Question Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 11:29 pm
I have been going out with this kid for about 5 months. I'd like to have sex with him and so does he. However he's 21 and i'm 17. He's had about 5-6 partners in the past and i'm a virgin. We've tried having sex a few times but it honestly hurts (lmao) so I just tell him to stop. How can I just get over the fact that it's gonna hurt? Any tips?
Ceeee answered Saturday November 22 2008, 5:51 pm: honestly, there is no wayyy to get over it haha
its going to hurt no matter what!
BUT ..thats only for the first few times
Oh, and i see that your a virgin and he is 21! .
im also 17....and i just want to say MAKE SURE HE IS THE ONE AND HE IS NOT GOING TO HURT YOU! but i mean if you feel ready..your ready :D
Annnyway, justt some tips
BE COMFORTABLE
do it somewhere you can RELAXX
anddd..justtt squeeze a pillow haha
not to get into details, but oncee its in , and you guys get into it, and its more...uh wet. hahait wont be AS BAD, butttt it will most likely hurt the next day also
BUTTTTTT its worth it after a while haha
hope i helped
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