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I'm kendall, but I go by kenda :] I'm 16 years old and currently a Junior in high school. I love Alternative & Indie music, reading, writing, hanging out with friends, & watching Grey's Anatomy and Sex & the City. I have 2 half-siblings & 1 little brother. I've had alot of problems with my family, but I've gotten over much of it & moved on. Relationships have always been hard for me, for some reason.I can pretty much relate to alot of things that you all may want to ask; Family problems, school grades, friendship problems, mental health disorders, eating disorders, and relationship problems. You can ask just about anything;
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does anyone know where to get camis that are kinda long that covers your whole stomach? and i also want the very cheap ones.. like i dont want a cami for 10$ .. thanks
Forever21 & Kohls sell really nice camis. Forever21 sells them for about $6 or $7 and Kohls sells them for about $8.
Hey all! Well, I need new eyeglasses, and I really like the ones from Chanel, so if anybody knows where to get them and Chanel sunglasses too, and how much would they cost I would really appreciate them. Also, I heard you could get them at like LensCrafers, but do they sell the real Chanel eyeglasses? Thanks.
P.S.-I'm 14/f and I live in Maryland.
Yes, LensCrafters sells the real Chanel kind, and they also sell Lacoste glasses and Dolce & Gabana. The last time I looked at the price of the Chanel glasses they were about $200 or more. But if you go to Eyefine.com they sell them for about $180 and up.
i know this is a stupid question but where do they sell the white pearl necklaces? everyone has them and they look sooo cute but i can't find them anywhere! i don't need expensive ones but just cute ones. if you could send me the website of the store that would be nice!
Forever21 & Wet Seal sell them for really cheap; like 3 or 4 dollars. try looking here; www.forever21.com & then try Wet Seal's website :]
My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's
Garnier Fructisce Deep Conditioner will make your hair really smooth in only 4 minutes, also Sleek & Shine by L'Oreal will make your hair shiny and healthy; but that product is usually put on before you straighten your hair. As for split ends, I would just recommend a trim next time you go to get your hair cut. I used to hav dry & brittle hair, but now my hair's alot healthier and smoother when I used the products I mentioned before.
♥ kenda
OKay im 14/f and my parents think im a 'good' girl and ive nevr done anything wrong and like im a good student and everythign but like i dont have a boyfrinds but me and this guy are getting pretty close and i want to get on birth control just in case anything happens(which i think it will) and my mom doenst know this guy and me and him havent gone base oral but i dont know what to do ??? how do i talk to her about getting on birth cantrol?
I would try to just be honest about it & not hide anything. But if you still feel a little uncomfortable about it, then you could tell her that you want birth control to help regulate your period (fewer cycles a year). But you could also go to Planned Parenthood and get birth control without her knowing; They don't ask for a name, & it's free.
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Hi =)
What are good ways (natural, not products) for my hair to be smooth and healthy? Please suggests things/food that actually works..
I have long thick brown hair that is kind of curly/wavy and it tends to frizz some. My scalp can get greasy but the hair gets a little dry.. I just want some remedies for it to be more nourished and silky. Thanks a lot in advance
I don't know any natural ways to smooth your hair without causing damage to it, but I do know a conditioner that can really leave your hair silky & smooth. It's called Garnier Fructisce Deep Conditioner. You leave it in your hair for 4 minutes and then rinse. You can already tell the difference after you rinse it all out.
I have to write a report on Anorexia for my health class final. The thing is, I don't understand how people go for so long without food? How do they resist temptation? And does being anorexic mean you don't eat AT ALL, or do you still eat, but just a little bit? And what are some "side effects" or problems that may occur from being anorexic. ( I've already looked at ALOT of sites I've googled, but they just all say not to go anorexic, I need more info then that!) Thanks so much guys!
Alot of girls (and some guys) go for food without days because they think that they are not fit like everyone else & believe that by fasting they can look like 'supermodels', popular girls, & anyone else beautiful & classified as perfectly thin. As I said before, when they fast they don't eat at all for a specific period of time (depends on how long they are willing to go to be thin). Some fast for a while, but then eat small things such as fruit, but nothing with too many calories. Some side effects are depression, a drastic weight loss, anemia (from loss of iron), & heatstrokes from fasting too long. They resist temptation by putting themselves in situations where there is no food (going to the mall, but avoiding the food court), & by chatting with other anorexic friends.
I have to go for a breast exam and a pap smear in a couple days and im totally flipping out becuase i just read an article on how and what the doctor does (http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/medical_care/obgyn.html) and this is scaring me becuase its the most private part of my body. or parts. the part im most worried about is me being 15 female and my doctor is a male. I feel uncomfortable now and im really driving myself crazy. If anyone has been in my position please tell me anything to make me feel better. thanks so much.
You can always ask for a female doctor, but if you can't do a quick change then it's still alright. The pap smear is quick and painless. He really doesn't even look while he's doing it, like most would think. The breast exam feels a bit awkward but it's over in like 2 minutes. Don't worry! I worried before mine, but once I got there, there was nothing to worry about because they act completley professional about it. No jokes or anything :] Feel better about everything!
What makeup usually covers the red bumps? I know it's acne. But it's just RED, no i don't pick or pop at them. I use moisturizer and wait a few minutes because if i do it 10-15 mins later, my makeup cracks. like my face is dry or i used too much makeup o.o My skin is combination though. I dont know what to do use. I tried using concealer, foundation, powder but the red just shows right through and i look weird with lots of makeup on. I see other girls that cover them up nicely. I don't know how to do it.
I use a cover-up stick by 'Flirt' (you can buy it at Kohls for $10 for the smaller tube), it doesn't dry out your skin or leave it oily. You can try it on at Kohls with a cotton ball to see what shade suites your face right, but the makeup blends really well and hides any blemishes perfectly. :] I hope it works for you!
Well, about 4 minutes ago, all of a sudden I got a sharp pain in my stomach, & now it is still there. If I touch my stomach it gets worse. It's not like a pukey kind of pain, its like someone shot it. It hurts so bad. I have two questions:
1. What would be the cause of this?
2. How can I get rid of it? FAST!
That usually happens to me when I'm hungry and havn't eaten in a while. Try laying down with a heating-pad on your stomach, but don't doze off because it could burn your stomach while asleep. Try eating something or going to the bathroom if that helps. Midol works really well too :]
When I get up from my seat or the bed and I see spots for a few seconds, what is that?
That happens to me alot, too. I'm anemic though, so I'm low on iron. Have you gotten checked for Anemia? I would say to check that with your doctor. But this could also be something minor, such as just staring off too long or you black out a little. I wouldn't think too much of it, unless it becomes consistent and begins to blurr your vision alot.
the volume on my computer wont work! the volumes up the highest it can go and it's NOT on mute! the volume just won't work! i did everything right and this is the 3rd time it happened. and i forgot how i did it the other times. my mom and dad tried and they can't get it to work either! how do i get the volume to work?
maybe someone kicked the plug for the speakers, so try to unplug it & then plug it back on. that used to happen to me all the time. hopefully a speaker didn't blow though, otherwise you'll have to buy new ones.
I wear a 00 in pants.
I'm going into 9th grade and would like to be a 0 by then. I'm 4'11 and 82lbs. (00's are still a little big on me)
So how much weight would I have to gain to fit in a 0. If your a zero what do you weight?
well it kind of depends on your height and how much muscle you have (incase muscle takes up space in your jeans) but i'm 93 lbs, 5'4 and I fit into a 0. Maybe gaining about 5 lbs could help, but also exercising alot can gain weight and fill up jeans.
Im just going to get down to the point. What could be a creative way of asking her out face to face? What do girls like to be complimented on? What really really turns a girl on?
I want this from a females perspective mostly. Thanks. I rate 5's.
15/m
bringing her favorite type of flowers is definatly going to make her smile. try taking her someplace nice; not the movies! Maybe to a small coffee shop (if she likes coffee), or to a nice restuarant. Tell her she's beautiful, and maybe tell her how much she means to you. Do the little things that make her smile :]
im going away soon for vacation and i never been on a plane before this will be my first time. i dont know what to expect here are some questions i would like to get answered
should i be scared
alot of people say to chew gum should i?
willl i get sick?
what should i do to keep busy?
riding on a plane isn't that scary, once you get used to it. after the first 10 minutes you start to feel alot better about it.
1. nope, you definatly don't need to be scared. just relax
2. chewing gum could help, it'll keep your mind off what's stressing you.
3. you could get sick, but try not to look out the window so much if you feel like you're going to.
4. listen to your ipod, read a book, or just bring a portable dvd player (if they let you use it on a plane) & watch a dvd. :]
13/f. I was bra-shopping for something strapless with my tube top, and I couldn't find anything that was 32A (damn...the bra companies expect everyone to look like Barbie!!!). The 34A was too loose, so I had to settle with the 34A pushup bra. What I need to know is, are padded bras stupid? I don't want to be tacky.
padded bras aren't stupid nor tacky, some girls think they are because alot have a bigger chest than most, so they don't have to deal with padding. A regular padded bra, with not too much, is fine & most can't tell. But don't overdo it with too much, otherwise people can tell easily.
ok well i think i'm fat so i try to eat healty and exercise, but i never can keep up with it! how can i keep at it? and is it a bad thing that every time i get skinnier (like every year or so) i always want to get thinner and thinner. is that bad? usually w/e i am isnt enought. i want to loose more. HELP
I'm on a diet too right now & the way that I stick with mine is by making a plan; I write down each of the exercises that I want to do each day and I do half in the morning and half at night. I also write down how many calories I want to take in each day, so it's kind of like restricting. Just keeping track of everything that you want on your diet is a way to stick with it. You can also list your motivation on paper; such as 'toned stomach', 'tiny legs' & all that so it motivates you to stick with your diet. & wanting to be thinner everytime is completely normal, but don't go too thin, otherwise you could put your body at risk.
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my cousin and I get along really well,but my cousin Tiffany is only 13 and is only 100 pounds and she is 5 foot and 1inches tall and complains about being fat all the time and now she's going on a diet to try to lose 10 pounds is this anorexia Iam getting really worried about her.I try to tell her she isn't fat,but she dosn't belive me what should I do?please help.
Going on a diet is necessarily anorexia, but if your cousin begins to skip meals or make excuses to get out of meals, then you should really talk to her. Tell her what she's doing could seriously hurt her body sooner or later.
If she's just dieting to get into shape & become fit, then it's alright. Just keep an eye on her and make sure she's eating right and exercising good.
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