OKay im 14/f and my parents think im a 'good' girl and ive nevr done anything wrong and like im a good student and everythign but like i dont have a boyfrinds but me and this guy are getting pretty close and i want to get on birth control just in case anything happens(which i think it will) and my mom doenst know this guy and me and him havent gone base oral but i dont know what to do ??? how do i talk to her about getting on birth cantrol?
xomegaroni answered Sunday June 18 2006, 9:44 am: be open & honest. my friend has birth control juss incase. she went & told her mom about it. honestly, your mom will probably be happy you're getting birth control. i think that's responsible. it's not like you're going out, having sex with random people, & not using protection. juss tell your mom the situation & you rather be careful & safe, than not. plus, if you don't tell her & get it yourself, (which you can at planned parenthood), if she finds it in your room she might jump to conclusions. she might even want to talk to the guy. that wouldn't be a bad thing. she might be more comfortable doing that. also, she could see that you're responsible enough to be open with her & tell her so that you aren't hiding things.
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