about

Hi. My name is Corbie. I'm 15 and a sophomore. Don't let the age fool you though. I do have a good bit of wisdom with certain things in life. You can ask me any questions about whatever you need, no matter how rediculous. I am a very understanding person. I will be honest; sometimes I don't know what to say but I can still be helpful. I love my boyfriend Monty. We will have been dating for 9 months on his birthday; February 2. I also lovelovelove MUSIC, poetry, rainbows, penguins, pandas, koalas, puffins, clounds, rain, spring, and daisies. I'm not a big person on politics; I don't really discuss them. I would like to go to school for Elementary teaching and Ministry with kids. I love kids. I am a full time worker with the children program at my church. Other than that I am a simple person. I will try and help you out as best I can.

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i've liked guys but there's one thing i can't stand, getting over it. i get over them easily but my friends who know who i like all the time say like you know you still like him. That was 2007. the present is 2008!!! hello. i can't get them to stop. even though i don't like anyone at the moment.

Well it seems like you try to fight it. Sometimes you may still like them but you just don't want the feelings to continue and someone agging it on isn't helping you out. I say just ignore them. They have to leave you alone eventually if you show you don't like them anymore.

KerbeeLee

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Okay so this is going to be kinda long, just letting you know, so if you don't have any time, don't read this.

Alright so my friend Taylor was 'talking' to this Alec kid, Alec is a Sophomore, and Taylor and I are freshmen but we all went to the same gradeschool. Well I remember getting mad at her for something, so I told Alec he was cute haha, and we started 'talking'. We were talking for about two weeks, he would text me in the mornings sometimes and say cute things, and if he didn't do that then he would right after school was over until one of us fell asleep.

Well a lot of people found out and he got annoyed but he didn't really care. But he stopped liking me because he thought I liked someone else, but I'm pretty sure its because some girl(Erin) told him shit about me. Erin and I got into a fight kinda, but were really close now. (This is all in Novemeber by the way)

Well after that.. Alec and I would talk just as friends usually, but he will tell me I'm pretty everytime we talk usually. Then I got a boyfriend because I was tired of waiting for him, that lasted about three weeks, and I still liked Alec so I dumped George, but thats not the whole reason why.

Then Alec and I were kinda talking again, I told him I still liked him but he told earlier he had liked Anna so I knew he didn't like me but he said your the hottest freshmen I know and I would hook up with you any day but your a good friend, and I was like but you would only be using me.. and he said No I don't use people, so I just went along with it because I knew it wouldn't happen.

Well later that week I asked if he was serious about hooking up and he said that he didn't know, so I was just like whatever, but I saw him that week at Wendy's. He was with a lot of his friends and they all came outside and were waving and shouting my name and then they get into their car, and pull along side my mom's and roll down all the windows, honk, then start shouting and waving.. and then my mom started waving, and Alec was texting me and saying how much he loves my mom? and I was just like okay drunk ass.. because they were all drunk/buzzed haha.

Well then Taylor told me she liked Alec again and I decided I should be a good friend and help her, so I pretended I didn't like him, and help her.. and this kid, Jimmy, that is Alec's friend likes me, and so I thought I might go for him..

So I hung out with Jimmy two weeks ago and I was talking to Alec after and I told him I was bored and he said aren't you with jimmy? and I said no I was earlier why? and he told me that someone told him and he didn't believe it and I asked why and he got all mad at me for it and started giving me attitude, and we haven't really talked that much since.

But on Thursday I texted him and we were getting along, and I asked if he was going to this game Friday and he said no I don't want to waste my money because they will lose.. So I'm at the game, and then all the sudden he walks in and I was with Erin.. and she said that he told her he would say hi.. so she said something to him and he's like I didn't see you.. but that is his lame ass excuse for everything because he told me that once when I was like a row behind him at Church and I know he saw me haha.

But I was talking to him Friday night and he was sticking up for me about something, but when he would text me, he wouldn't text Erin back, and when he would text Erin, he wouldn't text me back. Later on he told Erin that his grandma was in the hospital and stuff.. so I know he's been really busy with that and baseball..

I texted him earlier today but he never answered, and I wasn't going to text him until he texts me.. But I don't really know.. What would you do if you were me? Do you think I have a chance? Do you think he still likes me?

PS.. If you need more details I will be more then happy to tell you because I shortened this mass and didn't put in anything.

Okay hun, listen. This guy is a waste of time. I havn't had that exact problem but I have had a guy who was just as rediculous. It seems so hard to let them go but it's the best for you. Stay friends. Don't txt him. If he wants to talk to you he will. Still hang out with him at like school or wherever. Friends are essential but in dating terms forget it. He is just playing with your mind and pulling your strings. He likes girls attention. I used to be that way with guys and it's not right. Give up lol.

Good Luck
KerbeeLee

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There's this guy who comes to my house everyday. Not for me, he hangs out with my big brother from time to time.
Anyways, he has never spoken to me until I got a message from him on my myspace page. It says, "Hey princess. my name is so and so (not mentionin' his name) I'm this and that (describing himself) I would like to get to know you or call you sometime."
I wrote back sayin, "boi, you see me everyday".
Not sure if that was smoothe, but he seems like a sweet person.
He does give me long stairs or whatever. I would date him but he smokes and drink and stuff like that, which i can't stand.
Do you think that he even likes me? And/Or Should I try talking to him?

Okay what I think you should do is talk to him. But that's not all. If you don't like the things he does tell him. Talk to him for a while first and let him know how you feel but don't rush. Tell him you like him but there are complications. If he asks then tell him your not comfortable with a guy who smokes and drinks; it's just not something you like. If he doesn't think that is fair and respect you for it then he isn't worth your time. A relationship without respect is not a relationship at all.

Good Luck with your "boi" lol
ILY-KerbeeLee

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my freshman year i cam across this boy named tommy and i liked ever since junior year we started talking and in the summer he asked me to be his girlfriend so we went out i liked him alot he was my real first boyfriend and i was crazy fro him see i like my rocker guys with long hair and piercings ans he has that :) we even went to family values together and had a good time....school started and it was fine we didnt see each other at all only in themorning when i would get off the buss but only for 5 minutes and then i would just talk to him on the phone or myspace...so on the third day of school he broke up with me on myspace and i was devistated!!!! i couldnt belive it i mean the day before it was all fine!!! so then we broke up and i was sad i dated guys after him but for a very short time i cant get my mind off of him.....so im dating my current boyfriend nick and i liked him but now im loosing my feelings for him but he knows my tommy they live next to each other...and when ever me and nick are together and i see tommy i get pissed and puch nick away i still love tommy and by the way tommy has a girlfriend and apparently he is in love with her one time on myspace he wrote a song and he sent it to me to see if it sounded good and if not if i could fix it up and i did and it hurt he doesnt know i am still in love with him so when ever i see him i get this stmach ache and i just wsh i was with him......what should i do? i want him really bad!!! i need to get him back......

Wow, that sounds serious. All I can say for you to do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel. You need to be sure with yourself and know that you can trust him and be comfortable around him. Once you know that you can talk to him. Thing like this can't be held in too long or you will explode with emotion and it might surprise him even more. You never know; maybe he knows you still have something there for him and it wont come as such a surprise. Good luck to you and I hope all goes well.

Corbie

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What are some good websites for cute things to put in your aim profile, like saying or quotes?

Could you please give me a few wesites?

I sure can. I know a site with some cute quotes and such it just depends on if it will work on aim or not. Try www.whateverlife.com

Hope it works.
Corbie ^_^

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i was new in highschool this year, and i made friends quikly and fit in fine, but i still want to be so much more approachable, outgoing, and fun. i am fun and pretty crazy and everytihng, but to people i dont know or are not really close with im kinda shy. any tips? thanks so much!

Look, I was in this same predicament. I still am kinda shy but there are ways to deal with it. All I did was start getting a really good friend to be with me while I was talking with someone I didn't know very well. I think as long as you have a close friend that you can be crazy with then you wont always care what the other person thinks.

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hey! ok, so i'm 15/f. Well, I've really been wanting to loose some weight latley. I don't even know why it's just been on my mind a lot lately. All I can think about during the day is how much I want to loose weight. I'm about 175 pounds. I know it sounds bad, but I'm not like huge. I am bigger though. My best friend is about the same size and a while ago I had brought up something about this summer maybe going to the YMCA and working out. She said that she probably would, but i would like to somewhat start now. I will wait for the Y for the summer because I'm so busy with school right now, but I would like to start eating healthier now. But the only thing is, I don't know about healthy foods. Like, I want healty foods but I would like them to be tasty. I don't like salads that much, but then again, I haven't tried them for a while. I think I would like them more if it had some grilled chicken or something in it. But another thing is, I haven't talked to my friend about this in a while, and I don't know what she would really think about it. I think it would be eaiser to do if I had a friend to do it with, but if she doesn't want to, then I'll deffintaly still do it. So give me ANY advice and ideas about me loosing weitght please!! About food, workouts, how to ask my friend, anything!! thanks!!

Well everyone knows the only way to a healthy reassured diet is less food and exercise. You can do simple workouts, tredmills, or equipment. If you think a salad will be better tasting with grilled chicken you can do that. but buy skinless and boneless chicken breasts' and grill them but also make sure they have low calories or fat. Don't eat anything with high sodium, and for you that means no salt. No chocolate or fattening candy. Definately NO DAIRY. Try one glass of milk a day and one piece of bread a day; if you like them.

Hope this helps.
Corbie

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So i have this friend right. And were really good friends like best friends haha. and we talk everynight. i still like him and i know he kinda still likes me. I guess you can say were friends with "benefits" =/ anyways. he started ditching me and hes always leading me on and getting my hopes up. For example he finally texts me and hes like wanna talk tonight cutie? and im like UH YEA haha no im like sure i called him twice he never called back. I was up till 12:30 in the morning just waiting for him to call. I know that sounds desperate but i like him alot and i cant even picture him with anygirl. another example he was telling me on new years eve he met this one girl through his friends and shes our age and shes really pretty and she almost gave him a blowjob and she would do all this stuff with him. And how he was gonna give it a try with her. and how he wanted it to work. then a few minutes or a half hour later hes like oh my god i wanna be with you forever i love you. I just cant take it anymore. The pain of loosing him and listening to him talk about hooking up with 18 year olds (were both 15) and i just think it would be easier and less painful if i walk away before he leaves me for good. I just i cant do that its too hard. But im sick of him standing me up. i know "theres other fish in the see, youl get over him" but for the meantime what do you guys think i should do? thanks so much.

Oh girl don't even start lol. I went through the same thing too ^_^.......for two years actually =\
It can do some damage to you emotionally. He is two years older than me ALMOST. He would always want me to come over and try to hang out then he started dating other girls and forgot about me unless I talked to him first. He would want me to call him and when I did he would have to get off in like 10 minutes for god knows what. But if I didn't call him then he got all "why didn't you call me" ya know? Now I am a sophomore and he is a senior and he says he really likes me and I can tell he does now and he has changed so much. Maybe thats what your guy needs. He needs to know what wonderful girl he is missing out on and maybe then he will come back to you =]. Now I will be honest sometimes it works but not always. So don't get your hopes up. I would advise trying something like that just stay kinda friends with him and let him know your done with being hurt. If he doesn't come back to you I advise you just give up and leave. After I gave up on my guy I found the 2nd love of my life this year. It MIGHT happen to you too girl.

Corbie, ily ^_^ GOODLUCK

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ok i have 2 questions here please answer if you have a answer for either one ok so the first question is how do you get a tomboy to like you i really like her and i dont know if she likes me for more than a friend so i would like to know how to get a tomboy to like you and the second question is are there diffrent kinds of tomboys if there are please tell me thanks

Well I was a tomboy once when I was in elementary school. It was still a part of me when I was in middle school but a little less. 8th grade year I changed now I'm more of a punk/emo type girl. Even though I was there I don't think I could tell you how to get a tomboy to like you. Girls are the same but she might be into more outdoors, boy type activities than girls. Try doing some things with her that you both like. Considering she is a tomboy she has to have some of the same qualities as you.

Yes, there are different types. You can have one who just likes guys clothes cause they make her feel more comfortable about their body. It's a way to let them get used to it. You can have one who likes just guy sports, activities, etc. Or one that is all around dressed like, acting like(humor and health care), and doing things like a guy. Put it this way. I don't want to freak you out but if she is the last one then she is either just into guy things or gay. Talk to her about it. Get to know her MORE.

Corbie

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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other. andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends. so my ? is iwant to hear what pple think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday. thank you so much and i really appreciate it :]

Okay, I can see why you are so upset about this. It is a hard decision and you probably don't really want to think about it. Serious relationships are hard to deal with and they can be very difficult. I'm in a serious relationship now too; 8 months today actually. If I was in your situation I would just tell him that I find it difficult to continue what we have but that I would never forget it or lose it in my heart. You should tell him the same thing. Tell him you both have the chance to start fresh with a new beginning and you never know, this could be a great thing for you two. I get told this all the time and I do believe it; you shouldn't be held down by one guy all through school. You need to experience different one's and know what is out there. Find out your style and types; see what else you could have. I love my bf too with all my heart and I wouldn't want to let go of him but sometimes I think that there are other guys there who are interested in me and giving them a chance wouldn't be so bad. You can find out what your exact taste is and what you REALLY like. Mix up the flavors and find your specialty.

ILY
Corbie ^_^

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a sign of him started popin up everywhere you know the comercial for the hercualies hooks things and the kid in the comercail looks just like him that was what started that day and then later that day i was playing this computer game called school tycoon its where you build and run your own school and then there is little students walkin around and you can click on them and see there stats and one students name was Dustin F(im not saying his last name cause i dont know if your alowed to) DUSTIN F AAAAAAAAHHHHHHH oh and me and my dad went to the golf coarse yesterday and one of the golf pros had what looked like fake blonde hair (dusitn dyes his hair) and his name was dustins last name it was freaky what do you think i should do i see this creep everywhere i go and i dont think i like him anymore what should i do

That was your problem. You THINK you don't like him anymore. You have to KNOW. You have to quit playing these games with your mind. Obviously you still think about him. There are those last few feelings you have left to give up. Just work with it. It should soon come out of your system once you REALLY know he is out and it's over.


Good Luck
Corbie♀

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im getting a big bulletin board for my room. any ideas or links of what to put on it? like besides pics of me and my friends or like hot guys or whatever. thanks =)

You can put a calender up there and birthday/christmas cards from family and friends and such. You can post up poetry that you wrote or some off the internet; song lyrics and such. Maybe you have letters from your boyfriend that you think are absolutely sweet. One more option are if you have a YOUNGER sibling or cousin or something that absolutely adores you, you can put pictures that they drew for you.

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ok so im 14/f and still TERRIFIED of the dark. every night when i go to sleep i imagine murderers breaking in and killing me. I don't watch scary movies anymore, just a few here and there. the old ones still come back to haunt me, i'll remember any scary thought when it's nighttime. the fact that my house is PITCH BLACK at night doesn't help at all either. i really really desperately need help, i'm scared to go to bed at night. i can't even get up to go pee because im scared the killer with "hear me". i want to use a nightlight, but i don't want my parents to think i'm a wuss, i mean i'm 14!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me find a way to be comfortable in my own house at night.

Well I have one way that might make you feel a LITTLE more comfortable. It's a little bit of a different problem but sort of the same too. I love the dark, I just don't like what is in the dark. I have those thoughts too; about if someone is going to come out of my closet from hiding or someone just breaks in. It is something that haunts my mind as well and I am 15 lol; BUT there are ways to handle it. I don't know if you believe in God or go to church but I do and that is my getaway. I just think of a prayer in my head and think about God or I think about my boyfriend or someone I love is in the room with me at all times. I actually used to sleep with my t.v on, or a radio. I just need noise to cover up the creaks and scratches. Maybe if you have a t.v you can turn it on and act like you fall asleep to a movie or you can just try music. One more option is something my dad did for me. You know the shapes they sell in walmart but are like electric light? my dad got me a dolphin shaped one so when I plug it up and turn it out it's like electric light and I leave that on at night. Get one; it's not like a night light it is just a creative light you like in your room for "style".

I hope this helps, Corbie♀

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Right, so the other week i was out with some friends and they introduced me to some guys.
Then, i started hanging round with two of them guys (C and J) who both have gfs.
I took a liking to J and today we were talking for a little bit but we were with other people so we werent alone.
Weve been speaking on msn and myspace quite abit.
And i really like him. But, he has a gf who he's madly in love with.
And i dont WANT to like him, i just do.. And i dont want to tell him i do because it'll be really awkward seeing as we havent known each that long.
I know if i get closer to him then i'll like him even more. But, i want to get closer to him, if that makes sense.

I just really dont know what to do.
Do i just leave it and see where it goes?

Okay. First I want you to know that I have been in this position before. It was actually with my first love. I was single and he had a girlfriend; lets just use her first initial, B. She was a senior and he was a junior; I was little freshman, you do the math and see who will probably get him. They were pretty happy and always together and he seemed so happy. I liked him a lot but I didn't want to get inbetween them. It would have been selfish. So let me tell you this. Don't ruin anything. You seem like you can handle it. Leave it be and see where everything goes. You might actually get a chance, you never know. Don't think of your needs but others first. He might be happy where he is. Maybe he will realize he likes you and wants to give it a shot so just see where things go. It will take patience but I think you can do it =].

Good Luck, Corbie♪

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My friend, Jayelle (16) is very into drugs and although I have been friends with her for three years, I'm way different than her. I'm not into that and no one can influence me to do so. However, she's ruining her life and she doesn't care and slowly she's trying to drag me with her.

Her parents don't know that she uses drugs and I don't see how. She's always high and she has drugs in her room. They're clueless. I don't feel comftrable being around her anymore and I have talked to her about it but it goes in one ear and out the other so I stoped trying.

She got upset with me because I did not want to hang out with her because of it and I honestly did not feel guilty for it.

Here's the problem. Both Jayelle & I got invited to a college party but I would not go because they're crazy and I did not want anything bad to happen but she still decided to go. She called me at 2 in the morning asking me to come pick her up. I'm also 16 and I don't have a car of my own so there was no way I could leave. I felt really bad because I knew she was in deep trouble. High, drunk and with a bunch of older guys. I freaked out so I called her older sister who is 18. She acted calm and went and picked her up. I got a phone call from Jayelle the next day cursing me out and blaming me for getting grounded. I felt really bad but I honestly don't feel like it's my fault.

Even though I don't want to be friends with her because of the things she does, I still don't want anything bad to happen to her. Her mother found her drugs and basically cursed me out for it because I didn't go with her to the party and "protect" her. I was shocked.. hearing that from an adult! My mom took my side and is proud of me for not following into her footsteps but there is a part of me that feels horrible. What do I do. Thank you so much!!

Okay, what I advise you do is tell her your whole side of the story. If you don't agree with what she does tell her again and make it CLEAR. If you have to drop the friendship because your not comfortable, so be it. Let her know you care though; don't make her think she is alone.

Good Luck,
Corbie-Leigh♀

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I'm 16 and a girl. I live on a ranch. I have three older brothers and my dad who worked on the ranch. My oldest brother doesn't work anymore because he lives in a different town. My middle brother still works and my youngest older brother works on the ranch. Well I don't work on the ranch unless they ask me too and I do whatever they need me too. They don't ask me often, but when they do I do what needs to be done. I usually just stay in the house and do house chores. Well my youngest older brother (Barry) is really rude to me. He always tells me how lazy I am. He says I'm a spoiled brat (which I'm not. I work for a lot of things I have). He has called me a bitch many times. He has hurt me physically in the past and continues to damper my confidence. My parents worship him and anything he says they back him up. It is really starting to take a toll on me. I cry everyday hoping things will get better, but they just get worse. Am I wrong to think this is abuse? What do I need to do?

I don't think you are wrong to think it is abuse. It can be taken in many ways. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. Family should be about love, support and honesty. They just need to understand that you suceed and are responsible. Maybe your brother is just jealous and loves the attention spot light. But he has to learn it wont always be him that is right and the most important. He has a lot of maturing to do and your parents need some parenting skills. They need to listen to everyone and know that not the same person is right all the time. I say just stick through stay strong and don't give up. You are a confident woman and nothing as little as that can bring you down.

ps-learn karate or self-defense haha. might come in handy.

Good Luck
Corbie-Leigh♀

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14/f

At the moment my love life is really confusing me.

At the beginning of this month, me and my then-boyfriend of 3 and a half months, G, split up. I had just had enough of the relationship, and I know it sounds bad, but I'd just got bored of it to be honest. Ever since then he's been telling friends (we have the same friend group) how in love with me he is, and saying that he's falling more and more in love with me all the time. When we were dating we acted more like friends than lovers.

A while ago my best friend D was dating this guy - R. I'd always liked R a little bit, but when they split up (about a month before me and G split up), R told some people he liked me, which made me like him more. Towards the end of my relationship with G, me and R were flirting quite a lot. When me and G split up, R told me he liked me, but we both agreed we couldn't do anything about it, seeing as I'd just split up with G, and R's my best friend's ex.

Somehow, everyone found out, and now G and R pretty much hate each other.

At a recent party, me and R ended up making out and spending the night together, but somehow it didn't feel right. At this same party, one of my friends F (who is always messing people around when it comes to relationships) made a move on G, and rumours about the two of them started going round. It really upset me, and at that point, I knew I couldn't deny that I still have feelings for G.

Recently, R has told people he's in love with me, and he's been saying really intense things to me, I've tried telling him I don't want to be in a relationship, but he doesn't seem to understand.

G has also said that he's still in love with me, and I know nothing's going on between him and F, although she's told me she likes him.

Recently, me and G have been getting on better, and my feelings for him are getting stronger again. But he has said on his myspace and livejournal that he loves me and will never be with me again, so he's going to try and move on and get on with his life. And if he wants to move on and get on with his life, I don't want to get in the way of it by telling him I still have feelings for him. Although one of our friends told me he doesn't want to get over me, but he thinks he has to.

So at the moment, I'm talking to both R and G, and I'm worried that I'm starting to mess them about. I don't want to give them hope, and I don't know which of them I'd rather be with, or if I even want to be in a relationship at all. I think I need some time on my own, but I really miss G, and I do like R, the problem is; they're both obviously a lot more serious about me than I am about them. I'm starting to feel like I'm leading them on =/

I also have a friend, C, who asked me out recently (I said no) and told one of my friends he's in love with me, so I don't want to hurt him by suddenly being in a relationship.

I just want to know what you think and what you think I should do?

Thanks, xxx

Okay well to me it seems as if you DO need a break. You should tell them both you arn't for a relationship right now and you need time to think of what you really want; freedom for a while or love again. It also seems that you have stronger feelings for G. The way you talk about him and still having feelings for him. You even get upset when another friend makes a move on him. I think if you decide to get with anyone you know who it is.

Good Luck,
Corbie-Leigh♀

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I started talking to this boy on AIM one day(about 2 years ago). he is a year older then me (im 13). he had a girlfriend when we started talking but i think i got in the way and they eventually broke up. he lived in a different state then me, but he is my best friend. I love him. I really do. Sometimes you love a person for their looks or how they kiss you. but ive never met him, so i know its honest to god love.a few months ago we stopped talking for about a month in a half, and now we are back to the way it was before. we call each other like 3 times a day and stuff. but over christmas and winter break (now) we have barely said a word to each other. he has no more texts this month and he wont really answer my calls. but everytime he does answer them he tells me he is with a friend or he is busy or something. This boy is really my life, i would call him every mornning be4 we went to school and when i got home from school. and we would be on the phone for hours. we even had phone sex. But now that he wont talk to me, i dont know what to do. my days are going by slow. And i miss him.About a month ago he told me he didnt know why we stopped talking, and that he would never want that to happen again. so why is he being such a jerk now and leaving me hanging alll the time? I cry over him almost everyday =[

THanks! Please help

Honestly what I think is happening is he is ready for a real relationship again. He isn't looking for an over the internet and phone relationship. He is just trying to make reality. He might already have a girlfriend and just doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings; or he doesn't know how you will react. I'd say give it up. I know you love him and it seems like he is your world but over the internet realtions just arn't how life work. Try to find someone within seeing distance. See how things work out. What you should do is if after half a year if you still can't stop thinking about him write us back.

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i broke up with my bf cuz he was cheating. i really want him in my life and to be friends but i know i will regret breaking up with him. he keeps telling me that he loves me and everything but then his actions say differently. he took me off his myspace, before we broke up. what the hell. then he set his profile on private. i basically just need to get over it...what helps mend the broken heart, im a really happy person usually, but i have a problem drinking so i want to find other ways to deal with this. please help

My best advice on this is that you probably wont fully get over it. That is only one suggestion. That is USUALLY only right when they are your first true love; and you have to know that they are. He treats you wrong and you shouldn't deal with it. You need a much better guy in your life. I advise you get a lot of friends to incourage you the positive way instead of the negative. I will put it this way: Drinking is fatal. Even if he did you wrong you have friends and family that do you right. Don't go off drinking just because of a guy when you could find someone who treats you so much better and you have others who still do care about you very much.

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