Question Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 1:06 pm
first off girls, when you have your period how do you let the guy know without it being awkward? if i were to hangout with this boy i like, and he wanted to do something i think it would be weird saying well yeah i have my period because then i feel like he wouldn't even want to touch me or be near me because i know guys get grossed out about that stuff. one time i told this guy over a text and he was like well ok yeah. it was just an awkward situation so how do i come about saying that i have it?
secondly, how do you get things started. i really have the urge to start kissing his neck, but i think it would be sort of random to just start doing it, dont ya think? and i kind of want to give him that feeling like i am giving him a hickey, but i don't think he has ever gotten one before. and i don't want to be like, have you ever gotten a hickey before? because what if he says something like no, and don't give me one or no, i think thats gross!
i just need some tips on how to handle these things, that would be great!
18f by the way
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Kolleigh19 answered Monday August 30 2010, 9:36 pm: Well first, if you have your period, you should be honest. Say you really want to, but you have a girl problem that is interfearing. I have a boyfriend and he understands my period. He knows if i have it, i wont be as normal. Also, he just likes to know if you have it. What if you didnt tell this guy and he did something to you? He would be even more grossed out. So i think your best shot is to tell him you have a girl problem, but you would really like to do whatever he wanted and he should understand.
As for the second question. For me, I normally start off with a simple hug. A hug from behind would work just as well. Start kissing him from the back of the neck and work your way forward. I have another idea. If you have ever kissed this boy, why dont you start off with a loveable kiss, but make it passionate and just work your way down. My boyfriend loves it when i go from his lips to his chin then under his chin and so forth. I am sure whatever you do to this boy, as long as it's passionate and loveable, he will really like whatever you do.
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