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Call Me Cee :)i love to help people, and hope that my advice can go along way.
and im open, and honest, so everything might not be what you like to hear, but good advice isnt always plesant.
so dont be shy, ask me anything, and i will do my utmost best to help :)
C*
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Thank you very much for being out there just waiting to selflessly give advice :)
Here's my problem:
My best friend has a new boyfriend and she is spending 24/7 with him (almost literally, this is college and people can do that easily)!
He is a really great guy: he is taking things slow physically, he does not seem like the jealous type (I am a guy, not a girl, so this is important) ect... However, I rarely see her anymore (as opposed to spending probably half our free time together before this guy came along). I have lots of other great friends, I date a lot of girls, and I have a great social life, but I really miss my best friend.
I have talked with her about it, hinting how hurt I am, but she just makes excuses, says that eventually (months down the road!) things will tone down a little (but still not get anywhere near normal!!) ect... If I were a little younger, I would just wait this out for a few weeks, but we are getting to the age (19) where these things can begin to last a LONG time. I feel like once its over, I can let her know, not only how bad for romantic relationships this sort of thing can be, but how much it hurt me as a friend. I trust that after that, she won't do it again in her next relationship. However, it seems like it could possibly be months or even years and until the relationship is over, I doubt I can make her see the light before then. What do I do?
-Hurt and Confused
PS if you think what she is doing is ok (I think its very wrong on two levels: hurting your friends AND unhealthy relationship) it is interesting to note that HE is still spending HOURS EVERY DAY with his friends, she just tags along
PPS I'm not close to my family, and I don't value significant others much (I enjoy the time with them, but I know it doesn't last). Therefore, needless to say, friends are far more important to me than they are to most people. Since this girl is (was?) my best friend, it would be difficult to overstate how important this is to me and how much it hurts.
Well, Since i Am a girl I can completely See her position. I have been with my boyfreind for Three Years, and it was actually the opposite i Did not spend much time with him in the begining then/now i spend almost every day with him, but when i realized my BEST friends werent calling me or wanting to hang out anymore, i became very hurt myself, and decided that i haveo have time for them. So, I always invited them and took time away from my boyfreind for them because i agree being with someone 24/7 is unhealthy, and will eventually ruin thier relationship ( in my oppinion) And it is wrong she is completely seeming like she is cutting you out of her life. Okay, first my advice is to you. try not to think relationships are all....short. and dont last. because tht is not true i am sure you will find someone that you truly love and truly loves you. I agree frineds are more important. SO i think that you need to talk to her again and tell her that spending that much time with her boyfreind is going to eventually effect thier relationship, she is going to get bored, and miss spending time with her freinds, and tell her that you are her bestfriend, just be stright forward, and you are very hurt, and miss her very much. (dont let her think that your trying to sabotage her relationship, girls can be stupid) that you just want SOME time with her. i mean your her bestfreind, why doesnt she invited her boyfreind to come hang out wiht YOU and HER other friends, i would suggest that to her as well. Just let her know how you feel, and that you just want some of her time, and its not fair, but no matter what your there for her and support her, because then maybe she will see you truly are always going to be there for her, and she wont take you for granted. and she betterrr not ditch you for her boyfreind, because if she does then she is not it i am sorry to say, but i know down the road she willl be begging for your freindship back
SO this message was LONG but mostly be straight forward and honest with her, let her know how you feel about her unhealthy relationship and ATTATCHMENT to her boyfreind, and how you miss her, and want just some of her time!
LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES :D
..send me a privattte messagee sometimee about it
.. CeCee :D
ah okay. my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, it'll be 10 months by valentines day. but shes in college so we have a long distance relationship.
we wont be together on valentines day but i still want to do something sweet for her, whether i mail it or whatever.
any ideas?!
Maybe some type of video callaborated with her favorite music, pictures, and you!!
and send her flowers def.
and like the other girl said
if she likes poems do that too
but im sure since it is a long distance relationship she would love to see you..sooo i like the video idea ..and just use your own creativity to figure out what to put in the video. !
let me know how it goes
CECEE
email --> rebelbabie696@hotmail.com
Hello there,
ok so heres the deal, im 18/f five feet three inches and 135 pounds.
I carry most of my weight in the mid section and i was hopping to lose a few inches around there. I live on residence and have access to a fully equiped gym.
The problem is i have no clue what to do. I always end up doing the same thing. 20 min on the bike and 20 min on the olyptical.
What are some other things i can do? For how long? How many times a week?
* i dont want to become muscular or anything just a lil slimmer. *
Thanks!
well your just doing the bike and olyptical, which is mostly cardio, i mean somewhat your legs. but your not getting and exercise in your stomach.. which you say is where most of the weight is. i take boxing and ... we usually do 35 sit ups and 35 crunches at the end of each workout. that is not including ..working out .. i would suggest at the gym. to run on the treadmill.. instead of the bike for like 10 minutes, or fifteen, then start using more of the equipment, most gyms have specific equipment for your midsection. and there is no harm in working out your arms a little bit to lose weight
and working out three times a week is PLENTYY
just for an hour
soo myyy opinon
stretch
10-15 minutes on the bike
use a machine to work out your legs
and arms for 20 minutes (10 minutes for legs, 10 for arms)
use a machine to work out your midsection for 20 minutes
then end with more situps and/or crunches
...and some gyms have specific classes to attend
i would look into those
let me know how it goes
CeCee email --> rebelbabie696@hotmail.com
I got highlights in my hair about three months ago. Now, I want my hair all one color and am opting for a medium brown color. Would my highlights turn a funky orange colors or something if I put box dye over them to make my hair a uniform color? Thanks!
..there is a GREAT chance that it will , even if its not right when you dye your hair, but once it starts to lighten and fade there is a great chance ... i would say go professional or atleast talk to someone who knows alot about it
...but dont strip your hair either
that is realy realy bad for it
...talk to a professional or somone very experienced in hair
hope it helps
CeCee
This is gonna be long...I'm just looking for opinions here, this is obviously something I need to figure out for myself. But, I need some outsiders to look at this situation for me. I'm too stuck in the middle to step out. I'm 21, and a girl.
Guy #1 - Jeremy. He's 23.
Jeremy and I have almost three and a half years of history together. Unfortunately the history isn't all positive. He was emotionally abusive for the entirety of our "official" relationship, and caused me some major issues (depression, anorexia). We dated for awhile in '05-'06, but broke up because he was having depression issues and couldn't handle our relationship on top of all that...but we never really broke up. We stayed friends with benefits for two years after that. We both felt that we had no time for a real relationship, and it wasn't really one until recently. At some point I realized he wasn't treating me well enough, so I wrote him a goodbye letter and told him I never wanted to see him again. He gave me back my key, and left. A week later, he called me and begged me for another chance at friendship, and after much hesitating, I agreed. He was like a completely different person. It seemed that he'd had some sort of epiphany while I was gone, and changed for the better. He started complimenting me, being really sweet, and just...yeah.
That would've been fine, except that Jeremy's family hates me. They threatened to cut him off financially if they ever saw me again at one point. He's had some major issues, including ankle surgery, a...sexual problem (blocked vein, or something), and because he's been couch-ridden and all that, we haven't been physically very close lately, and I've been hanging out with other people. The thing is, recently, Jeremy has become the sweetest man I've ever met. The other night, he came over and brought my favorite wine with two pounds of strawberries. We melted dark chocolate chips I had and dipped strawberries in chocolate all night, and cuddled. It was, like, perfect. He's doing and saying all these things now I used to dream about him doing, including playing with my hair like he never used to.
Guy #2 - Erik. He's 27.
I work as a barista in a coffee shop. Erik's one of the regulars. We started really hanging out one night after I'd come home from Jeremy's house and gone straight to the coffee shop, upset after having been kicked out by his parents. Erik asked why I looked so upset, so I bitched to him At some point, I said, jokingly, "I need a drink." He said, "well I can't help you with Jeremy's parents, but I can definitely help you with that." So that weekend we went to the bar and he bought me a drink. We talked, and connected, and he surprised me a lot. My first impression of him was quite wrong, as he came off as kind of a computer geek and nothing else...but he's really intelligent, strong, cute, likes to have fun, likes to laugh...He's also an amazing kisser. When I was little, I used to write little romance-type-stories, and the guys always used to tangle their fingers in the girl's hair when they kissed, and Erik does that exactly the way I envisioned it. He's like, freakishly perfect for me, aside from being a little out of shape...but guys I date always wind up at the gym with me anyway. Only problem I seem to be having is that he's shaping up to be quite possessive. Erik has been in California for a week. I hung out with Jeremy once while he was gone, AT my coffeeshop. Erik's friends called him and told him I was hanging out with Jeremy. When I called him later, I had nothing to hide, and I was about to tell him. But he was being so cold, I finally asked what his deal was, and then he said "I was informed that you were hanging out with Jeremy." I feel like his friends are stalking me, and it's a little creepy. Then again, I've never dated a guy who didn't become possessive and jealous if they didn't start out that way. Yes, I've already discussed this with him, but it's still a factor...it's drama I don't want or need. I'm in my last semester of my undergrad, and the last thing I need is to be distracted from my schooling.
Anyway, Erik's family appears to like me. Erik and I think alike. We're both Scorpios (not that I put much stock in that...Jeremy's Cancer.)...Erik has a job, has his life together, and doesn't mind whipping out the credit card every so often. He lives with his parents, but he's looking for his own place.
Jeremy has no income, still lives with his family...but even with all the crap going on in his life, he's taken me out to lunch, brought me strawberries, brought me chocolates...he's trying really hard to do everything he can for me...but I can't help wondering if he's not doing it because he thought he was losing me, and he'll just snap back to taking me for granted as soon as I commit.
Both guys know about each other. This is all out in the open. I took my time telling Jeremy about Erik, but when I finally did, after agreeing to not contact each other for a week, he said, "I'll be damned if I let Erik prance in with his contact lenses and web design and take you from me." Which, I hate to admit, is kind of romantic, in a way...Jeremy is a guy who doesn't apologize, doesn't chase girls, and doesn't beg, but he's done all of that recently for me.
The idea that the bad-boy is trying to be a good-guy to keep me close to him, is willing to overcome his commitment phobia and commit to me, has even threatened to leave his parents' house and never speak to them again if they didn't back off about me, and has basically turned into prince charming, is pretty enticing.
But I also feel that I can't ignore the fact that I have a thing for Erik...can I? I mean if my relationship with Jeremy were what it was supposed to be, that wouldn't have happened, would it? I'd like to just kind of see them both and figure out who I really want, but they both gave me the "me or him" ultimatum, so I have to make a decision quickly.
I admit, I'm a little afraid that going back to Jeremy will turn into what it was before. I'm afraid to lose him, and I almost feel that if we did get back together, it would be for good. I've had dreams about marrying him...
I'm also a little afraid that Erik will turn out to be some horrible jealous, possessive man, and that I'll be in a worse hell than I was before.
At least Jeremy can back off. He's willing to give me a week apart, knowing full well that I could be hanging out with Erik, and trusting that I'll make the right decision...but our history has been bad - he hasn't treated me right in the past, I've tried to kick him out, his family gives me headaches, and I just...argh.
I don't know who to pick, which way to turn, or how to go about picking.
Help me...
from the story, it seems like jeremy really wants to change for you, and keep you in his life, and he is even willing to give you your space and stuff (which is odd for a guy to do, knowing you will be with another guy) that shows alot of trust and effort, BUT your past with him does seem very bad, and if it were ever to be like that again . worse things could happen. emotional depression is very unhealthy and dangerous, and i dont even know you and would never hope that that would happen again. This erik guy, seems to just trying to get to know you at the time, i dont see any real commitment from him yet, but that could be because it is so early with him, and there isnt realy much you can know about the future with either of them because .... you still talking to both, and there true personality probably wont come out until you choose one of them. i would def. go with your heart. and if it doesnt work out, you still have the rest of your life ahead of you. in my opinion jeremy seems like he is trying to change, but alot of times. they try because they love you,but it never really happens because it is THEM and they always end up acting the same way, and the family issue is difficult, but they should not come between love. and with erik. idk . not much information on him, but possesive is BAD. you will be very unhappy
i guess what im saying is follow your heart dont let jeremy hurt you, if he even shows a hint of his old self LEAVE. and GET OUT of the relationship.. if you go with erik and it isnt going where you wish get out of that too
i hope it works out with one of them!! and you are both happy
but if not --> manyyy guys out there... theres one thats perfect for you!
let me know how it goes
CeCee
i asked you about the sex question but its hard for him to go a second time around.. he just cant like.. get hard... Does it just need a bit of foreplay? I hope this doesn't continue to be a problem
thats exactly how i felt, im lke Kay wel lets do it again - but he wouldnt get hard . guys need a bit of "down time" .. buttt i know if you justt keep tryna turn him on and ya foreplay def. it should work. he has to be into it too tthhoughh, they just need a little time to recover unfortunatelyy. :( andddd i hope it dont either beCus ...sex isss kinda important ..:) Buttt you could always ask him too like what he likes , and what turns him on the most! and what you could doooo ..AND you dont always have to do it RIGHT AFTER , ik me and my man when we first started havvinnn sex. we would do it ALOt but. throughout the dayy.. :)
CeCee
I don't know if anyone in particular is good with "sex" questions but.. i have a slight problem in that department. I've been with my boy for 4 years now but only have been having sex for 1.5 yrs of it. The problem is.. he doesn't last long at all, but he used too. Any tips as what to do? We intend on getting married but I can't if sex just isn't fun. Is that low to say?!.. Anyhow, I hope you can give some kind of advice. Thanks.
..uhhhh ya i have the SAME PROBLEM! . but only been wit my mannn for 3 years.
but what i suggest iss do it differently, try new things, be crazy ya know lol, and if its too short, take a break and do it again, bC the second time ALWAYS lasts longgerr..
usually when you do it alot, the guy has a better tolerance so they last longer
idk, have you been not doin it as much?
tryy to dooo more things...:D
hope i helped
CeCE
I have been going out with this kid for about 5 months. I'd like to have sex with him and so does he. However he's 21 and i'm 17. He's had about 5-6 partners in the past and i'm a virgin. We've tried having sex a few times but it honestly hurts (lmao) so I just tell him to stop. How can I just get over the fact that it's gonna hurt? Any tips?
honestly, there is no wayyy to get over it haha
its going to hurt no matter what!
BUT ..thats only for the first few times
Oh, and i see that your a virgin and he is 21! .
im also 17....and i just want to say MAKE SURE HE IS THE ONE AND HE IS NOT GOING TO HURT YOU! but i mean if you feel ready..your ready :D
Annnyway, justt some tips
BE COMFORTABLE
do it somewhere you can RELAXX
anddd..justtt squeeze a pillow haha
not to get into details, but oncee its in , and you guys get into it, and its more...uh wet. hahait wont be AS BAD, butttt it will most likely hurt the next day also
BUTTTTTT its worth it after a while haha
hope i helped
CeCee
I am 17 years old and I'm seriously considering suicide. I've already been through some tough times with my ex-girlfriend, we had so many things planned out for the future and she left me for her ex. I found another girl I like but she's been playing games with me and I'm just sick of everything. Part of the reason I want to do this is because I get jealous very easily, so when I see her flirting with someone else it really upsets me. Now I'm only a Junior in high school, but I've been through alot of adult situations. I just want to know the quickest, easiest way to do it. I would appreciate advice on how to handle the situation properly though if anyone has it, thank you.
heyyyy
honestlyyy your just havingg hard times.
suicide is seriously NOT an option
trust me you WANT to live
i know things are hard but, people have rough times all throughout thier life, an they
get over it and they are stronger
it seems to me you should just, stop trying to find a girl for a while, so you can find yourself, and build up your self esteem, and find a girl that wont play you like that
i have been through shitty boys, and three of my freinds passed away last year....its hard, and it hurts, but dying is cowardly
...honestly, im open to talk ANYTIME
...i think i could help you
.reply. for my email?
just please just find someone to talk to
what does it mean to go down on a girl? How old do you think you should be to have sex? what does it mean for a girl to masterpate (spelling?). How do you know if you already pop your cherry? Do guys get mad if you bleed on them when you are having sex? thanks
to go down on a girl.. is for a guy to eat them out- which means..licking and what not down there, and your age, is mostly a feeling if you FEEL ready, but i would suggest 16 THE YOUNGEST! although that is not what many people to lol, AND it is MASTERBATE, and that means to please yourself. for a girl -- "playing" or fingering themselves.and that sort... and alot of people dont haev to have sex to pop thier cherry, but some people know because it hurts, or bleeds, but some people dont know, i dont know when mine was popped? and i have been in the situation of bleeding on my bf when having sex, but we have been together and love eachother so, he was grossed out and we stopped btu wasnt mad, he understood ANDD i know some guys DO NOT CARE but if you know you have your period TELL THEM, and see what they say, but if it is an accident and:)you did not know, and they are mad FUCK THEM l because you did not know! :)
hope i helped. lemme know ifyou needm ore
CeCee
heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up & he seemed to be pretty into me.. and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ?
to be honest, im not so sure he is into you, he just wanted to get in your pants, so he played like he was sweet, and you could tell, and guess what you gave him what he wanted, and i mean if you wanted to and liked it , lol so be it, but im thinkin he is not interested and just wanted to hook up, best advice?..be freinds for a while see where that takes you, get to know him omre, dont try and get feelings for him, seems like you will be hurt
hope i helped
CeCee
A boy named Hosea asked me to be his girlfriend. I don't like him, but to be nice I said O.K., I sent him a very harsh letter by e-mail, and now I feel guilty, Should I feel guilty? and Everybody says I am beautiful, but sometimes I don't seem to think so, sometimes I just think I'm fat but some people say I am the right size, a few say I am fatHow do I build my self confidence? My mom always blames things on me, if she's wrong she does'nt want to admit it.
Okay, you should not have said O.K but i have been there and did the same thing BUT you were wrong to send a HARSH and MEAN email, i did that, i regret being so mean to someone who just liked me and was being nice to me, its not THIER fault that they like you, you should be flattered, and nice, and just say your sweet, but i just want to be freinds, i dont have feelings for you. i think that you should talk to this guy and be nice and try and patch things up because his feelings could REALY be hurt! and tahts NOt a good feeling to be hurt!...SO people say your beutiful people say yoru fat. W/E people say EVERYTHING when they are jelouse or envious who knows? but honestly your opinion matters most, and your confidence! so ify ou feel fat. just EAT healthy and work out. no crash diets or anthing like that though. but not saying you are fat, but eating healthy and exercise is GOOD FOR ALL SIZES and will make you feel VERY good and ENERGIZED ..!that will definaitly build up your self confidence, ad with your mom, ALL MOMS ARE LIKE THAt . they dont like to admit they are wrong but try and sit her down and talk to her! hopfully she will be understanding because i know she loves you,
hope i helped, lemme know
CeCEe
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 months now and I'm ready to take it another step further. She acts kinda like she would have sex... but I'm not sure. When were making out we get on eachother and she lets me take off her pants and stuff, but we never go any further. How do I ask her if she wants to have sex without making her making her mad? I'm afraid theres a possibility she will say no and get mad.
Thanks in Advance.
i know that when me and my boyfriend first got together and would make out and be all over eachother, we never went further either because we werent sure if the other person did or we were to scared, BUT once we talked about it, over the phone or even computer, we knew what we wanted, and i can tell that since you seem vvery nice and considering of your girlfreinds feelings, that if you just kind of came out and asked her what she is comforatble doing, because 2 months isnt THAT long, but you can only know if you ask and if your sweet and dont make it seem like you just wanna have sex, BUT you have to respcet her decision If she wants to wait! because from experience SEX can change ALOT, attatchment, doing it ALOT. lol. but if you need any further help let me know!. but just takl about it, be comforatble talking about it :)
hope i helped!
*ceCee
ever since 10th grade i have had a discharge and everytime i have gone to the doctor they tell me that it is natural.However, i lost my virginity in 12th grade and i've still continue to have a clear/white dischage.now i'm about to be 20 and recently i discovered a pimple on my vagina with white stuff in it does that mean something is wrong or not. because i shave but not too often because i don't like the feeling of hair growing back but i waited 3 days to see if it would go away and it did is that a good sign?
the discharge is normal, because you exlained it is clear/white but usually if its anything BUT that, it is NOT normal! but, you said it appeared when you shaved?, i think that it may just be irritation or an ingrown hair, considering it went away after a few days, but im not a doctor, thats just what it seems to me, but if it hurts, or anything worse or your very worried , see a doctor, you ahve nothing to lose or be embaressed about. :)
hope i helped!
CeCee
I want to try some exercise videos but I don't know what to get since theres so many.....I just want one or a few that have cardio in them and work most of the muscles. Any opinions??
just somthing i would say, is get something upbeat and . alot of moving! because some tapes that are slow, and boring, oh my good ness , make you want to sit down and eat :) so , im not sure if your into hiphop, or pop, but they have workout videos, that are "dances" and you get a realy good workout from doing so, its ilke dancing, and working out at once.
hope i made your decision a bit easier!
its is summer and I going to be wearing a bathing suit....I have inner thigh fat and I have back fat and I have fat by my armpits ....is there any excercises I could do to lose that>>>thanks
well i do not know alot about it, but . cario work, burns fat .. so i think runnning, and sweating would def. help, and for your legs, squats could help that or at a gym thier is certain machines for that if you considered getting a membership at a gym, thier are machines made just for those reasns, but most fat, has to be burned, so just working out getting your heart pumping, and sweating i always good, and obviously eating healthy will give you more energy to do so. hope i helped
my boyfriend cheated on me. its been years and we have worked past it but there is still a problem. he slept with his best friend's best friend so of course i am still forced to see her all the time. this girl thinks that she did nothing wrong and wants to be friends. when i told her know they all got pissy. now i thought that i was good friends with my boyfriends best friend but now i hear that they dont like me and think that i overreacted with the whole situation. when i found out that he slept with that whore i didnt even break up with him, so i dont know how i could have overreacted.
i just want to know how to deal with being around these horrible people who talked crap about me behind my back, sleep with girls boyfriends, and still think that they are good people?
i would have to say i agree with the other person, but okay so you gave him a chacne, and he should APPRECiATE THAt and maybe learn to compromise and try and do things to make you happy even if he thinks you overreacted which is the DUMBEST THINg i have ever heard, the he shoudl still respect your feelings, if he real likes you. i must say if he wont chnge things abuot her . to make you feel good.. then he is not . so special, and im sure u can do ten times better
How do I unlink a screen name?
you sign in on your buddy list, and go to EDIT . then click SETTINGS, at the bottem, then go to Buddy list, and MANAGE LINKED SCREEN NAMES, then you unlink the screen name yoou want, and then sign off, and sign back on, and it should be unlinked
hope i helped
CEECEE
This is more of a rant than a question but whatever, I need your opinions anyway.
Do any of you ever get tired of being the "always-there friend"? I don't mean clingy. Like, you're always there for your friends-- whenever they have a problem, need someone to talk to, to hang out with, whatever, you're always there for them. And I'm fine with that. But whenever I make a really good friend, they find a better one, more fun, more something, whatever, and hang out with them, until the new best friend either makes a new best friend themself or can't make plans on a weekend, THEN I'm called. Usually they get tired of the new friend in a few months, maybe a little longer, and come back to me, realizing eventually that I'm a better friend. But its still hard, you know? Like, am I second-rate or something?
I guess its kind of a compliment because I'm like family to them, I'll always be there, and they can say anything or do anything (well, mostly, lol, I'm thinking brother-sister fights) and I'll still love them. But still... I'm a human too, I'm not just here for your convenience.
This happens / happened with ALL my close friends. All of them.
Anyone else want to rant with me about how this happens to them... or if anyone wants to give me some advice on how to regain my status as first-rate human I'd appreciate it. :]
Wow, thats how it is with me too! and i JUST decided to do somthing abuot it , when people decide to just use me when they are having a bad day, But arent there for Me, or ditcch me , but then still want to hang outt when its convenient for them HA, well they got the bitch side of me :) told em how i feel, and they denyed it, well then you arent my freind, never reay were, and they are dropped! trust me they are not even worth it! .. hm maybe al us used people should become friends lol, atleast we know we would be there for eachother WELL
if you ever wanna rant !.
Email me Rebelbabie696@hotmail.com
& that emails i gay i know, but i was like 12 lol and still have not made a new one
CeeCee*
Well in november or early dec. my friend pierced my cartilage for me.The stupid part is it was with a sterilized saftey pin..scince I knew it was a bad thing to peirce it with i cleaned it everyday. it seemed to be healed well but in early feb. a bubble came up. I tried poping it and cleaning it but nothing works.=[
i have had a bubble on my ear, on my nose and my ear is actualy scarred, with scar tissue because i was young when it happened, on my nose though it went away when i took the nosee ring out and let it closed and didnt touch it or irritate it, this bump that i had was called a keloid, they have certain things to clean it with to help it, and it is NOT seriouse
BUTT , it may not be a keloid sicne, i dont have a visual of the "bubble" i think you should definaitly see a doctor, or professional! but best bet, take out the piercing, continute to clean it BUT dont touch it with your hands, becaues hands have alot of germs, and do that until you see the doctor!