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i'm dying!!!


Question Posted Friday January 11 2008, 8:17 am

my freshman year i cam across this boy named tommy and i liked ever since junior year we started talking and in the summer he asked me to be his girlfriend so we went out i liked him alot he was my real first boyfriend and i was crazy fro him see i like my rocker guys with long hair and piercings ans he has that :) we even went to family values together and had a good time....school started and it was fine we didnt see each other at all only in themorning when i would get off the buss but only for 5 minutes and then i would just talk to him on the phone or myspace...so on the third day of school he broke up with me on myspace and i was devistated!!!! i couldnt belive it i mean the day before it was all fine!!! so then we broke up and i was sad i dated guys after him but for a very short time i cant get my mind off of him.....so im dating my current boyfriend nick and i liked him but now im loosing my feelings for him but he knows my tommy they live next to each other...and when ever me and nick are together and i see tommy i get pissed and puch nick away i still love tommy and by the way tommy has a girlfriend and apparently he is in love with her one time on myspace he wrote a song and he sent it to me to see if it sounded good and if not if i could fix it up and i did and it hurt he doesnt know i am still in love with him so when ever i see him i get this stmach ache and i just wsh i was with him......what should i do? i want him really bad!!! i need to get him back......

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Dinasour answered Sunday January 13 2008, 3:26 am:
okay listen hunny. i really feel like these people arent giving you some honest advice so im gonna tell you whatsss upp homegirl.

now excuse me cause im a little shitfaced.

you need to get the fuck ova this nigga. he aint worth yo mothafuckingh time and you need to kick him to da curb. unless you in a situation where you settin up a cam corda on yo bed to show yo girls how he sucked the piss out yo pussy, then it really aint worth the motha fucking time. eitha you getting some goooooooood dick or you gettin da fuck ova it and finding a motha fucka who is gonna plow yo ass like a fresh winta snow.

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Corbie answered Friday January 11 2008, 5:36 pm:
Wow, that sounds serious. All I can say for you to do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel. You need to be sure with yourself and know that you can trust him and be comfortable around him. Once you know that you can talk to him. Thing like this can't be held in too long or you will explode with emotion and it might surprise him even more. You never know; maybe he knows you still have something there for him and it wont come as such a surprise. Good luck to you and I hope all goes well.

Corbie

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Disconnected answered Friday January 11 2008, 11:52 am:
Ouch, that sounds really hard for you.
I suggest you talk to Tommy, and find out the reason why he dumped you, that will change the way you see him.

Try not to obsess about him and always think ''I want him back'' or whatever.
Try to make friends with him again..so you can hang out and talk.
This will be the best thing to start you guys off. Be FRIENDS.
Then he will realize that you are a great person and he will be thinking why he dumped you.

Don't act to desperate when talking to him, nor too friendly.
You don't want him to know that you still have feelings for him..not yet anyway .

Hope this helps :)

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laynemayhem answered Thursday January 10 2008, 9:07 pm:
i know exactly how you feel. i really miss my ex, too. but there is nothing wrong with being good friends. :) invite a group of friends to go out to dinner or to the movies or something. or maybe you and nick and tommy and his girl could double date. like i said, there is nothing wrong with being good friends. who knows? you may end up going out again soon. :)) hope it works out!! take care.

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girlwander answered Thursday January 10 2008, 1:23 pm:
that be hard. why don't you tell him you like him? i no it's easier than it sounds... but if you already no he doesn't like you then you should just move on and move your feelings aside. & if you guys are friend, Be JUST friends. it's just a suggestion....

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