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18F.
So saturday night ..well basically sunday morning at like 4 in the morning I lost my virginity. I've been on birth control for probably 3 years to regulate my period and whatnot..set my alarm every night at 9pm to take it and I do every night. Things were getting hot and heavy and he asked if I wanted to do it. I was ready, so I said yes but asked if he had a condom and he did. It was completely dark, which worries me a bit if he put it on right. The condom stayed on the whole time, I just don't know if it broke or anything. He didn't say it did ..but I don't know if he would tell me it did because he wouldn't want to scare me. After we were done we talked for a bit and I was like you better not get me pregnant or i'll kill you, being serious but in a flirty manor. He said don't worry you're not i promise.
Now I think i'm just freaking myself out. I have this nervous feeling in my stomach and I know I'm doing it to myself because I keep thinking about it and I'm suppose to get my period next thursday and I'm trying to stay calm so I don't get so stressed my period will come late which will freak me out more.
What do you think the chances are I could be pregnant if for some odd reason the condom did break? Or what are the chances at all if i've been on birth control and we used a condom. (link)
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I know you are 99% not pregnant. I can't tell you how many times I've freaked myself out for NO reason and made it worse than it actually was. My best advice is try not to stress yourself about it too much or it will defiantly make your period come later which will make you more freaked out. Also, if it does come later there are many other reasons why it might now because you just had sex for the first time. That not even being the case and there still being a great chance your period will come normally I wouldn't freak out. You'd know if the condom broke and he would know too. I'm sure he would tell you seeing he doesn't want that to happen either. Even if it did which it didn't you being on birth control make it nearly impossible for you to be pregant, especially if you are not even ovulating. It sometimes takes months for couples to get pregnant when not using any protection. Making the chances slim to none you are using double protection. I'm giving you this advice to not freak out and not even think twice about it because you have NOTHING to be worried about. Because I've been in the same scenario as you and it's normal to make ourselves nervous when there's no reason to :)
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Has anyone ever tried the Kardashian's Glamour Tan? If you have, how long does it take to tan your stomach/breasts, etc? My arms/legs are pretty tan, but I want to tan up the other areas because I don't wear bikinis. Thanks guys! (link)
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I'd type into google Kardashians Glamour Tan review..and it will bring up a bunch of websites with people who've tried it and they are usually right I do this with a lot of products!
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18/F
So me nd this guy have been tlkn for about 3 months now and i really lik him. We have yet to do anything sexual at all. I dont wanna be the one to say something..i want him 2 come on to me. He has had so many opportunities to do sumthn. Im always sleepin ova or he'll be at my house. What can i do to get him to at least go sum of the way if not all the way wit me. I dnt wanna have to say i want to have sex wit him. Any Suggestions? (link)
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Assuming you guys kiss...I'd start off with that and then ask him when you feel comfortable if he's ready to do something else...he may feel like he's disrespecting you if he just goes further and may not know how to ask you...so I'd start it off like that!
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Hey guys what are some realy cute, quick hairstyles I can do to my hair? It's about sholder length with side bangs. (Female) thanks! (link)
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Cute quick hairstyles that always work for me are my hair is about the same style...
1. Use your part and sweep up the sides with an elastic and add a cute headband if you want!
2. After I shower i'll put my hair in a braid and that works then if you have time to wait it out take it out when dry add hairspray and scrunch for curly hair if it's straight..or just keep in a side braid
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soo i met this guy at work and he gave me his number and told me to text him sometime. soo i did and we hungout twice after that. we hooked up and watched a movie and i'm starting to feel something for him, like i can't be around him without smiling he just makes me happy. when we hangout he's super flirty and i can tell he's into me but when we text it doesn't seem that way. like he'll give me like a couple word answers and stuff. i've texted him first the past 3 times we've talked but i've made excuses to text him like stuff like "you left something at my house" and stuff like that. i was texting him last night and i don't plan on texting him today cause i want to see if he texts me but i really want to. do any guys do this for a reason? he told me he wants to hang out again but he hasn't picked a time and date and place and stuff. what do you think about thiss? (link)
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One answer to this: DON'T text him today! Wait until he texts you! If more than a few days go by where he doesn't text you it's appropriate to text him and ask how he is and be really chill about it. Guys want girls to be straight forward but not obsessive. He seems to be interested and he will make it happen if he wants to he knows that you are willing to hang out again. Guys overall aren't great texters and most guys only give one word answers, and a lot of times girls feel like it's only happening to them, when it's not:)...so just wait it out and things will be better that way!
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So here's what I want. I want to stop caring so much about boys. I want to be that girl that doesn't get all worked up and obsessed with her highschool relationships. I just wanna have fun and date to date. I don't wanna find that "special guy"! I'm young. But I find myself falling wayyy to attached to boys. When I start to like someone, I like them a lot. For a long time. Kind of like a dog... haha. Haha I'm really loyal. And all it does is hurt me. I've been hurt very, very bad in the past. Cheated on, almost raped, and just a string of jerks. But it hasn't seemed to make me develop any kind of trust issues, or shy away form guys. I look at my bestfriend, and she's so whatever about boys and I feel like it makes them MORE attracted to her. I just wanna be able to say "who cares" to all of that, but I don't know how. My passion is cheerleadimg. I cheer about 21 hours during a seven day week... I love it. I'm also very serious about school. It seems like everything I do, I'm intense about it. Boys... I don't want to be one of them. So what can I do?? How can I just lay off?? I guess my basic question is, how can I care less? Haha that may sound bad, but its what I want. I like having a guy(s) in my life, I don't want that to go away, I just don't want to be sooo emotionally inested in every boy I like. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. That's why I'm choosing to answer this question. I had a best friend in high school and who still has that same kind of personality where she doesn't care what guys think of her or want a serious relationship with anyone but loves to flirt. I've learned a lot from her and through experience that you have to understand the way guys think and the fact is if they are honestly interested and care they will do something about it! They are not going to let a great girl get away & if they see you obsessing over them or other guys it's just going to turn them off most guys want a girl that's care free and have the same attitude towards them. Think about it this way what guys are you most attracted to? It's probably the ones giving you the least amount of attention or the ones who aren't so forward with their feelings. I find myself not liking the boys that I know like me. Guys like a challenge and they will go after it! So, in conclusion fill your time up with doing other things that you love and guy will come to you:) it's less stressful that way and just think of all the time you have in the world to find someone to have a serious relationship with.
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I have good friend and ive always liked her but lately ive really started feelin her. We talk almost everday and if we dont we text. Sometimes she tells me her mom will say were gonna get married one day but its thrown in the conversation and most times we leave it at that or laugh it off.Whenever she needs anything im the first she calls we share almost everything in life. but when i told her liked her things got strange we dont talk as much now and its kinda awkward when we do. im kinda at a lost now nd jus need a little help please and thank you. (link)
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My best advice with the information given would be to start a conversation how you usually would. Keep things like how it used to be and when you feel like it's a right time, I'd say something along the lines like, I'm not sure how you felt about what I said to you, and I don't want you to feel uncomfortable around me now or feel like you can't talk to me, I'd just like to know if you have any of the same feelings back or if you'd like to keep it as just friends like we were and that you are fine with both. This way she can honestly tell you without feeling pressured. :)
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