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I dont want to move on
Hi, i am a 19 year old guy and just last night my girlfriend of 1 year and 3 months decided we needed to break up. she said that she had problems and just couldnt be in a relationship any more. she said that she does still love me and i belive her. the problem is that i dont think she has any problems and i wasnt to be with her more than anything in the world! How do i prove to her that we can make our relationship work and that we can be happy again. she said that she still wanted to be with me but didnt think she could be right now. what can i do?
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well i'm a girl and i'm used this excuse many many times. and usually it means she's into another guy, but hey i mean look on the bright side try to make her see what she gave up get a new girlfriend that you know you could never love or even like show her a good time and if she still says she loves you and wants to take you back then take her back and explain to the other girl that you just aren't as happy with her then your ex-girlfriend..
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Skittlez
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First off, hun, I think it is important that you respect her and her wishes and give her what she wants. She has asked for time apart from you, and all you can do is make the best of it. However, if you do really love her and you think she does till truly want to be with you, then just tell her how you feel. Don't hold anything back! But, make sure not to make her feel pressured. Let her know that you respect her decision and that you are there for her in whatever she is going through right now. Chances are, she has a lot of emotional problems right now and just feels over whelmed. Just be a friend above everything but make sure she knows your true feelings. I think it will work itself out in the end. *Smiles*. Best of luck... Let me know if you need anything else, hun. Im always here.
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don't act all pathetic and sad. that won't work. girls HATE seeing guys cry. chances are, there's a lot of emotional stuff going on w/her. give her a few days, or a week. maybe she just wants to be single and wants a break. basically, what i'm trying to say is give her time. then approach her if she seems interested, but don't if she's starting to date other guys.
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