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ok i was going out with a girl for 9 months....then she broke up with me...and i found out she still loves me but she doesnt want 2 but she does and i love her 2 i asked her out but she said no.....and like everyday she loves me a little more...but i want her 2 love me a lot so she will go out with me so ladies if u were the girl here wut would a guy like me have 2 do....buy a flowers and chocolates? write a peom...find a poem ill do anything for her....so wut should i do?
It seems as if you like/love her a little too much. Give her space, let her have time to cool off. Don't over crowd her and bother her. Just play it cool, wait a while, then talk to her about whats on your mind. I know how easy it is to tell someone that all they need to do is talk to them, and I know its really hard. If you don't want to talk, write her a letter. Do anything, but GIVE HER SPACE. Thats all you need to do.
Hope I helped//PRP
HI eri!
Hi Beri.
i always screw up. I screwed things up with my best friend... and now my cuzin. ok heres my problem: My cuz likes the same guy i like.. except shes known him longer. He liked me and i told her i liked him and she said cool. i said what if i went out with him? shes like, "that would be ok." and when he asked i said yes. I didnt tell her because i didnt have the heart too.. its only been 3 days since we started and my sis opened her mouth.. and i guess she was crying and said i promised her i would never date him.. the thing is i did. but she claims she said it wasnt ok.. so did her sis.. but she did. now she hates me. I need help. should i break up with him even tho i really like him.. or what??'
help ASAP please
thanks
Don't blame this on yourself. Follow your heart, and don't break up with him just because your cousin wants him. It's a jealousy problem she has, and I would ignore it. Just tell her you're sorry for hurting her, but you both really like eachother, so thats not gonna stop you. Don't let people control your life. Have fun and live it up. //PRP
You just answered my question about the guy from swimming. I didn't explain my self enough.
Back in February he liked me. She was jealous adn became a slut adn hung all over him. He got into the wrong stuff, went to SRC in april and quit the team. I just saw him tonight. I've liked him since last december. REALLY liked him. When i stopped getting to see him (diffrent schools, summer, no swimming), i decided to try and not think abou thim and move on. I was FINALLY to the point where i was pretty much over him, but now I don't know what to think. Even if he is a player, i still don't know because i really DO like him. NOT just a crush, way more. and the girl is just a friend, not like best friends, were just swimming friends and we both went to see him and she drove me. I'm a freshman(14) hes a sophomore, 15, and shes a junior, 16
and other advice you can give me? sorry
Hmm. I would talk to him about it, if you can trust him. Just like tell him how you feel, and you could like make him promise not to get all freaked out and you are talking to him as a friend. You could tell him that you are asking about a friend and not yourself. I can't really think of anything else...And I know how hard it is to like talk to people, trust me. It's so easy to tell someone to talk to someone, but when it comes down to talking to them, its HARD. I would just do what you can, and about her, Girls ALWAYS get jealous of other girls and guys. If she wants to be a slut, let her. I would HIGHLY advise you to NOT turn into her. Be you and thats all you can pretty much do.
I hope I helped this time! I'm sorry if I didnt!
Kay so I knew this guy from swimming, and some stuff happened and I didn't get to see him for a long time. So I just saw him today, and the last time I saw him was in April. I used to really like him, but it's been so long that I kind of tried to forget adn move on. A girl that also liked him took me to his house today. He is kind of a man whore, and also has done some bad stuff, but still is realllly nice. SO anyways,he made out with my friend. While I was there. Sitting next to them. Then he tried to kiss me. But since I hadn't talked to him in several months, and he had just made out with my friend who likes him a whoooole lot, I said no, but really I have never been kissed before and I'm just to scared to. The other girl has made out with 9 guys. Yeah so seeing the situation, I said no, and now I'm really sad and don't know if I like him or not or what to do and why I couldn't have just kissed him first. I'm 15. He's 15, she's 16. Help?
He sounds like a player if he went in for a kiss right infront of the girl he JUST madeout with. And only you can decide if you like him. Having a crush and liking someone are two completely different things. Haveing a crush is thinking someone is cute/good looking. Liking someone is when all you think about is them and you have a hard time getting them off your mind. You have to decide which one it is, or if it isnt any of those. And I think it is kind of rude that she would go makeout with him right there. If I'm not mistaken, I would say that she was trying to make you jealous/see if you would makeout with him because you know that shes madeout with 9 guys. I mean, if she is a good friend, keep her. If she isnt, then you can decide. If you want to talk further, you can I*M me at Cheez it 1603. But I wont be on for a couple of days, so you could just leave one in my inbox.
HIH, -PRP-
You see, I have a crush on this guy. I've had one on him for 3 years now. I'm kind of sort of friends with him, but the only time I have the guts to talk with him is around my friend because she's friends with him, so I just follow and laugh at his jokes.
I'm not good at starting conversations, so I'm not sure how to get his attention. I don't want to be all like "I LIKE YOU." to him, because I did that for two years now. And my biggest fear is that he thinks I'm some sort of stalker-freak.
How do I get his attention? *feels like a fool* Thanks!
Hey, I Think I might be able to help. If I don't, feel free to rate me bad. :) Okay, so what I would do is tell him that you don't like him anymore and havent for a while and that you just thought that he should know that. And then walk away. Then like gradually start talking to him, and maybe get his number. Just take the friendship thing slow and even though you not liking him is a lie, oh well. Just look around for other guys that you might be interested in. Sorry if this doesn't help at all.
//PRP
I'm 13/f, I really like this guy, and I'm in the 7th grade. He's really cute and he's really fun to talk to and he's really nice and I could make a whole list of great things about him, but that would take a long time and wouldn't make much of a difference anyhow. We used to be good friends, but over the summer he went away and I didn't get to stay in touch with him. Now, he's still nice and we still IM and talk sometimes and all, but he just doesn't seem interested and has sort of backed down. He talks and flirts with other girls, and I know that that's not something to be really mad about, but I just can't help but be really pissed off whenever he's having fun with another girl, or talking and walking alone with another girl. And I'm too embarassed to talk to him as much, and he's in only 1 of my classes (Grrr). What can I do to build back friendship again, how can I approach him without blushing, how can I get him to notice me more? I know this is really long, and I'm only 13, and this seems like a dumb question compared to what's happening to people dying in New Orleans and people trying to live in leaky football stadiums in New Orleans but I really need help!!!
Hey, I don't think this is a dumb question. The same thing just happened to me. Jealousy TOTALLY took over. I was reading my really good guy friends myspace (I kinda like him a "little") comments, and there was one from this girl I know, we are sorta friends, but you could just tell that she was trying to make people jealous because she hung out with him on his birthday, and no one else did except for his guy friends and, well it made me mad, sad, and feel really left out. AND WAY JEALOUS. I totally know how you feel. Just try to be a really good friend to him and call him sometime just to talk. Thats what I do, or just tell him that you have to go, and that he can call back later. I don't know, not much you can do about it. Gosh, I'm like so sad and jealous that I'm like about to cry. OMg. Okay, I'm being annoying. Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
13/f this is gonna be long. in the past two years i've had three really intense sex dreams where i wake up and i'm really sweaty and kind of shakey and i feel all tingly and stuff. the weird thing is that about a month after i have these dreams i have another dream where i will be in the delivery room at a hospital having the baby. one time i even woke up with cramps in my abdomen. this has happened for the first two times but i only had the last dream like two weeks ago. Are these dreams just a weird...really really weird coincidence or could they mean something?
K.A.
I think it is probably just hormones. But it could definately be more. You could be having visions of what will happen in the future. Or I have heard of stories where girls were having dreams like these but they werent just dreams. They were drugged by their dad or bf or w/e and fell asleep and were dreaming about what was happening. I would check yourself after everydream just to make sure nothing is going on. Or, you can like go to a doctor or psycic and talk about this. Or a dream therapist. But I do think it means something. Just be aware of all your options. Hope I helped, -|-PRP-|-
well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless
What is so bad about thongs? ITS UNDERWEAR. Seriously, I don't know why Moms are like this. I told my mom I wanted them, and she took me shopping. Why don't you just go buy some and who cares if your mom finds it. It is underwear. Or like one of my friends, just do your own laundry and keep your pants up while your mom is around. Or you could ask your dad and see what he says. lol. Well, just talk to your mom or do your own laundry. Hope I helped, -|-PRP-|-
its taylor...what would you do if you were me...
Well, do you love him enough to wait? If you do, wait. You have to give him space though, and be super nice and just show how much you care about him. But if you don't love him enough to wait, then don't. Try and move on. Write poems about it, and make a list of all the bad qualities about him. Thats what I would do in either situation. If you need to talk to me about it more, my aim sn is x0xer1kax0x. My e-mail is erikamclayton@hotmail.com. Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
hey um this is taylor again...that last question i asked you and this guy and i typed it to him first and i didnt want to re-type it and so i copied an pasted it forgetting i had written "your hott" lol so ya you are pretty but i for sure like guys and not girls haha...but yeah sorry bout that...after i sent it i was like oh shit haha
***TaYlOR
Hey, its fine. I kinda thought that as soon as you started talking about the guy. :) so Its fine! I hope my advice helped you! -|-PRP-|-
Your hott haha...(im a girl)
anways okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
taylor
Hey, well, I think that Hunter sounds like a jerk. But, thats besides the point. So you can't let go? You either love him, or you got a big huge crush that you can't get rid of. If Hunter is someone that you can trust, then tell him how you feel. But, if you are scared that that might screw everything up between you two, write him a poem. Or just write poems for you. Writing helps get feelings locked up inside of you, out and it makes you feel so much better. And, if you really want to take the time and wait for him to come back, do that. It will prove that you are a really awesome girl and would make an awesome girlfriend because you have patients and you like someone enough to wait a relationship out just for the guy. I think that he might be acting this way to you because he likes you alot, but he can't like get it through his head, so he says that he likes other girls and goes out with other girls so he can forget about you. But that is only in some cases. But whatever you do, DONT EVER SHADOW OVER HIM. What I mean is, dont like butt into his relationship life and just like stalk him because that causes drama and rumors will get started about you two and then it will mess up his relationship with that one girl, then he will be really mad at you for like stalking him and shadowing him. You have to give him space. Lots of it. A call or two might not be so bad, you know, just to say Hi, how are things going? But don't call him everyday, just to tell him that you love him because that will make him get sick of you. So lay low, and tell me how everything works out.
I really hope I helped :) -|-PRP-|-
Would any of you agree with "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"?
The other night, my friend, who had had a few, told me he liked me, he thinks it can work between us, even that im the girl he sees himself marrying. The next day I asked him about it. I asked if he remembered what he said and he said yes. So I asked him if he meant it, and he said yes. I really like him. but im scared to take it any further because I don't know it its true.
I totally agree with it. Think about it, doesn't it make sense? A sober mans thoughts are brought out when drunk, because all the care of what other people think, just goes away because he is wasted. But of course he remembered, and he couldnt deny it because it was the honest truth and he truly cares for you.
And I would go for it. But I have to agree with another answer, if you are still in your teens, then, well you might want to wait a while. But if you are around the age where you get married, just be calm and make sure you don't make yourself like him just because he likes you.
Hope I helped, -|-PRP-|-
get on aim!!!!!!!!! i have to tell you something.. theres another jason abored.. LOL
Oh great.
I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
Hey girlie, I've seen this question on the site before but since I can answer it, I will anyways. Honestly? What I do is, I become friends with the guy and after a while I give him my number then we talk on the phone. Or you could get his e-mail and like e-mail him and ask him "as a friend." Or if you wanna be like secretive about it, make up an e-mail address at yahoo or something and pretend to be one of his friends and ask him...Although, I wouldnt do that unless you are totally desperate.
Does he give hints that he likes you other than staring like, when he walks by, does he "accadentally" run into you, or do you catch him walking by you alot? Do his friends talk about you? You could always ask one of his friends to ask him or tell you. Just be you and dont change just for a guy.
♥ Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
how do you get a background on your my space
Here are a couple of sites that I use.
1... http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/index.htm
2... www.mygen.co.uk
There, you can create an awesome background for your myspace. If you want, you can check out my myspace.
www.myspace.com/Misunderst00d
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What exactly is a prude?
It means that you are a little shy with guys. Like for example, if you had a boyfriend, you might be a little shy if he wants you to kiss him, so you dont kiss him. Maybe you dont wanna like -do anything- with him because you are Prude. So prude means shy basicly. Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
ok well i'm gon out with this kid but he tells his friends that he thinks I'm prude..which i'm not really cuz i've gone farther than he has. and whenever his friends are around me like spell out prude or say oohhh looks like someones prude..well i'm wonderin..what should i say to them cuz its gettin madd annoying
Well, it looks like your boyfriend is a jackass...If he has a problem, why not tell it to your face? But whatever, not my choice...I would just tell them to back off and say like, "I'M prude? At least I HAVE a boyfriend. Don't you have anything better to do then to waste your time calling me prude, when you don't even have a girlfriend?" Just stuff like that. His friends are so stupid to be doing that...Do they even have a girlfriend? Well whatever...Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
what does masturbate mean?
i know it is a stupid question, but i rele don't know
-i rate high for nice peoeple
It means to like pleasure yourself by...lets say "touching yourself" down there...Hope I helped. -|-PRP-|-
what happens when a guy masterbates (sp) is it that he jerks off ... oh and what is a male's orgamism
um...lol. Yeah, Masturbate and Jerking off are the same thing. And guys dont Orgasm...They, you know, let out alot of..."stuff." Hope I helped, -|-PRP-|-