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Im 18/f hes 18 too.
We've worked together for about a year now at a restaurant. he cooks, i dish wash and waitress.After a month of working together i said "we should hang out this weekend" but he said " i work all weekend sorry"...which was true, he worked everyday long shifts. for the next few months we talk at work,nothing to deep, i always laugh when we start talking and smile. a week ago i called him and left a voicemail asking if he wanted to go to the movies. he texted me later saying he couldn't today but we should go another time. i let him know he worked way more than me and to let me know when hes free.at work we didnt mention anything about me asking him out, and he didnt say anything about hanging out another time. he seems pretty shy but we get along super well. all i want is to hang out with him more, get to know him but if it doesnt go well work would be awkward. all of our co workers always say "when you guys going on your first date" and stuff like that. we always go along with it and laugh.
i was planning on walking out to our cars one night after work and just tell him i like him, and ask him if hes into me at all.but thats kind of blunt, i dont wanna freak him out, but i really like him, and he wont make a move, even though he seems to flirt with me a lot.
what should i do? (link)
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well i think you should be very honest with this guy. i understand that you are nervous. I think you should keep reminding him that you would love to hang out and its nice being around him. That you could probabl open up to him. Once you think it is the right moment, you should tell him that yu like him. and maybe then he would try to get off work for you. You seem like a nice girl. i bet if you let him know you like him, he will like you too.
I hope i heped(:
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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Well first, if you are in a steady relationship, i dont think he should be hiding things from yu. I think you should give him one more opportunity to tell you or explain to you what is going on. If you are crying then obviously this is panful for you and you shouldnt go through this pain for a guy. If you really know that he is doing something behind your back, then i dont think you have much of a reason to be with hm. I mean, i know you pobably like hima lot and maybe even love him, but if your relationship is built on lies, i dont think thats very healthy. You might want to rethink being with him.
I hope i helped(:
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Ohkaay so my boyfriend is the main star of the team ,hes #24 & hes known as Lil Beast bcus his older broda is known as Beast , and im ditching a weekend in LA to stay and watch the most important game at our school , he doesnt know it yet . And im going to show up at tha game whidd his jersey and a poster buh i dont kno what to put as a saying in the poster any ideaas?
P.S last year we made one for his broda and it said :
"#11 Beast Of All Beast (link)
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you could do "lil beast rise high" or "#24-lil beast from the east" of yu life on the east coast. orrr "not a little beast for long, GO #24"
if none of these worked, im sorry. JUst giving ideas.
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Okay I am 13 years old. I been thinking alot about hand jobs. I have a chance to give like any guy possible one. My problem is though i don't know exactly how to? I need someone to tell me step by step. I know that sounds weird'but i just don't want to do it wrong. Also don't you get cum on your hand? i need MAJOR help on this i dont know anything about HANDJOBS! (link)
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Well i know about this. If you want me to take you step by step i will. First what you have to do is get him turned on, or a boner. You can do that by having him finger you or rubbing his penis. Then after he has a boner, you put your hand in his pants and grab his penis, not hard, because that might hurt him. you can grab sort of in the middle. On a guys penis, the skin is sort of sretchy. What you do is grab his penis and move your hand up towards the tip of the penis, then down towards his ball sack. You do this in a quick motion. not so quick that you are out of control, but quick enough to give the guy pleasure. The guys skin will move with your hand, so dont be alarmed. Also, your arm will probably get tired, it happens to many people. All you have to do is stop for a minute, but rub his penis. again not hard, gentle. Then you can start back up again.
As for the second question, yes, if the guy does sperm, you can get cum on your hand. To me that is a turn on because then you know that you MADE A GUY ACTUALLY CUM(: when a guy cums, it feels really good to them. And after he cums, and it gets on your hand, just wash it off. Its not that big of a deal...To me, if i make my boyfriend cum, im so happy, that idc if cum gets on my hand. Its just the fact that you gave this guy a ton of pleasure.
I hope my advice helped. If it didnt i am sorry. All i can tell you now is pleasure this guy and have fun with it. also not to worry.(:
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18 Female.
Hey!! So I'm not that experienced with guys. I've had sex once, and we didn't really foreplay beforehand, he just fingered my. Well he basically did everything to me because I don't know what I'm doing. I hate being on top, whether its just making out or having sex. Well before we had sex we were making out and he was on top of me and then he like rolled over and put me on top of him. I straddled him, kissed his lips and then sort of sucked on his neck. I felt so dumb when i was kissing his neck though, like I was doing it bad so I laughed a little and stopped and he was like "what?" like he thought something was wrong. I just playfully saying "nothing :)" I played it off like I was just being flirty but really had no idea what I was doing.
I guess I just need advice on how to turn him on. Things I can do to him. I've never given a hj or bj, which is quite embarrassing. I've never told a guy I haven't done it before because I feel like they'd be turned off or something. (link)
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alright well just recently i gave my boyfriend a bj for the first time. I wuz deffinatly nervous, but as i started doing it, it became more comfortable. How i started doing that is like I was making out with him and then made my way down to his penis with my hand. To give a guy a hj, isnt that difficult. All you have to do is hold the penis and move your hand up and down. On a guys penis, the skin is sorta stretchy. so if yu hold yur hand on his penis and move it up and down in a quickish motion, that a hand job. Then when it looks like hes enjoying that, pull his penis out of his pants or if it is already out then slowely go down to his penis and kiss it. Then after you kiss it, lick it and then put it in your mouth a little. Slowely put the penis into yur mouth further and further. Then go up and down, taking it to the tip of the penis and down towards the sac. Do this in a sort of quick motion. Just be careful with this place, its sensitive. The first time can be scary, but after youve done it once, you will want to do it again and again. It will get easier. But the easy way to turn him on is to put your hand on his penis and rub it or play with it. Do that gentily. Once he gets a boner, that when yu start the hj. I know this seems confusing, but it will get easier. One other thing you could do is take his hand and put it where ever you want. Only if your comfortable with that. I am sure he gets turned on by you staddling his body, kissing his neck and etc. Guys love to finger girls. Its also a sign that they wanna have sex. If you think something feels dumb, dont. Because the guy might think its amazing. They wouldnt know if yu were doing it wrong or something. So just be neutral. Be yourself. And have fun(:
If i didnt really answer your question, please let me know. And i am awfle sory if i didnt. If you have more questions, please ask me, i will be here. (:
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what does "eating out" mean? like if someone says "he wants to eat her out" (link)
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Thats easy no offence. its only cuz my boyfriends done it. Well the term "eating out" is like he goes down to your vagina with his mouth. He kisses your vagina. licks it. Plays with his tongue down there. He can finger you while using his tongue to give you pleasure. Honestly, if you are thinking about having a guy eat you out, its safe and also pleasurable. Trust me, i have had my boyfriend to that to me a few times(: Its nice. Just make sure he doesnt bite, well he can, but not very hard. And just be careful of scratching. It hurts pretty badly.
I hope i helped
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okay well me and my boyfriend are planning to have phone sex tonight. I need GOOD tips on what to say. [ please dont tell me I'm too young for this ]
14/f
thanks in advance.
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Well im about your age, so i think im about right for this question. I have had phone sex with my boyfriend before and he loved it. I told him how good he is at virtual humping. I kept it funny yet caring at the same time. If he said in out in out. I would tell him hes doing a great job. I also told him that I would like to do this in real person. I have been with this same guy for nine months now. All you really have to do is keep it neutral and say what yu feel. If yur happy about something. tell him. Let him know you love him. I hope you have fun. And i think i hshould have phone sexx with him soon(:
I hope i helped
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first off girls, when you have your period how do you let the guy know without it being awkward? if i were to hangout with this boy i like, and he wanted to do something i think it would be weird saying well yeah i have my period because then i feel like he wouldn't even want to touch me or be near me because i know guys get grossed out about that stuff. one time i told this guy over a text and he was like well ok yeah. it was just an awkward situation so how do i come about saying that i have it?
secondly, how do you get things started. i really have the urge to start kissing his neck, but i think it would be sort of random to just start doing it, dont ya think? and i kind of want to give him that feeling like i am giving him a hickey, but i don't think he has ever gotten one before. and i don't want to be like, have you ever gotten a hickey before? because what if he says something like no, and don't give me one or no, i think thats gross!
i just need some tips on how to handle these things, that would be great!
18f by the way (link)
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Well first, if you have your period, you should be honest. Say you really want to, but you have a girl problem that is interfearing. I have a boyfriend and he understands my period. He knows if i have it, i wont be as normal. Also, he just likes to know if you have it. What if you didnt tell this guy and he did something to you? He would be even more grossed out. So i think your best shot is to tell him you have a girl problem, but you would really like to do whatever he wanted and he should understand.
As for the second question. For me, I normally start off with a simple hug. A hug from behind would work just as well. Start kissing him from the back of the neck and work your way forward. I have another idea. If you have ever kissed this boy, why dont you start off with a loveable kiss, but make it passionate and just work your way down. My boyfriend loves it when i go from his lips to his chin then under his chin and so forth. I am sure whatever you do to this boy, as long as it's passionate and loveable, he will really like whatever you do.
I hope i helped. If you need anymore advice on stuff with this guy, let me know. I would be happy to help(:
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