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This boy, its so freakin complicated, its long but i need he
I started talking to this boy on AIM one day(about 2 years ago). he is a year older then me (im 13). he had a girlfriend when we started talking but i think i got in the way and they eventually broke up. he lived in a different state then me, but he is my best friend. I love him. I really do. Sometimes you love a person for their looks or how they kiss you. but ive never met him, so i know its honest to god love.a few months ago we stopped talking for about a month in a half, and now we are back to the way it was before. we call each other like 3 times a day and stuff. but over christmas and winter break (now) we have barely said a word to each other. he has no more texts this month and he wont really answer my calls. but everytime he does answer them he tells me he is with a friend or he is busy or something. This boy is really my life, i would call him every mornning be4 we went to school and when i got home from school. and we would be on the phone for hours. we even had phone sex. But now that he wont talk to me, i dont know what to do. my days are going by slow. And i miss him.About a month ago he told me he didnt know why we stopped talking, and that he would never want that to happen again. so why is he being such a jerk now and leaving me hanging alll the time? I cry over him almost everyday =[
THanks! Please help
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Honestly what I think is happening is he is ready for a real relationship again. He isn't looking for an over the internet and phone relationship. He is just trying to make reality. He might already have a girlfriend and just doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings; or he doesn't know how you will react. I'd say give it up. I know you love him and it seems like he is your world but over the internet realtions just arn't how life work. Try to find someone within seeing distance. See how things work out. What you should do is if after half a year if you still can't stop thinking about him write us back.
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Your only 13! I can see how you think you might think your in love, but he could just be playing you. By that, I mean that he could just be telling you what you wanna hear. Your 13, and having phone sex? I'm sorry but i think thats a little ridiculous. He might just be doing this, because he's lost his feelings for you. Ever thought about that? Sometimes guys don't know how to tell a girl that they don't like her any more, so they just ignore her. However, that might not be the case here. He might just always really be busy, or maybe he thinks your a little too obsessed with him, so he thought that maybe if he backed off a bit, so would you. Just give him some time. A couple days would work, then call him once. Even if he has a friend over, tell him whats on your mind. Don't let him pick what time its good to talk about your relationship. Especially if you've been trying to reach him for such a long time. But if you guys do meet anytime soon, please don't think about acutal sex. You have no idea some of the damage it can cause. Hope I helped! Don't Forget to rate!
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I partially agree with the previous answer. You don't really know who he is, or if he was just talking to you for perverted reasons.
Anyways, you'll get over him. It sounds like he's ignoring you, which isn't very nice, but none-the-less, he's moving on. I advise you do the same. You'd be better off finding some guy at school (assuming you're not home-schooled), that you think is cute, nice, etc. instead of chasing after some guy you don't know.
I hope you make a good decision!
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do you honesty love him because he could be lieing to you and he might be a pervert
tomtom
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