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how to get over it
i broke up with my bf cuz he was cheating. i really want him in my life and to be friends but i know i will regret breaking up with him. he keeps telling me that he loves me and everything but then his actions say differently. he took me off his myspace, before we broke up. what the hell. then he set his profile on private. i basically just need to get over it...what helps mend the broken heart, im a really happy person usually, but i have a problem drinking so i want to find other ways to deal with this. please help
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Dude, that so sucks, I'm really sorry. I mean, just take a deep breath first and think, everyday a guy breaks a girl's heart and they're thinking of the same thing you are. But then everyday theres always a girl who thought of a way to get over it. And, don't use drinking to solve problems unless you want to either end up in rehab for a while or have more guy problems and health problems, so please don't. Your smart I know it. So anyway, here are some ways.
1. Go out with friends, and party, but not to hard, and look for a new guy.
2. Every time you have the need to drink, drink something like orange juice or something, my friends tell me it works but I'm not 100% but I'm still putting it on the list.
3.If you have a lot of guy friends, that's really good, hangout with them and maybe you'll hook one.
4. If you don't have a lot of guy friends, be really fun and flirty.
5. If you want your boyfriend to be in your life, then treat him like a regular half friend half aquantence.
6. Don't focus everything on him, just think, when your older, would you really want someone who cheated on you before? Don't get back with him! It'll make matters worse.
7.Some people dance and exercise a lot of stress away, and one of my friends says Yoga helps a lot. Try it?
8. Also listen to a lot of different music and memorize different varities of songs also, not only will it help in any way you want, but so mnay guys love a girl who knows about music.
9.Straight up tell your ex that you just want to be friends, and be cool with him, and its cool if he still loves you but I mean, why love or like someone, who likes and loves another person? If you want to be the only girl in a guy's life, then that's it.
10. Think of your past relationships, the good ones, and how you got those guys, every girl knows at least one way of flirting with a specific type of man, trust me.
I really hope something helped here!
Good luck. :]
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My best advice on this is that you probably wont fully get over it. That is only one suggestion. That is USUALLY only right when they are your first true love; and you have to know that they are. He treats you wrong and you shouldn't deal with it. You need a much better guy in your life. I advise you get a lot of friends to incourage you the positive way instead of the negative. I will put it this way: Drinking is fatal. Even if he did you wrong you have friends and family that do you right. Don't go off drinking just because of a guy when you could find someone who treats you so much better and you have others who still do care about you very much.
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think about things that are good about your life WITHOUT this guy. he isn't your life. you have family and friends. as for the drinking, ask a friend to tell you when to stop or at least plan to drive you home if you go out
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My best advice to you would be hang out with friends. Unless you are a social drinker and would think that would cause a problem. Go buy yourself a new outfit, go get dressed up and make yourself beautiful. For every guy you've dated that's an asshole just remember there's another guy that is willing to take his place and make you happy. Also if the next guy you date doesn't except you for you, then you don't need 'em!
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