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Is it possible for a guy to actually love you in highschool? Even when you are having sex?
Or do they ALWAYS just use you?
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not all guys use you why do lots of people always think that?
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One, don't have sex with a guy you're not sure of. Two, don't have sex with guys, wait till they become men. Three if you're having sex with a guy you're not sure of if he's using you or not, tell him you're afraid you might get pregnant, so you're not going to have sex with him any more, if he drops you, he was using you. Four, don't tell him this when you're in the middle of having sex, (sorry, small joke).
Very few guys at that age really know what love is, I really didn't. I wasn't out to get laid either, I just wanted to be accepted by someone. Guys are not good for that, if you're another guy. At that age they're all busy trying to impress everyone. I have talked several times about the fact that women want to be everything to one person, where men want to be everything to everybody. Problem is and some come to realize it sooner then others but, men can't be everything to other men. We are all trying very hard to accomplish this, but in the end, it's futile. Some guys learn that, some don't.
In general it is safest to think that all guys want to get into your pants, just don't let them and see who still hangs around, love always hangs around.
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Holy moley thats a pretty dim view you have of us. Of course its possible. Also I would like to think that the majority of guys would not be using you. Of course there will always be some, but that in no way means that all of them do (coincidentally though, the ones that are users tend also to be the ones the girls are most interested in... kind of ironic actually).
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