tease him a little and after a while if he doesn't get it then just ask him out i did and it worked!!!!LOL
hope it helps
sincerely
katie
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my friend has feelings for her female teacher, it is definately not me. but my friend has been coming to me for advice and i dont really know what to say to her. her teacher is more like a close friend. she gives her lifts home and they talk outside of school hours. my friend recently tried to commit suicide and the teacher was there for her then. but she still feels low and confused because of the age difference and the whole situation. any ideas what i can say to her? thanks (link)
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ok this is kind of strange but i understand i'm bi to and i don't really come out to people but i mean i have liked my teacher for some time now and my teacher is bi too how old is your friend is she close to the teachers age maybe she should wait untill she's out of that class maybe out of school expeically if she is under 18 teachers can get it big trouble for that kind of stuff so yeah i
tell her to tell the teacher how she feels
she'll feel a lot better trust me
♥ Katie
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have you ever been cheated on or anything to do with cheating?
I just have a small situation. My friend Sam cheated on her bf Allan with my bf's best friend and his brother. She made out with both of the guys and gave on of them head. Her bf allan is good friends with me and my bf and we decided we should tell him-- so we did the next day.
Sam and I weren't completely good friends but we were close somewhat. But if he did this to her, I would probably tell her too. So she's pissed and she has all my friends against me. Even my bffl. But i know i did the rite thing. All this time, past 2 weeks I've been there for Allan; even pickig him up at midnite because he was so depressed and taking him 2 parties to help him get his mind off her. And she does everything she can like for example- she cuts hereself- for attention. Allan and her are supposed to talk 2morrow and i want to kick her ass so bad but I'm not going to be there.
there's only one lil thing that i messed up on. at the party i told her to go for--to cheat. and when i told my bffl the story i admitted i told her to go for it.....and allan doesnt kno that. i told him i never said that and he believes me. but now sam and kayla my best friend have this against but my bf was there but will tell alan that it never happened, but im still afraid he'll beloieve her. he want to be with her but knows he shouldn't.
what do u think i should do now? kayla keeps telling me to back off when sam from the beggining said she was gonna break up with him.kayla and sam never even liked each other? everyone feels sorry for her because all she does it cry and they give me stuff like "you have no idea how much she has been thru" blah blah when this is all for attention and i'm not stupid.
now i really don't know what do or even say?
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ok you were a good friend for telling him but now your getting bit in the ass because of it i personally did the same thing and i still do i just want my friends to be happy so when someone is hurting them so you know it's shit i know but they don't they've probably never been in the situation and they need to give you a break you were just trying to help maybe to get them to believe you set her up for something or just go and talk to her say your sorry and record something that she says that proves you're right they'll never know and just say you wanted to prove your point but of course being right is always the best well i'm sorry if i didn't help you that much but at least i can say i tried
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my boyfriend , who i like very very much, tries to get me to sneek out alot. and i dont like getting into trouble very much with my dad because hes the kind of person who does not forget. but when i try to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to sneek out because i dont want to get into trouble, he gets angry at me and tells me that he would do anything for me and that i wont get caught... how do i tell him to not push me into getting in trouble. (link)
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ok girl i hate to break it to ya but if this guy who says he would do anything for you wants you to sneek out and knows there is a big possibility that you might get caught and he doesn't seem to care he isn't much of a boyfrind he's more of an asshole (no affense) but you deserve better ok
sincerely
katie
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Well, I asked this question.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=493854
But now the situation has changed a tiny bit. Well, on the 27th he called twice, and I missed them. So I called back, and we talked for about 5 minutes, but he had to go, so he said he'd call later and we could talk some more. He never called, and he didn't call on the 28th at all either. Today, I was with my friend, and SHE called him to hang out. Does anyone think he's stopping trying to be a better friend now? Or was he just busy or what? (link)
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it could be that he is busy or it could be he's nervous because he might like you you may not notice it because you think hey he's just a friend and maybe he's just getting sick of being oh just a friend kind of guy. when you see him sit down and talk to him about how you feel if he is a good friend he wouldn't mind sitting down and talk to you for a while. he will care about how you feel and he would confront you right then and there tell him you want to know everything. say i'm sick of being a bad friend in this relationship(not saying you are) but just try to be a better friend do things for him that you normally wouldn't do. be there for him when nobody else can be or when he is feeling down say your always there for him no matter what or when it is
hope this helps
sincerely
katie
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I'm 16/f, and for some reason when I'm out with my mom I always talk about my bestfriends, one happens to be a guy. I was just wondering, do you think he talks to his dad or mom when he's out with them too? Like, do guys do that? (link)
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ok i'm a girl yes but i do have a best friend that's a guy and i do have a boyfriend that's a guy too. lol of course. it depends on who they are i mean both of them talk to their moms about me and i know this because their mom tells me and maybe it's because they want to know how they should deal with how they feel about me or just because they think your a cool person and a great friend and they want their parents to know more and more about you.
but if they don't really have a good relationship with their parents they might not. it all really depends on who the person is you know what i mean.
hope this helps
sincerely
Katie
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i've been really close friends with this group of 5 girls since pre-school. now we are all 13 and in middle school, and even though we all have other friends, and different interests, we still hang out together a lot. the problem is with one of the girls, cyndi. she has always been very over-sensitive. she's always imagining that someone doesn't like her, and she gets really upset if, say, two of us do something together and dont invite her. every time we're together she will find something to get mad about, and start pouting, and pretty much spoil everyone's fun. actually, we (and even our parents) dread having to invite her to stuff, because we know she's gonna start pouting, but we always include her anyway because she's part of our group and we don't want to her to feel left out. so we're always sooo nice to her and try to keep her from pouting. now at our new school, most people don't like her because of how she acts. and she gets really mad at us for being friends with any of those people (which is basically the whole school). she accuses us of not being a true friend. i really feel like saying something to her, like "if you'd stop being mad at people for not liking you, maybe they WOULD like you!" but i know that will just make her even madder. is there any good way to handle this? she's pretty much like my sister, but its really getting hard to handle. (link)
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yeah i have to say that is a really sticky situation but i was in it this year i was fed up with my friend becka always pouting and putting her parents down. i mean i'm a foster kid and i don't have my parents. but finally i told her becka look you have a good thing going for you now stop expecting everyone to like you. you need to take a chill pill and look at how your making other people feel including your friends, becka i love you but your making it really hard to be your friend because your making fun things into things that aren't fun i still want to be your friend but try not to bring me down just because you are. I'm also gonna have friends that you don't like but that's ok because they are my friends not yours you don't have to like them.
well i hope i gave you something you could use with your problem
sorry if i don't
Sincerely
Katie
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I'm 14/M there is this smokin hot girl on my soccer team. I'm the golie for my team. I'm pretty shure she likes me too. How do I flirt with her in practise? She is dating another guy, not going out with him but dating. How do I flirt with her, and in the proses get her to like me? (link)
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ok you can never make any one like you but maybe when you get the chance at practice go talk to her it might do you some good
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I have a what I call "steady hookup partner", for the past few weekends we hang out, and 80% of the time.. We hook up.
I guess you could say we progress verry slimly every weekend, and I'm kind of worried about if I were to give him a handjob of how I should go about that. Do I make the move or does the guy normally?
Oh yeah, while kissing does touching face/hair/neck/body Help.. or is there such a thing as too much of that?
Confused, Help? :)
PS: Any other information or advice about hooking up or whatever would be greattttt. (link)
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ok number one is he single and not cheating on a girl...two if not go in and ask him out...because if you don't it will get really weird and once you give him what he wants he my just get up and leave and you might never hear from him again.
for the other question it depends on who the person is and yes there is such a thing as too much but it usually does help by touching face/hair/neck/and body
it's ok to be confused but don't do anything you would regret because that is never good and by the way i'm probably not that much older then you and sometimes i have the same thoughts but it's ok it happens and it's normal
hope it helps :D
Skittlez
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Hi, i am a 19 year old guy and just last night my girlfriend of 1 year and 3 months decided we needed to break up. she said that she had problems and just couldnt be in a relationship any more. she said that she does still love me and i belive her. the problem is that i dont think she has any problems and i wasnt to be with her more than anything in the world! How do i prove to her that we can make our relationship work and that we can be happy again. she said that she still wanted to be with me but didnt think she could be right now. what can i do? (link)
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well i'm a girl and i'm used this excuse many many times. and usually it means she's into another guy, but hey i mean look on the bright side try to make her see what she gave up get a new girlfriend that you know you could never love or even like show her a good time and if she still says she loves you and wants to take you back then take her back and explain to the other girl that you just aren't as happy with her then your ex-girlfriend..
hope it helps ;)
Skittlez
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15/f. my boyfriend is 17, a senior in high school. this is a long one...
my boyfriend and i have been dating since march 26 (you do the math). we've seen each other approximately 3 times since then. we've hooked up 3 times; twice while we were going out and once before. we've been to second (his hand under my bra).
we were very close friends before we started dating. we acted rather like boyfriend and girlfriend. we only needed to make it official. so we did.
he said "i love you" very early on. it took me a few times to answer. he was amazing, the perfect boyfriend. when we saw each other or even when we spoke, he treated me like gold. when i couldn't sleep, he'd answer his phone at midnight and talk to me until he fell asleep (i'm a bit of an insomniac). we had great conversations.
last time we saw each other was a week ago from yesterday. it was a perfect day, except that he was supposed to drive me home and my mom ended up not letting him and made me take the train home alone. he paid for my train ticket, being as perfect as he is, and i left. and things started to get weird that night.
about a month ago, when talking about another couple, i compared ourselves to them, not thinking it would stick with him. superficially, we were similar. however, the other couple broke up. the statement that i made started to haunt him this week. he was acting weird and he stopped saying "i love you" and every time i tried to hint to him that i was noticing, he'd ignore me. finally, i confronted him yesterday. we talked out the statement, but there was still something wrong.
we ran out of things to talk about. we always joked about that before, but we seriously did. i fell into a depression last night and for the life of him, he couldn't figure out what to do.
i still like him. hell, i think i may even love him. i don't want to break up. but he and i are both confused and a mutual friend is not making it better by telling us to break up with each other. i know he wants to stay together, but it's just so weird now. what do you think i should do? (link)
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ok so one thing you never want to do is compare your relationship with another couples. that will just make things harder and obviously it made it awkward so i guess what i'm trying to say is see how it is apart maybe for like a week maybe not even that try to get things straighted out or maybe so it's not so confusing...i know it might be awkward but ask your mom...i was in the same spot about 3 months ago with my boyfriend and i talked to my mom about it and it really did help so i mean parents aren't always that bad they can be embarrassing but they love you anywayz even through the toughest time. they will always have you back no matter what
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