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boyfriend = trouble?
my boyfriend , who i like very very much, tries to get me to sneek out alot. and i dont like getting into trouble very much with my dad because hes the kind of person who does not forget. but when i try to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to sneek out because i dont want to get into trouble, he gets angry at me and tells me that he would do anything for me and that i wont get caught... how do i tell him to not push me into getting in trouble.
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tell him plain and simple that if he was really a good boyfriend he would respect your choices and your not wanting to get in trouble. if he really cares about you, he will respect your choice. hope this helps!
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ok girl i hate to break it to ya but if this guy who says he would do anything for you wants you to sneek out and knows there is a big possibility that you might get caught and he doesn't seem to care he isn't much of a boyfrind he's more of an asshole (no affense) but you deserve better ok
sincerely
katie
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Tell him that you would do anything for him but to understand and respect that you cant sneak out cuz youll get in trouble,tell him what hes doing only proves that hes being selfish and only cares about himself and not about what would happen if your father saw you.Go out with him some other time,plan it out with him.
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Tell him that if you really mean that much to him, and if he would do anything for you, then he would understand why you couldn't sneak out all the time. Sneaking out is not a good habbit to get into. It also has some psychological effects too, for instance is shows that you would rather avoid problems and responsibilities than face them. Im not saying that thats your case though. It's better to have your parents on your side, then your boyfriend to be quite frank. Your parents hold your "happiness" in the palm of their hand, and I don't think it would be good to upset that balance. Just talk with your boyfriend. I'm sure that eventually he'll understand. Goodluck:)
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Tell your boyfriend, "I really like you a lot! And there's nothing I'd enjoy more than sneaking out and being with you. But if my dad catches me, I might never be allowed to see you again, and I really don't want to risk that!".
If he starts to argue with you (which he probably will, if that's what he normally does), tell him, "You said you would do anything for me. Well, please stop asking me to sneak out. I'm really sorry to disappoint you, but I just can't do that, so please don't ask me to again."
If he keeps pressuring you, that means he cares more about himself and his wants than he does about you and yours... and you don't need a guy like that. Sorry, that's probably not what you want to hear, but I'm sure that you probably expected to hear something like that. =]
Hope it works out!
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