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Okay so this is going to be kinda long, just letting you know, so if you don't have any time, don't read this.
Alright so my friend Taylor was 'talking' to this Alec kid, Alec is a Sophomore, and Taylor and I are freshmen but we all went to the same gradeschool. Well I remember getting mad at her for something, so I told Alec he was cute haha, and we started 'talking'. We were talking for about two weeks, he would text me in the mornings sometimes and say cute things, and if he didn't do that then he would right after school was over until one of us fell asleep.
Well a lot of people found out and he got annoyed but he didn't really care. But he stopped liking me because he thought I liked someone else, but I'm pretty sure its because some girl(Erin) told him shit about me. Erin and I got into a fight kinda, but were really close now. (This is all in Novemeber by the way)
Well after that.. Alec and I would talk just as friends usually, but he will tell me I'm pretty everytime we talk usually. Then I got a boyfriend because I was tired of waiting for him, that lasted about three weeks, and I still liked Alec so I dumped George, but thats not the whole reason why.
Then Alec and I were kinda talking again, I told him I still liked him but he told earlier he had liked Anna so I knew he didn't like me but he said your the hottest freshmen I know and I would hook up with you any day but your a good friend, and I was like but you would only be using me.. and he said No I don't use people, so I just went along with it because I knew it wouldn't happen.
Well later that week I asked if he was serious about hooking up and he said that he didn't know, so I was just like whatever, but I saw him that week at Wendy's. He was with a lot of his friends and they all came outside and were waving and shouting my name and then they get into their car, and pull along side my mom's and roll down all the windows, honk, then start shouting and waving.. and then my mom started waving, and Alec was texting me and saying how much he loves my mom? and I was just like okay drunk ass.. because they were all drunk/buzzed haha.
Well then Taylor told me she liked Alec again and I decided I should be a good friend and help her, so I pretended I didn't like him, and help her.. and this kid, Jimmy, that is Alec's friend likes me, and so I thought I might go for him..
So I hung out with Jimmy two weeks ago and I was talking to Alec after and I told him I was bored and he said aren't you with jimmy? and I said no I was earlier why? and he told me that someone told him and he didn't believe it and I asked why and he got all mad at me for it and started giving me attitude, and we haven't really talked that much since.
But on Thursday I texted him and we were getting along, and I asked if he was going to this game Friday and he said no I don't want to waste my money because they will lose.. So I'm at the game, and then all the sudden he walks in and I was with Erin.. and she said that he told her he would say hi.. so she said something to him and he's like I didn't see you.. but that is his lame ass excuse for everything because he told me that once when I was like a row behind him at Church and I know he saw me haha.
But I was talking to him Friday night and he was sticking up for me about something, but when he would text me, he wouldn't text Erin back, and when he would text Erin, he wouldn't text me back. Later on he told Erin that his grandma was in the hospital and stuff.. so I know he's been really busy with that and baseball..
I texted him earlier today but he never answered, and I wasn't going to text him until he texts me.. But I don't really know.. What would you do if you were me? Do you think I have a chance? Do you think he still likes me?
PS.. If you need more details I will be more then happy to tell you because I shortened this mass and didn't put in anything.
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Okay hun, listen. This guy is a waste of time. I havn't had that exact problem but I have had a guy who was just as rediculous. It seems so hard to let them go but it's the best for you. Stay friends. Don't txt him. If he wants to talk to you he will. Still hang out with him at like school or wherever. Friends are essential but in dating terms forget it. He is just playing with your mind and pulling your strings. He likes girls attention. I used to be that way with guys and it's not right. Give up lol.
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