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Kinda Confused..
My BF and I were having anal and we had no idea what we where doing, so for some reason his penis went down towards my vagina and then the condom broke. We don't think there was any seman on it or anything because he did not cum. so i took a test and it said i wasn't and then i got my period today, but its really light and spotting. Could i still be pragent? or what is the chance of me being pragent?
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My advice is to not do anything sexually if you don't know what you're doing. If you haven't done something before, instead of just jumping into it, do some research first and learn about what you're getting yourself into. Yes, it might take some effort on your part and his, but it beats the effort both of you (probably and especially you) will be putting into raising a child you aren't ready for.
If I were you, I would go to the doctor and get yourself checked out - make sure you aren't pregnant or anything like that. The chance of you being pregnant from this sexual experience - if it took place the way you said it did, which I'm sure it did - is very, very slim. I wouldn't worry if I were you, but I would play it safe and go get things checked out.
If you decide to have anal sex again in the future, use an obscene amount of lubrication. You can NEVER use too much lubrication - I tell this to people all the time when it comes to anal sex. Your problem was, if you were using any at all, you probably weren't using enough and the friction caused the latex to tear. Not only might his condom tear, but your anus could tear and cause bleeding and expose you to a lot of stuff NOBODY wants to be exposed to.
So here's my anal sex checklist in case you decide to do it again:
1. Make him use a condom like you did before - (don't let him use more than one condom - don't let him "double bag it." Latex on latex friction makes it very easy for condoms to break and actually defeats the purpose of wearing any condom at all.).
2. Use lots of lubrication. Just when you think you've used too much, use more. There's no such thing as too much lubrication. Lubricate his penis, lubricate your anus, lubricate fingers or any toys that may be involved...go crazy with the lubrication.
3. Stimulate yourself anally before he penetrates you. He can use his fingers; you can use yours, or you can experiment with a toy. Either way, the anus is not meant for penetration, so if you're going to penetrate it then do it gradually.
4. Practice breathing techniques before and during anal play. Learn to relax yourself through the power of breathing properly. There's a bunch of websites out there - educate yourself. If you tense up, so will your anus, and it'll be even more difficult for him to get inside. When you learn to breathe properly, it can be a very enjoyable experience.
I hope this helps. :)
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Well, the best way to get an accurate result on the test is to wait until you are 2 weeks overdue for your period.
Since you are a teen, your menstrual cycle is doubtfully regulated, so you need to allot for that, as well as you need to allow time for the pregnancy hormone to be strong enough in your urine to give an accurate result if you do happen to be pregnant.
There is a far greater chance of getting a false negative than a false positive.
Always remember that just because a man doesn't ejaculate, doesn't mean you won't get pregnant. Guys leak pre-cum during sex, which contains sperm, and you can get pregnant from that. I did.
I would be willing to bet that stress is causing your spotty period. Since you do have a bit of a period, I would say your chances are that you aren't pregnant, but if you want to take a test to be on the safe side, wait a couple of weeks to ensure you get an accurate result.
ygs-29/f
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ok sweetie i thought i was too and yeah i'm not so i highly doubt you are and maybe before you try something new study on it ok and yeah being pregnant is no fun i should kno i was pregnant with my ex's kid but i'm not i lost it but hey just be careful ok hun be safe too
sincerely
Katie
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I doubt that you are. If you went doing it vaginally then your fine, plus if he wasnt in you or was pulling out when it broke the air hit the semen and they died.
If you stress out about thinking your pregnant that you could have a weird period or even miss. Pregnancy test are usually pretty accurate after your period so if your still uneasy about the situation then take another one. I'm pretty sure your not pregnant.
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Well if he didn't cum, you shouldn't be pregnant unless he pre-came. But even if he did pre-cum the chance that you are pregnant is very low. If you want to be 100% sure, take one more pregnancy test even though I doubt you're pregnant.
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