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How do I tell her?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 months now and I'm ready to take it another step further. She acts kinda like she would have sex... but I'm not sure. When were making out we get on eachother and she lets me take off her pants and stuff, but we never go any further. How do I ask her if she wants to have sex without making her making her mad? I'm afraid theres a possibility she will say no and get mad.
Thanks in Advance.
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Communication, as with every problem on here, is KEY.
If you never let her know, she'll never know. You have to talk to her. Although 2 months isn't that long, if she's a special girl, she'll at least listen. If she is willing to go further, then she'll say so. But please don't be forceful, which it sounds like you wouldn't be anyway.
Please, use protection so you won't get STDs. I'm pretty against birth control methods, but I'm all for protecting yourself against STDs, because they can kill you ;]
--Jack
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i know that when me and my boyfriend first got together and would make out and be all over eachother, we never went further either because we werent sure if the other person did or we were to scared, BUT once we talked about it, over the phone or even computer, we knew what we wanted, and i can tell that since you seem vvery nice and considering of your girlfreinds feelings, that if you just kind of came out and asked her what she is comforatble doing, because 2 months isnt THAT long, but you can only know if you ask and if your sweet and dont make it seem like you just wanna have sex, BUT you have to respcet her decision If she wants to wait! because from experience SEX can change ALOT, attatchment, doing it ALOT. lol. but if you need any further help let me know!. but just takl about it, be comforatble talking about it :)
hope i helped!
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