Q: How could i tell my boyfriend that i loved him without really saying the words "i love you." Also, if my boyfriend is mad at me for any reason, how could i fix it quickly?

Q: my boyfriend and i are having problems cause i cant cum or have an orgasm... What do i do???

Q: 14/female

I feel as if I might die soon. I have felt like this before about a year ago. The think is when I do feel like this I don't get scared. I'm not afraid of dying. If I where to die right now I would be okay with it. I know this isn't good because I told my very trusted god father about this before and he said I shouldn't not mind dying. He cares for me and I don't want to worry him like that again. I, honestly, don't want to grow old. I don't want to be a useless old women.

So what do you think.. I have been having problems with my friends lately and my grandma is on her death bed.

Q: Recently my emotions have been decreasing. My emotions used to be normal, but lately it seems as though they are altering. Some examples are when someone would die or get injured badly I would cry, but when my grandma past away a month ago (who I was very close to), I didn't feel anything. Not happy or sad just nothing. Another example is when I'm with my friends. I used to be happy every time I was with them and now it's blank. I'm finding myself faking laughs or being happy. It's not depression because I'm not sad I'm just, blank. I'm starting to feel like a robot. What should I do? Sorry for making this long.

Q: i have thick hair and i was wondering what is the best curling iron for me...

i use chi flat iron and chi products in my hair...

also my hair has a hard time keeping the curls in...any ideas on that as well? and i hate using hair spray...

thank you gals!

Q: i been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and years we also work together i only found out he was sleeping wit some one eles that we work wit i went mad i posted it up on facebook and mention both there names he went to t boss and showed him texted messages i sent him in anger sayin i was goin to confront her they both went to hr and reported me i after getin transfered to another site that i cant stand i lost alone and dont know wat to do i want my job back were i was but can they do that it dident happn in t work place i ant even seen her

Q: Ok so im a 14 year old female that is bisexual
This kinda all started late last year,
I don't really understand what's wrong with me, if I'm going insane or wat, but last year I had this little obsession of texting a girl then telling them I liked them and stuff and they would get freaked out so then I would move onto the next. I think it might of been a bit of a high I was getting off it..

Now recently i have had a break up with my girlfriend who meant the world to me and I can't stop loving her,. Every morning I wake up with a really heavy feeling inside me and all I think about is her.. When I'm really down I sonetimes cut my wrist, not very deep but enough for them to bleed.

My moods are also changing alot lately quite quickly like one minute ill be happy then the next I'll be depressed, but lately I've been getting really depressed, it is usually at it's worst before I go to sleep and after I wake up


Now recently I have these random Kinda visions in my brain, they last like 1 second then I forget wat they were.


Plzzzz help me!?!? Wats happening to me!!

Q: ok so i had this extremely weird dream i think it might be a sign or something but i was talking to this guy for a while things were going well until i found out he was telling his friends the things we would do together (mind you we did not have sex) so i got pissed off and stopped talking to him for a while then i kinda brushed it off because i know all guys like to brag to there friends but then again it was somewhat disrespectful anyways recently he has been texting me and so i had this dream that i was in his car and then he dropped me off at his h.s. and left and never came back i remember being really mad and felt rejected in the dream....i don't know it just was really weird and when i woke up it kind of made me think, i'd love to hear your advice and i am a 17 year old girl going into senior year if that helps?

Q: 22/f. Not that any of you can read my mind, but any kind of insight would be wonderful. I apologize for the length here, but I need help.
Okay.
When I was 18, my boyfriend at the time had just broken up with me. He had been emotionally abusive, and quite good at convincing me that I was unattractive. Even so, as the vicious cycle goes, I thought I loved him. So these friends of mine said, "You're hot, who cares what he says? Let's do a photoshoot and we'll show you, and you can show him what he's throwing away."
So we did. But, uh, it got carried away, pretty much, and turned kind of pornographic. Like, straight up shots of my *ahem*, and things...I didn't even remember it getting that carried away. I was depressed at the time, and I swear I wasn't even mentally present.
A couple of years later, I did yet ANOTHER nude shoot, modeling for a guy friend of mine. We did more artistic shots, but a couple of them were kinda raunchy. I thought I was doing him a favor, modeling for him so he could work on his portfolio, and I thought it'd be fun to see myself looking hot. It never occurred to me that he was just trying to see me naked, but that's what my current boyfriend says.
Now I'm 22, I've found the man with whom I envision myself having a future, and we're ridiculously happy and in love, but he is absolutely HORRIFIED and disgusted by these indiscretions. He finds them immoral, and he gets panicky when he thinks of my naked pictures being out there. I do, too, don't get me wrong...but the first pair of friends let me search every computer in their house (they're a couple; they live together) and delete ALL pictures of me. My guy was mad at me for not getting copies of them before I deleted them, because he wanted to know what he was dealing with...and he has a right to know, it's true. I just wanted them gone, you know? Even so, my guy's convinced they have copies of them hidden somewhere.
Anyway, I digress.
My boyfriend wants SO BADLY to understand what the hell I was thinking. Why the draw? Why did I want these people to see me naked? Why the hell did I let them KEEP the pictures? Why was I so open about my body and sexuality when I'm really very self-conscious and shy about it?
It drives him crazy to hear me say I don't know, but I really don't! I don't know why I did those things, and I hate myself for doing them. It's disgusting and slutty, and...just...UGH!!
Anyone have any ideas? ANY insight? Any thoughts? Comments? Something?

Thanks for your help...:'(

Q: lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way we have sex you should tell me why and he said it hurt last time with out one then i dont want babies and w.e so your telling me three diff reasons and i was like your not the only one having sex with me here so i think i should know why and he like ignored me on that question. so i dont know what to do.


and just a reminder im well old enough to be having sex and me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them i know all i need to know, ive had one partner so has he.

Q: I mastuerbated to internet porn and i feel ashamed like i have cheated on my girlfreind. would you consider this as cheating on her i love her soooo much! please help

Q: 20F.

I'm just wondering ..why do guys always try fingering a girl first? It's like they want to so badly but I don't see what they get out of it? Do they finger a girl because they think they'll get some in return? Does fingering a girl turn them on? I guess i'm just confused. And if a guy fingers you ..don't you feel sort of obligated to pleasure them back??

Q: So ive never gotten my period before but this same thing happened to me like almost exactly 2 years ago (within those 2 years i had no blood or anything)....when i went to the bathroom 2 days ago and i whiped my... i saw some blood on the toilet paper but there wasnt any in my underwear so i put a pad in and a little bit more blood came out on the pad later in the day. but since that day i havent gotten any blood again! its been 2 days with no signs of blood. do you think i got my period? or no?

Q: I'm 20/f, dating a 20/m.

My boyfriend is 6'2" tall, and he's about 210 pounds, which I think is pretty normal. I've never thought he was chubby or even "teddy bear" sized, just that he wasn't exactly thin or scrawny. I know he was a lot heavier when he was younger, but by the time I met him he'd worked a lot of the weight off, so his weight looks to be about average.

Suddenly, in the past two months, he's started talking about how much he HATES the way he looks, how he "better get used to not liking who he is", and how he's upset because "he'll never get to where he wants to be", physically speaking. He joined a gym (I joined with him, because I want to start eating better and excercising), but he's constantly talking about calories and pounds lost ALL THE TIME.

In the one month that we've been going to the gym, he's stopped eating all junk food and candy, and has stopped drinking EVERYTHING except water and skim milk. He's lost almost 20 pounds in the last month, and he's still saying he hates how he looks.

I tell him I love his body and that I'm really attracted to him physically (it's true), but he brushes me off. He calls himself chubby and fat and he gets so upset that he won't even talk to me about it. It's like he refuses to believe me.

Tonight he said he wasn't leaving the gym until he burned 1000 calories, and he keeps saying things like "i'm just going through things" and "I didn't know this would be so hard". I'm REALLY scared.

What can I do? I'm crying just because I'm so scared and worried about his health, safety, and happiness. PLEASE HELP my boyfriend :(

Q: Okay well thanks for telling me , but I didn't have sex just what I said before , thanks for your help , is there a chance?

Q: so i want to visit my friend in virginia tech, but i live in new jersey. my mom won't let me drive down, so i was hoping i could take a train or a bus. can anyone help me find an affordable route from a friday to a sunday that leaves after 4pm on that friday? thanks!

Q: I am going off to my beach house for a week this week and when we go away, we turn off the air so the whole house gets moist and stuff. Two summers ago my grandma got a huge cough from my beach house and so did i. i was diagnosed at home later with allergetic ashthma that was formed and i wasn'tborn with it. my grandma then caught pneumonia. she fought it for months. we thought it was mold in the vents. so we got it examined and turns out that we DID have mold in our vents but i was allergic to the type in the vents. They cleaned it and then it was fine. but that was summer '08. Now it's summer '10 and that was a while back. OUr beach house has meadows behind it and a bay. I am scared that deadly mold has formed over the years. how long does it take to kill you and what are the symptoms? do you think that it formed? my brother got a sinus infection from it a couple weeks ago

Q: i need a virus free site that wont give my virus a phone but will work for straight talk ? im under a 'verizon wireless' tower for straight talk, but everytime i get the 'password' sent to my phone, it says verizon blocked premium messaging

Q: What's a good song that describes someone as being amazing? Something like 'I Just Call You Mine' by Martina McBride but .. not. And it doesn't have to be country. Preferably not. xP Thanks.

Q:
Ive lost 30 pounds since this summer and now Im losing weight slowly I do work out. Ive tried girdles and I cant get a corset because they aren't in stores and I cant get one online. When I wear clothes my stomache shows. How do I get rid of my stomach fast or something I can wear to hide it?

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