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I don't know if anyone in particular is good with "sex" questions but.. i have a slight problem in that department. I've been with my boy for 4 years now but only have been having sex for 1.5 yrs of it. The problem is.. he doesn't last long at all, but he used too. Any tips as what to do? We intend on getting married but I can't if sex just isn't fun. Is that low to say?!.. Anyhow, I hope you can give some kind of advice. Thanks.
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Ok first of all, just becuase sex isn't getting fun doesn't mean that you shouldn't marry him. I mean sex isn't every thing. Maybe it isn't fun because yall done it so much, or it's getting short time becuase doing it so much gets painful your start getting soar. Maybe you should supprise him one day and if it's getting short time make it longer and throw in other things like blow jobs, and hand jobs, eating out, fingering, i mean it'll only get as short time as you make it. :)
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..uhhhh ya i have the SAME PROBLEM! . but only been wit my mannn for 3 years.
but what i suggest iss do it differently, try new things, be crazy ya know lol, and if its too short, take a break and do it again, bC the second time ALWAYS lasts longgerr..
usually when you do it alot, the guy has a better tolerance so they last longer
idk, have you been not doin it as much?
tryy to dooo more things...:D
hope i helped
CeCE
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if you're planning on staying with someone for the rest of your life they should be a good fuck. part of marriage is sex and there is nothing wrong with you wanting it to be enjoyable for you. I've heard that boys can control when they go, like he can just try to last longer and he will but he's being selfish. guys who I know drag out the process to make it more enjoyable for their girl, that's what your boy NEEDS to do. obviously if you're considering marrying him you guys are really close. you should be able to talk to him about anything, even this. and once he starts being better about going longer there are a million things you guys can do to make sex more exciting! I'm a cosmo reader and they have crazy new sex positions/tips like every month. either buy it or I can recite some of their tips to you if you'd like. best of luck girl!
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Not a problem, and no your not "low" for saying that. Sex IS an important part of any relationship, as long as you know that it's NOT the only important thing. Have you tried less sensitive condoms? If not this may be a great option for you guys. I believe they are called desensitizing or long lasting condoms. I know one for a fact you can get at least one of these type of condoms in whats called a "Pleasure pack". They come in a black box that contains 4 different kinds of condoms, including: flavored, desensitizing, ultra thin, and ribbed. I would really give the desensitizing ones a try before you consider trashing the relationship. another option is to have a lot of sex. If you guys have slowed down lately that can cause him to be overly sensitive when you do have sex. So you can also try giving it up a lot more often. After you try both of these if there is still a problem have your man see his doctor it could be a sign of a health problem that needs attention. If you really love your guy, try to stick out this problem with him until the solution is found. After all with a little tongue action on his part he can still give you pleasure even if he can't last too long. Please try my suggestions,then a doctor before calling it quits k?
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ohhhh noo :( this is not fun for you. to tell you the truth, men want it bad, they want it now and they burn out fast. guys have a wider range of things to think about and things that can turn them on such as face, body, voice, and smell. if you guys do foreplay beforehand, you might want to stop doing that from now on. i mean, he is already excited when you do that so when it's actually have time to have sex, he doesn't last very long. i've never had this problem but i know my friend and her boy did, sad thing is one time he lasted two minutes haha, but he told her it was because he was just really horny. i understand on the getting married part, it would be extremely hard. i don't think it's a low thing to say, we all want a good sex life and if your boy isn't fulfilling that i know it's a problem. is there something you two are doing different now than you were before when he could last longer? i'm sorry i couldn't help you much on how to make him last longer, but i tried my best and i hoped it helped you out somewhat. if you need anything else, you know i'm always here to help ♥ LU
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