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Coming out to my bffl


Question Posted Wednesday June 13 2007, 11:17 am

There's this amazing girl, let's call her Jamia. She's in 10th grade and we have one too many things in common [we have more in common than she has with her TWIN sister]. I'm in 9th grade by the way. Anyways, we are both strong supporters of LGBT [lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transsexual.]
Half my friends are not straight...Anyways, I'm bi and I'm not out of the closet to anyone at my school--or to anyone I know. I love her with all my life because she's been there for me whenever I was in my suicidal moods and she's a truly great friend. But the thing is I feel so bad about keeping me being bi from her. And I really want to tell her. Tomorrow is the last day of school and I want to tell her. B ut I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? If so when and how?

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bethloveswife answered Friday June 15 2007, 10:24 am:
Yes I think you should tell her. I have friends that are gay and bi. It's really not that big of a deal, because you're not gay, so you still like girls. You should actually ask her to hang out with you over the summer, and you may find it easier to talk to her out of school.



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confused,jealous,and..sca answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 2:05 pm:
yes you should tell her say you've been keeping something from her and you fell really bad about it then tell her she might already have a feeling that you are so just don't lie to her i know i lied to my ex girlfriend and we started going out the reason why we broke up is because i moved pretty shitty

hope it helps

Bye

Kaite

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christina answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:20 pm:
Since she's a sophomore, her school schedule may differ from yours just a bit & it may be a little bit more busy.


Anyways, when you see her, just tell her "Hey, when you have a minute free, I've gotta talk to you. It's important."


Then when she asks you what it is when the time comes, tell her. She's your best friend, and she'll understand. Good luck. Tell me how it works out.

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TiffanyAlexis answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 12:15 pm:
this girl is your best friend, you absolutly should tell her. if you are both strong supporters, she'll understand.

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