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Turning him on! Open to ANYTHING!
18 Female.
Hey!! So I'm not that experienced with guys. I've had sex once, and we didn't really foreplay beforehand, he just fingered my. Well he basically did everything to me because I don't know what I'm doing. I hate being on top, whether its just making out or having sex. Well before we had sex we were making out and he was on top of me and then he like rolled over and put me on top of him. I straddled him, kissed his lips and then sort of sucked on his neck. I felt so dumb when i was kissing his neck though, like I was doing it bad so I laughed a little and stopped and he was like "what?" like he thought something was wrong. I just playfully saying "nothing :)" I played it off like I was just being flirty but really had no idea what I was doing.
I guess I just need advice on how to turn him on. Things I can do to him. I've never given a hj or bj, which is quite embarrassing. I've never told a guy I haven't done it before because I feel like they'd be turned off or something.
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alright well just recently i gave my boyfriend a bj for the first time. I wuz deffinatly nervous, but as i started doing it, it became more comfortable. How i started doing that is like I was making out with him and then made my way down to his penis with my hand. To give a guy a hj, isnt that difficult. All you have to do is hold the penis and move your hand up and down. On a guys penis, the skin is sorta stretchy. so if yu hold yur hand on his penis and move it up and down in a quickish motion, that a hand job. Then when it looks like hes enjoying that, pull his penis out of his pants or if it is already out then slowely go down to his penis and kiss it. Then after you kiss it, lick it and then put it in your mouth a little. Slowely put the penis into yur mouth further and further. Then go up and down, taking it to the tip of the penis and down towards the sac. Do this in a sort of quick motion. Just be careful with this place, its sensitive. The first time can be scary, but after youve done it once, you will want to do it again and again. It will get easier. But the easy way to turn him on is to put your hand on his penis and rub it or play with it. Do that gentily. Once he gets a boner, that when yu start the hj. I know this seems confusing, but it will get easier. One other thing you could do is take his hand and put it where ever you want. Only if your comfortable with that. I am sure he gets turned on by you staddling his body, kissing his neck and etc. Guys love to finger girls. Its also a sign that they wanna have sex. If you think something feels dumb, dont. Because the guy might think its amazing. They wouldnt know if yu were doing it wrong or something. So just be neutral. Be yourself. And have fun(:
If i didnt really answer your question, please let me know. And i am awfle sory if i didnt. If you have more questions, please ask me, i will be here. (:
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