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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

What is an orgasim?

The columnist below me is wrong. An orgasm isn't known as "fingering". Basically, it's a great feeling you get when performing sexual acts. Not everyone can get one though, but once you do.. you will definitely know.

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does oral and anal sex on both guys and girls taste discusting? what does it taste like?

Oral sex doesn't taste disgusting, unless the person doesn't shower and has horrible hygiene. However, people don't really "taste" anything when they have anal sex.

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what is sex?

It is something that happens when two people really love each other.... or when a penis enters a vagina and goes back and forth.

Porn should answer your question better.

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Is it ok if I put peanut butter on my vagina then let my dog lick it?

That's like putting peanut butter on your dogs vagina & licking it. Disgusting. It can cause infection, and it's just a sticky situation.

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Long story short, my boyfriend and I messed around a bit yesterday. We didn't have sex, but he fingered me.

While he did it, my legs were trembling a lot. That's never happened before when I have been fingered. Is it normal? Was I really that turned on and pleasured to the point where my legs shook?

It's completely normal. You probably had an orgasm lol.

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does size really matter

Not necessarily, the width does. However, every girl is different and prefers different things.

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I'm a 21 year old girl and i've never given a hj or done oral. I've hooked up with guys, but it's always them who get touchy feely and i never return the favor because i have ZERO clue what to do. I'm embarrassed to tell them that i've never done it, because i feel like i'm at the age that should have at least tried those things a few times. I'm sure there are guys who wouldn't care and who would walk me through it, but i keep thinking that i'm gonna end up getting the one who looks at me wierd and then things would be awkward...or if i didn't even mention i've never given a hj or bj, and it ended up going wrong, i would just die of embarrassment. So guys, i want your honest opionion please! What would you do? Do you even notice if the girl is a newbie at certain things or what?

I'm not a guy answering your question, but I'll help you :) A guy will not give you a weird look as long as you're touching his penis.. don't worry about that. At some point, every girl did it for the FIRST time so we all know what you're experiencing. There really isn't a right or wrong way to do it.. you just kind of go with the flow and do it. You will be able to tell from the guys expression on how well you're doing. Even if you don't know what you're doing, pretend that you do. The best thing you can do is watch some porn :) You'll be able to visualize what you're supposed to do and it'll help you out.

Have funnnn :P

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What happens when the guys finishes first and he just stops leaving you unsatisfied? Do they know to keep going or do us girls have to tell them to not stop?

Uhm, you're talking about sex right? If you are then tell him to pleasure you first :P

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17/F

My boyfriend of 8 months and I just had sex for the first time yesterday. At first it took a while, because I was a virgin and my hymen hadn't broke yet. It hurt a little, and I was bleeding afterward. It's now the day after; It doesn't hurt anymore, but it's still bleeding. Is that normal? Thanks a bunch! :)

It's completely normal. Some girls bleed the next few times they have sex as well; but you're fine though. Nothing to worry about for now, but if it continues to bleed for more than 3-4 days, get checked out. Good luck :)

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F/ 18.
HJ= Hand Job.
okay so i was wondering, how i could give my bf a hj?

I think it would be best if you could actually visualize it and learn by watching = Soft core porn :)

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what is the best way for size. I been looking in to products they sale, they dont seem to work for penis enlargement like they say. If you can answer this question or give me a good product name or some result info. Im looking for a BIGGER and THICKER PENIS. THX.

Razhie is correct my friend. There is no way to enlarge your penis. You're sh!t out of luck.

But, there are always strap ons?

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Whats something i can say to a girl that is in love with me, but i dont feel the same? And how do i say it right after we had drunk sex?

Don't have sex with her and then tell her. That's so pathetic. Simply tell her, "I'm sorry but I don't see you more than a friend."

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Do all vaginas have a hole?

Really........?

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is there such thing as saggy vaginas?

Yup, and you'll have one too when you're old :) Unless you're a guy.

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is queeping during sex normal? that kind of fart sound

Yes, it's normal and it occurs when there is air.

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this site is typical right wing bunkum. people come to these sites for quick an relatively painless ways of committing suicide, not to be told "no, don't do it, u have so much to live for!!!!!!!!!!" Believe me, most of us have already thought through the alternatives, been to numerous councellors, tried antidepressants etc. these treatments just don't work for everyone. Just offer practical solutions for those who have made the moral right to choose to end their lives, or shut the hell up and stay off this forum!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you crazy? There must be something wrong with you if you think that people on this web site will give a "solution" to how to commit suicide, you must be out of your damn mind. You need to shut the hell up and take your opinion somewhere else.

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Okay, I have had sex numerous times. And I can always tell when I'm done. But I've never actually had an orgasm. I've been close. Never did though. I've heard that it might be because of the guy, but I think it might just be me. Idk, it really bother me...
Anyone have any ideas?

A lot of girls actually have a hard time getting an orgasm, so there is nothing wrong with you. Different positions can help out. So, experiment with your boyfriend :)

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can i be pregnant if my boyfriends hand had barly any prurm on it and fingered me

No, you can't. Maybe next time you guys will be a little more cautious :)

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okay so i'm a 16 YO girl and i masturbate haha. i like doing it, it feels great and i orgasm every time i do but i feel like i'm the only girl that does it... i mean i always read that girls do it a lot to but i feel like if i told my friends they'd be totally grossed out.
so my question is, do guys know girls masturbate? like if i was with a guy and i told him i masturbate would he be grossed out or think i'm weird or desperate or something? anywayss let me know what you think. thanks!

Everyone has at one point masturbated. Don't feel like you are the only girl that does it, because you're NOT. Guys wouldn't be grossed out because they do it too, it's normal and there is nothing wrong with it. Most people are embarrassed to admit that they do and they think that others would be grossed out. To answer your question, yes guys know that girl's masturbate. Most guys won't be grossed out, it actually turns them on and they won't think you're weird or desperate. It's normal and you're not the only one that does it :)

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Im 15 is my penis small? its like 5 1/2 inches

Lol, well that's the average size for a male. Don't worry, penis size is not all girls really care about and besides, you're only 15.

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